Well. I looked up the family friend who molested and may have raped me on the sex offender registry for the state he used to live in and HE WAS THERE!! Hair color/name/eye color/race/heigh/weight was all correct. But his name is pretty common, so...I dont know. It had his middle name too, also common. Does anyone know of a way that I can ask him what his middle name is or otherwise figure it out without seeming too obvious?