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sad beyond no return 
18th-Dec-2006 01:23 pm
sad  is just an under statement as many of you know my best friend past away in october. well his birthday is on christmas and all i can do is think about him i have been crying for 4 hours straight now i'm pissed that he left that he's gone and i never got the chances to say my good byes i'm hurting so much right now. i feel abonden an so weak right now all i have been doing is writting but it just makes me cry more i'm sick n tired of listening to people tell me just get over it, move on, o well shit happens. it litteraly makes me wanna puke. i feel like i can't do this anymore like i'm stuck in slow motion an suffocating 

i just feel like I CAN'T DO THIS ANYMORE
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18th-Dec-2006 08:17 pm (UTC)
Honey, you'll never get over your friend's passing, I'm sad that people want you to believe that you will. You can still say goodbye to him, I suggest lighting a candle and saying or writing everything that you would say but direct it at him in voice. I'm sure he'll get your message and I'm sure he misses you as much as you miss him. Keep his spirit alive with happy memories, I know you can get through this hard time.
Take care of you,
Love,
Natasha~
http://love.voicesofstrength.org
xo
18th-Dec-2006 08:38 pm (UTC)
It's so wrong that they're telling you to get over the loss of someone so close after only a month and a half. It took me years to cry out all the sadness when I lost someone that close. The feelings are too intense to just ignore. When the tears seem to be overwhelming, just remember that he's still with you in spirit, and that he wouldn't be angry that you're upset. He knows how much he meant to you, even if you never got to say it
19th-Dec-2006 12:04 am (UTC)
*Hugs* Sorry about your loss, sending you loving thoughts.
19th-Dec-2006 04:42 am (UTC)
I've never understood why so many people believe you can just "get over it" when something bad happens. It's not that simple. Many safe hugs to you.
19th-Dec-2006 05:15 am (UTC)
lots of hugs.
19th-Dec-2006 05:20 pm (UTC)
I'm sad that people tell you to just get over it and move on. I hope you never do actually. We are what keeps our loved ones memories alive when they pass. We do learn to look at it differently and accept it, but I don't think you could ever 'get over it'.
Take your time.
Remember your friend.
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