My boyfriend and I had a long talk the other night. He told me I treat him like my father because I so desperately need one in my life now that mine is gone. I tried to tell him it wasn't true, but then he brought up the times when I can't be touched or kissed or anything by him because it makes me feel dirty. He told me the only reason I would feel like that is because I see him as my father.
Does this happen to anyone else?
I need to know I'm not alone..
I thought about calling my daddy the other day. It's sooooo hard loving him and hating him at the same time. I don't know what to do, what to think. BAH! I miss the crap out of him and I never want to see him again. I want him to be happy but I want him to suffer.
And it still bothers me that he knows he hurt me. When my mom read her speech in court telling him of all the ways I am fucked up, I wanted to just crawl in a corner and die. I am supposed to appear strong in front of my daddy! I really hate that he knows how weak he made me. Ugh.