My boyfriend and I are amazingly frustrated with the game presently. We recently transferred servers, on word that there was a guild on the new one that would be a perfect fit (saw an advert, spoke to the recruiter, etc), light rp, light/medium raiding with progression in mind, and aid in gearing up, light/medium pvp, old world content still being run.
Awesome. Everything we want! So, we put in a transfer. The recruiter contacts me and said there's a problem with the guild, and they will be restructuring, but it's okay as long as we don't mind being guilded during a bit of upheaval. We'll still have a place. Okay. Transfer finished. We go over, and chat with them a bit here and there, put in applications on their guild website, things are still rocky, but being worked out!
Until a few days later, when there's a message stating the guild had disbanded. But it'll be okay, she'll still get us in with good people, promises of guilding with friends, and what do we want in a guild?? So, I send her a message, detailing everything. Oh, maybe this one, but they're heavy rp, or maybe this one, but they're not doing old world, and want committed 3x week raiders, and you have to be geared.
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And that was almost a month and a half ago. And the last we heard from her about this. We've spent almost $100 to get ourselves transferred, and not even a word of hello, or a general inquiry of how we have been doing.
My boyfriend has posted a few times on the server's recruitment boards, stating in great detail what we are looking for, but nobody wants under-geared people. The battlegroup there is awful too, and it would take weeks of grinding to even begin getting the marks needed for those purples.
It's been about two weeks since I've even logged in, because it's too depressing to yell for groups for 90 minutes, only to be invited, added, then told I'm not geared well enough, or someone's friend is getting the spot instead. I'm at a point where even the thought of the expansion is no longer intriguing, which makes me amazingly sad. Usually, after a little while, the burnout passes, but this time it's just sinking in deeper and deeper.
What do you think ladies? Straw that broke the camel's back, or have I just given up too easily?