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Handling racist father in law... [19 Jun 2010|05:57pm]

Has anyone else had to go through this? I am multiracial, my fiance is white. My fiance and I have been toghether 6 years this august. When we first got toghether, my family was great about us being toghether, and so was his mom's side of the family. Now, even before his father and his grama on his dad's side met me, they had a conversation on my fiance's porch and told him that they would disown him, etc, and continued to degrade and talk about me like I couldn't hear when I was sitting on his couch listening to everything that was being said. Since then, his grama has become nicer and nicer to me, and finally told my fiance that as long as he was happy with me that was all that mattered, and that I was a nice girl. I am welcome in her home, get christmas gifts from them every year, and they (his grandparents) treat me like a human.
His father told him that "it would be okay if you were just screwing her but if you bring her home we're gonna have issues"...that was 5 1/2 years ago. We had a daughter toghether who passed away before she was born, and after she was born, he said, "well don't bring any of your mongrel children home to me..."...i've since had two more losses and we're trying to get pregnant again. I wonder what he'll say next. It's almost become a game to me.
The other day, I went to his house with my fiance while he ran some errands, and after I went into his house to use the restroom (i was sitting in the car for over 2 hours until then, I just couldn't hold it anymore; I knew I wasn't allowed in) in front of company, he told Mark that I was no longer allowed on his property OR in his house, even if I did just sit in the car...nice. Mark can pick through my mother's Christmas ham in her oven on Christmas Eve (she thought it was funny and made a joke out of it when she caught him stealing pieces of her ham and we all still laugh at it), but I can't use his dad's restroom on a regular day. I have bent over backwards and been as nice, and respectful as I could to this man and he insists on being as evil as he can to me, and my children. I don't understand how someone can be so...hateful. I'm out of options and i'm almost done being nice to this man. I've decided that he isn't invited to my wedding either. My fiance and I are getting married this August, and our wedding will be on our anniversary NEXT year, and I really, really, don't even want him to come- IF he decides he will come. Last time Mark brought it up, he said no. Wasn't comming to his only son's-only CHILD's wedding. Well, no sweat off my back, he may just make the entire event miserable anyway. I really try to not stoop to his level and fight hate with hate, but after all these years being treated lower than dirt by this man, it's hard. I really hope karma comes back to bite him in the ass.
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thank you soooooo much [17 Apr 2008|05:19pm]


gawd i dont even know where to begin.
first i just want to say thank you for even having a group like this
it lets me know that my stepdad is wrong
and he doesnt know every damn thing.

im 19. im mixed. but if you had you you would classify me as black.
white guys.
cant help it. and what sucks the most is i get judged and hear so much shit for MY PERSONAL PREFRENCE.
how gay is that.

anywho. i dont wanna make this tooo long.
but i just wanted to post this and say hi and all that jazz

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hi all [29 Mar 2008|12:20pm]

Hi all, i'm Kristina, and my fiance is Mark, mark4586529 and we're highschool sweethearts, toghether for 4 years on August 14 this year, and we're getting married August 8, 2008. We live in Texas, anyone from Texas here?
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New up in here! [10 Dec 2007|11:04pm]

[ mood | Happy ]

Hey everyone!

I'm Agnes, 22 years old but will be turning 23 on December 12th!! My boyfriend is Chris, 30 years old. He's from Mississippi and I'm from England, U.K. We're an interracial couple that met while he was stationed over here with the USAF. Well, thats about it really! :)

Agnes :)

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[09 Jul 2007|08:24pm]

i need advice.

i'm sort of ashamed to be seen in public with my boyfriend, who's white. he wants to show me around but i'm afraid of getting dirty looks. the fact that we live in the south doesn't help either. i already get dirty looks in public for whatever reason and my family is even watched or followed around in some places... i just think being seen with him would make it worse.

help, please.
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Say hi [24 Jun 2007|09:44am]

[ mood | bouncy ]

My Husband and I are an interracial couple. We have two beautiful children and look forwarding to expanding our family. I love to be apart of commuities such as this and just share and learn from other people. I am usually post on my livejournal account and would love to make new friends and to commicate. I am very open-minded and am a very spiritual person. I am 24 and currently reside in florida.

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The typical [27 Feb 2007|02:06am]

[ mood | okay ]

I'm slightly overwhelmed. This is my first post in this group (17/f/Boston, MA).

Anyway, I'm white and my boyfriend is black. Not only do I have to face the looks and things the general public have to say but the real problem I'm having is my father.

He won't even admit that I have a boyfriend and all he could do was give me a speech on how black men are "not commited" and "never stay".

I'm just going to keep this short and to the point; the world sucks and we all know it but taking it just one day at a time and being with my beloved lets me know that it's worth it.

It really is.
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Thanks [29 Jan 2007|01:12am]

Thank you very much for accepting me into
the fold. I myself would be an individual
who has always loved women of all kinds
but found that I have a definite affinity
for Caucasian (more correctly Italian)
women. I am not ashamed of this fact, FAR
from it. I'm happy to be apart of a community
of like minded individuals & I'm looking
forward to sharing points of view as well
as various perspectives on the intricacies
of interracial relationships / friendships.
I wish you all well and look forward to
interacting with those of you who have the
desire to get to know the real me. I guess
I've said enough for now. Be Well.
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SQUEE! [19 Dec 2006|01:55am]

[ mood | sleepy ]

Wow, I forgot joined this. Well, for people who still come by to look at it every so often, I have pictures from a trip I took with my boyfriend.

Hi. I'm Alissa, and I don't remember when I joined. Hahaha. Anyway,  for a brief introduction, I've been probably interested in guys from other racial backgrounds for the longest time. I'm happy that there are other people who are like me, and I don't feel like I'm the only one who can share my experiences. But other than that...*yawn.* I'm too tired to post details, so I'm gonna give you a link!


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I got tha fever...........you feel me? [28 May 2005|01:26am]

[ mood | accomplished ]

Ive got jungle fever, shes got jungle fever
Weve got jungle fever, were in love
Shes gone black-boy crazy,
Ive gone white-girl hazy
Aint no thinking maybe, were in love

She cant love me, I cant love her
Cause they say were the wrong color
Staring, gloating, laughing, looking
Like weve done something wrong
Because we show love strong, get real, come on
Calling us names too bad to mention
But we pay them no attention
For color blind are inner feelings
If we feel happiness
And know our loves the best, forget their mess

Ive got jungle fever, shes got jungle fever
Weve got jungle fever, were in love
Shes gone black-boy crazy, Ive gone white-girl hazy
Aint no thinking maybe, were in love
Shes got jungle fever, Ive got jungle fever
Weve got jungle fever, were in love
Ive gone white-girl crazy, shes gone black-boy hazy
Were each others baby, were in love

Everyones created equal
Hell with all you ignorant people

Trying to stereo type us
You really ought to quit
Cause you dont know jack, you make us sick
Get off my jock, youre trying to ride me
Because I got my girl beside me
Youll only make yourself look stupid
I love youre trying to dis
Cause weve got happiness, I bet youre pissed

Ive got jungle fever, shes got jungle fever
Weve got jungle fever, were in love
Shes gone black-boy crazy, Ive gone white-girl hazy
Aint no thinking maybe, were in love
Shes got jungle fever, Ive got jungle fever
Weve got jungle fever, were in love
Ive gone white-girl crazy, shes gone black-boy hazy
Were each others baby, were in love


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