I can tell that I get short with them and the convos...but mean? I don't see that. But she can...and it's not the first time she's seen me do it...or said it.
So now i'm wondering where this comes from....why do I do it? I know i get defensive a lot. But why mean? I don't understand. The only theory I could come uup with was that it was learned from my parents. If that is the case, how do I start sheding love instead of this meanness.......? Just being aware of it helps...but how do I become active about it? I don't know.
Does anyone find that others notice a mean streak in you after you break up with someone....or become interested in other women? Does this even make sense?