i only recently found this community through looking in my sister's lj friends page. i never realized there were actual lj communities out there helping victims of such abuse. thank you to all who started it. my sister and i were both molested by our uncle at young ages. it helped throughout my childhood that my mom and sister were always there for me, and my dad knew but never pressed it. now that most of our family knows it's nice to have such love and support. my sister and i were blessed to be surrounded by loving aunts who have protected us from worse. thank you for making this community for survivors to come to.