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26th-Apr-2005 08:20 am
pixy_pistol
I found this on LJ while looking for a LJ AlAnon and CoDA to join. Ha, the longer I am here on LJ, the more I absolutely love what LJ has to offer!!

I am currently in the middle of a divorce, and have found that abuse can take on many many forms. I have a good support system currently, and have my ups and down days, but one day at a time I am firmly and completely removing this person from my life.

I hope to be a friend as well as make friends here. I don't want to go into my history at this time, but I have seen a lot of growth in myself over the years. I refuse to be a victim. I will post my history a little at a time.

I hope every one has a good day.

My motto for today is: Abuse is born out of weakness and fear. I am strong and I am unafraid.
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26th-Apr-2005 08:22 am (UTC)
innana88
A warm, warm welcome to you. Wonderful motto. I applaud your courage and I'm so glad you found us, for you and for us! *hugs of support and welcome*
26th-Apr-2005 08:34 am (UTC)
cantodialluna
nice motto! welcome to the community!
26th-Apr-2005 10:25 am (UTC)
martialarts4lyf
Welcome to the community. :) I'm Laura, I'm 17. You replied to one of my post earlier. Thanks again. :) I look forward to post from you and I hope we can help each other. This is a great community. There are a lot of great people here.
26th-Apr-2005 12:30 pm (UTC)
magic730dreams
welcome! I love feeling the confidence of knowing we won't be victims again! I have just found that in the last couples months. I look forward to learning more about you! :-) -Brittany
27th-Apr-2005 10:56 pm (UTC)
rendancer
You said CoDA --are you a child of deaf adults??
28th-Apr-2005 07:32 am (UTC)
pixy_pistol
Hee, no, I'm a Codependent Anonymous.

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