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Borderline Personality Disorder
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Created on 2004-11-04 16:41:31 (#5037050), last updated 2009-11-25
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| Name: | Borderline Personality Disorder |
|---|---|
| Location: | Washington, United States |
| Website: | BPD Central |
| Membership: | Open |
| Posting Access: | All Members |
I created this site for people who suffer from Borderline Personality Disorder. I, myself suffer from BPD. I know first hand what it is like to live with this disorder. Others may join if they suffer from some of the symptoms of the disorder. BPD is one of the most under diagnosed Disorders. Having said that, I will list the criterion.
The Relentless Search for Mr/Mrs. Right
Critertion 1. Unstable and intense interpersonal relationships, with marked shifts in attitudes toward others (from idealization to devaluation or from clinging dependency to isolation and avoidance), and prominent patterns of manipulation of others.
The Impulsive Character
Criterion 2. Impulsiveness in at least two areas that are potentially self-destructive, e.g., chemical abuse, sexual promiscuity, gambling, shoplifting, excessive spending, overeating, anorexia nervosa, or bulimia.
Radical Mood Shifts
Criterion 3. Affective instability: marked shifts from baseline mood to depression, irritability, or anxiety, usually lasting a few hours and only rarely more than a few days.
Raging Bull
Criterion 4. Inappropriate, intense anger, or lack of control of anger, e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights.
Pleas for Help
Criterion 5. Recurrent suicidal threats, gestures, or behavior, or self-mutilating behaviors.
Who Am I
Criterion 6. Marked and persistent identity disturbance manifested by uncertainty in at least two of the following: self-image, sexual orientation, long-term goals or career choice, type of friends desired, perferred values.
Always Half Empty
Criterion 7. Chronic feelings of emptiness or boredom.
"Others Act Upon Me, Therefore I Am"
Criterion 8. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment.
I got this list of 8 criteria's defining BPD from the book: "I Hate you, Don't leave me." This list of criteria is in the DSM-III-R.
DISCLAIMER:This list is by no means to dianogse people. I am using it for a reference. If you feel that you may have BPD, please see a mental health professional and discuss your concerns with them. This site is mainly for those who have already been dianogsed with BPD, however, others may join if they suffer from some of the above listed behaviors.
IF you are in serious need of help Call:
1-800-367-7287- teen crisis hotline open 24/7
1-800-949-0057- suicide hotline
1-800-448-1833- suicide hotline 2
*If you or anyone you know on LJ writes about wanting to commit suicide please refer to this*: http://www.livejournal.com/users/anglebaby/289528.html
If you decide to join, please post an intro so that I/we can get to know you a little better.
FAQ:
How do I join?: Go to the 'user info' page and look at the top off the page. There you will see: "Community Information. Below is information about the "Borderline Personality Disorder" community on LiveJournal. To join this community, click here. You may leave the community at any time." You click the link to join the community.
I joined but how do I post?: To post you go to your regular journal update page. Near the bottom,right before the 'Update Journal' button, it says: "You're looking at the simple page. For more options, click here." Click the 'click here' button and it brings up more info. To post in a community you click 'Journal to post in:' and it will name your journal and any other communities you are in. Click the community you want to post in.
RULES:
1. Please be kind to one another.
2. NO Flaming.
3. NO Trolls! I will ban you!
4. Please do not fight with one another, take that outside of the community.
5. You may promote as long as it is similar to the issues in this community.
Books written for People who suffer from Borderline Personality Disorder:
I Hate You-don't leave me: Understanding The Borderline Personality.
By: Jerold J. Kreisman, M.D., & Hal Straus
Lost in the Mirror: An inside look at Borderline Personality Disorder.
By: Richard A. Moskovitz M.D.
The Angry Heart: Overcoming Borderline and Addictive Disorders: An Interactive Self-Help Guide.
By: Ph.D. Joseph Santoro
Borderline and Beyond.
By: Laura Paxton
Thanks to:
for the wonderful layout.
The Relentless Search for Mr/Mrs. Right
Critertion 1. Unstable and intense interpersonal relationships, with marked shifts in attitudes toward others (from idealization to devaluation or from clinging dependency to isolation and avoidance), and prominent patterns of manipulation of others.
The Impulsive Character
Criterion 2. Impulsiveness in at least two areas that are potentially self-destructive, e.g., chemical abuse, sexual promiscuity, gambling, shoplifting, excessive spending, overeating, anorexia nervosa, or bulimia.
Radical Mood Shifts
Criterion 3. Affective instability: marked shifts from baseline mood to depression, irritability, or anxiety, usually lasting a few hours and only rarely more than a few days.
Raging Bull
Criterion 4. Inappropriate, intense anger, or lack of control of anger, e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights.
Pleas for Help
Criterion 5. Recurrent suicidal threats, gestures, or behavior, or self-mutilating behaviors.
Who Am I
Criterion 6. Marked and persistent identity disturbance manifested by uncertainty in at least two of the following: self-image, sexual orientation, long-term goals or career choice, type of friends desired, perferred values.
Always Half Empty
Criterion 7. Chronic feelings of emptiness or boredom.
"Others Act Upon Me, Therefore I Am"
Criterion 8. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment.
I got this list of 8 criteria's defining BPD from the book: "I Hate you, Don't leave me." This list of criteria is in the DSM-III-R.
DISCLAIMER:This list is by no means to dianogse people. I am using it for a reference. If you feel that you may have BPD, please see a mental health professional and discuss your concerns with them. This site is mainly for those who have already been dianogsed with BPD, however, others may join if they suffer from some of the above listed behaviors.
IF you are in serious need of help Call:
1-800-367-7287- teen crisis hotline open 24/7
1-800-949-0057- suicide hotline
1-800-448-1833- suicide hotline 2
*If you or anyone you know on LJ writes about wanting to commit suicide please refer to this*: http://www.livejournal.com/users/anglebaby/289528.html
If you decide to join, please post an intro so that I/we can get to know you a little better.
How do I join?: Go to the 'user info' page and look at the top off the page. There you will see: "Community Information. Below is information about the "Borderline Personality Disorder" community on LiveJournal. To join this community, click here. You may leave the community at any time." You click the link to join the community.
I joined but how do I post?: To post you go to your regular journal update page. Near the bottom,right before the 'Update Journal' button, it says: "You're looking at the simple page. For more options, click here." Click the 'click here' button and it brings up more info. To post in a community you click 'Journal to post in:' and it will name your journal and any other communities you are in. Click the community you want to post in.
1. Please be kind to one another.
2. NO Flaming.
3. NO Trolls! I will ban you!
4. Please do not fight with one another, take that outside of the community.
5. You may promote as long as it is similar to the issues in this community.
Books written for People who suffer from Borderline Personality Disorder:
I Hate You-don't leave me: Understanding The Borderline Personality.
By: Jerold J. Kreisman, M.D., & Hal Straus
Lost in the Mirror: An inside look at Borderline Personality Disorder.
By: Richard A. Moskovitz M.D.
The Angry Heart: Overcoming Borderline and Addictive Disorders: An Interactive Self-Help Guide.
By: Ph.D. Joseph Santoro
Borderline and Beyond.
By: Laura Paxton
Thanks to:
for the wonderful layout.Interests (145):
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