I NEED YOUR VOTE...Yes, that's right. It's mainly out of my indecisiveness. I know now that "playing the field" probably isn't a good idea, so before I do it,
I want to know which of these 4 boys is the best for me if I want a good, fairly romantic, classically sweet long-term thing. I know it's bad that I'm "auditioning the part" or whatever, but is it so bad that I have a goal for a relationship? I know, I know, it's bad. But I just want a vote.
He's really hot, people tell me he's nice, he seems nice, he's smart, he lives nearby, and he seems to like me.
Unfortunately we don't share many similar interests, I think he laughed at me today (even though he later said he liked my skirt and was very sweet) and I can't tell if he likes me or if he's just being nice.
He's a musician and has similar interests as me, he's in my extra-curricular activity, he's really hot, and he's had a long-term relationship before, and we talk sometimes so it's not like I don't know him. He seems like a really cool guy and I could see myself talking with him and him talking to me for hours on end.
Unfortunately, I know his ex-hookup who's told me that he cheated on his long-term gf to be with her, after a few breakups with the long-term girl (rocky relationship after she switched schools) and the ex hookup tells me he's weird and makes fun of him, but what do you expect? Also I can't tell if he has any interest in me, he may just like me as a friend.
He's very solid and down-to-earth, intelligent, pretty cute, he has a car (superficial but it's good for transport, so I don't have to rely on my parents) and he is very outgoing--example is that I don't know him well but today he invited me to go with him to his friend's party. I can't go, but you get the point.
Unfortunatley, although he's cute I'm not as physically attracted to him as I am to Matt and Greg. He's on the "dorky" side which can be cute sometimes, he's not one of those smooth-talkers (which is good?) and I feel like personality should mean more than "sexy aura". He seems to be the most obviously interested.
He's cute, funny, and today when our English class when to a farm to do some reading of Romeo and Juliet (romantic, yes, haha, and a weird English teacher.) he helped me with the reading and was really cute--casual shoulder-touching without being sleazy, he put his head on my shoulder, etc. He's interesting and we get along, and he gives me compliments other than, "You're hot" (which he hasn't said...haha)
Unfortunatley, he made my friend cry two years ago and says to people taht he's not a nice guy even though he hasn't seemed to have pissed anyone off in years. Still, he hasn't had a long term girlfriend as far as I know, but I feel like the fact that he was a jerk as a kid shouldn't matter now.
I know there are worse things in the world, but this is pretty important to me right now and I just want your vote. You can back it up with an explanation but you don't have to. Advice is OK too. I'm sure a lot of you are opposed to this system, but I'm one of those numerical people. Also, your vote will not make a huge difference, I don't rely on random votes to make decisions like these. It's just a factor. Ok so please vote!!!! thanks