||[Feb. 14th, 2005|11:32 am]
hey people who love everyone. i love everyone too, but i am in kinda of a sticky situation right now between people i love, (but dont nessicarily like right now) |
i was wondering if there were any bright minds out there with some adivce or wisdom i might use.
problem: i have a roomate that has continualy become less and less desirable to live with. her best friend who i love and addore has moved into the house and i have opened up my room to here so she can stay comfortably. meanwhile less desirable roomate has started to fight more and more with loved and adored room mate. less desirable roomate has also become very passive agressive with adored roommate #2. lastly less desirable roommate has become cold and distant with me. less desirable roommate hates the idea of a chore list on the baises that everybody has a diffrent level of tolorable messyness, and is (of course) the messyest one. she is horrible at cleaning up after herself and is all around undesirable to interact with at this point. now, i would just kick her out and find a new roomate, but i really like her best friend, adored roommate #1, and if i kick her out, then roommate #1 will likely leave too. so i have to figure out a way to make less desirable roommat leave on good terms, or at least terms where it would be unreasonable to make addored roomate#1 to go to. its really a pickle!
please make a suggestion!