hi i am new here and i have cut myself for a long time but i have recently stopped in the past two years for my boyfriend cause it really hurt him. now everything seems to bother me more and more and i don't know how to deal because i used to just hurt myself. i guess i am askin for some help and advice what should i do? i know if i hurt myself it might make me feel better and i would really upset and hurt my boyfriend. so what do i do? any suggestions? please get back to me if anyone as any ideas. thanks in advance!