painstainedeyes (painstainedeyes) wrote in _survivors_,


How is it I am being told the only reason I am mad at someone who has sexual assault issue (as in the abuser not the abused) is because it brings up my triggers and I have no right to be angry with this person because they have not gotten in trouble by the law for it, yet he is constantly making shrude comments to one of my friends and groping my other friends ass? and when I say I think he shouldn't be were he is I get told I am being unfair? what the shit is up with that?

with love,
Tags: gaslighting, invalidation

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