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26 October 2008 @ 09:37 pm
Do you think that gay people ought to be legally prevented from having sex, like 24% of Britons? Or that monogamy is natural and polyamory is unnatural like 70% of Britons? Do you think that men who sleep around are studs who deserve to be lauded, but women who do so are slags to be condemned?

The Graun/Observer's Sex Uncovered survey is by turns fascinating and terrifying.

I don't understand why people think that being judgemental about other people's relationships is acceptable. If the person across the street is celibate, or if they are having orgies every night, why does it matter to YOU? And yet, I think this will only be cured if we all start being honest with each other.

A few weeks ago, when I was drunk, my dad and I had a conversation. We were talking about a friend of ours who has several lady friends, but lives alone. He's quite open about the fact, and both he and his lady friends are happy with the situation. We were both talking in a good for him kind of way, and my dad said well, I don't believe that monogamy is natural anyway! Before I knew what I was saying I replied Well, nor do I, and nor does Mat, and that's why we both have extra-curricular activities. And then when I woke up sober hungover the following morning, I was horrified... I'm not so sure I should have been.

The condemnation of the gay, and the bi, and the poly, and the open, happens because we all collude in this illusion that heterosexual monogamy is not just statistically the largest group, but the most desirable group, and we all pretend we're in it even when we're not for fear of what other people will think.

Well, you know what? I am not normal. I am in an open relationship. I am bisexual. I have had 37 sexual partners in my lifetime, and I do not think that this is an excessive number. I'm not normal. I am HAPPY to be abnormal. Why do we all aspire to be normal anyway? It's an aspiration to boring mediocrity. Life is so much more interesting with diversity. The world would be a very dull place if we were all the same.
 
 

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23 September 2008 @ 11:12 am
1, Happy Celebrate Bisexuality Day.
2, Why aren't you all reading [info]pink_weasel? She is awesome.
3, Skientific proof of John Stuart Mill's maxim that although not all conservatives are stupid, all stupid people are conservatives: only conservatives are more likely to believe a lie after it has been comprehensively debunked, and the more proof you give them that they are wrong, the more they will insist that they are right.
 
 
Current Mood: busy
 
 
01 August 2008 @ 11:21 am
To shamelessly steal [info]burkesworks's (sadly f-locked) words: Happy Yorkshire Day to you all, even the Lancastrians.



* dashes off to get ready for work *
 
 
Current Mood: rushed
 
 
02 July 2008 @ 10:55 am
Because sometimes, things conspire to make one feel a bit down, and one needs one's faith in human nature restoring. So these are the things that have made me feel warm and squishy today:



Some arseholes are trying to overturn California's lovely legalisation of gay marriage. Lots of people are not happy about the arseholes. Not rich powerful people, just ordinary people. But they want to DO something... So they band together, make an LJ community (I really love this bit of the profile: The auction will raise money for the fight against the California initiative which will legally destroy existing same-sex marriages and ban any further ones. If the initiative passes, it will write discrimination into the state constitution, annul existing marriages, and make Mr. Sulu cry. I, too, think that making Mr Sulu cry would be an unforgivable thing, and am joyous to know that I'm not alone), and offer what they can offer in order to raise money for the legal fight. It might be making stuff, it might be writing a fic, it might be anything. And bidding is open now.

It's a beautiful thing to see lots and lots of people determined to do what they can to fight intolerance and bigotry. Go, look at [info]livelongnmarry, bid on something if you can afford to, offer something for sale if you have the time to make or do stuff, and feel righteous!



Our Glorious Leader has written an article that has impressed [info]scriboergosumfd. While I agree with James' caveats, especially the one about ordinary families, I am glad that Nick is reaching out to people, especially people as intelligent and articulate as the people who write Scribo Ergo Sum.



Nelson Mandela is officially Not a Terrorist any more. This means that he can visit America without having that niggling little worry of being whisked off to Gitmo... Mustn't think about Gitmo, that will spoil the mood, move swiftly on...



Mitch Benn is going great guns with his diet, and it's great to see him posting so happily about it.

Must buy new single when it comes out. Assuming it's not bloody iTunes only...



[info]matgb. I mean, he fills me with warm squishy feelings (stop giggling at the back there!) and makes me glad to be alive every day, but it does no harm to mention it, does it?

And, you know, you guys too.

* hugs for all *
 
 
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This is something that I will never need. As I have previously mentioned, I have a fabulous boss, and we all know I don't work in an office. Still, I thought I'd link to it as a public service:

Whack Your Boss.

It took me ages to find the seventeenth method, but I still think the scissors are the best.



Last week there was a meeting of contributors to LC and their allies. Obviously, as these things always are, it was in London, so I couldn't go#. There has been a dribble of posts along the lines of Useful things to come out of the meeting, and a big post full of photos on LC... But I hadn't seen a report of what actually happened until this morning, and I find it depressingly unsurprising.

Like I commented on the elephant's post, there's little point in trying to create a Liberal-Left alliance around a party that's neither Liberal nor Left, and I don't understand why the powers that be at LC haven't grasped this yet. The blog itself covers a wide range of party affiliations and none, and this is a GOOD THING. So having lectures which are based around how we can rescue the Labour Party seems incredibly self-defeating and exclusionary to this Lib Dem... I wonder how the attendant Greens and Libertarians felt?

Poll #1212600 LC Bloggers Meeting
Open to: All, detailed results viewable to: All, participants: 10

After Reading the Elephant's report of what happened at the bloggers' "meeting"...

View Answers

SB should be glad she wasn't able to make it
8 (80.0%)

Sunny Hundal should be glad SB wasn't able to make it, because much prickly heckling would have ensued
8 (80.0%)

It all sounds depressingly hierarchical
9 (90.0%)

It all sounds depressingly directionless
9 (90.0%)

I bet Millennium gets a frosty reception at Hundal Towers after THAT!
6 (60.0%)

I didn't actually read Millennium's post, but I wanted to vote in the poll anyway
0 (0.0%)





Can you tell the difference between expensive audio cables and coat hanger wire? Probably not. Still, I bet it won't stop you buying the pretty wires with the gold ends, will it?

;)




# where are all the female bloggers? - putting the children to bed and not fart-arsing about being patronised by the Top Table, I think.[/heavy sarcasm] The trope that there are no female bloggers pisses me off as much as the one that there aren't any left-wing bloggers. Sadly, while the folks at LC seem to have grasped the fact that there are lots of left wing blogs, but they just aren't being read by the self-appointed Top Table and this needs to be rectified, they still haven't realised that the same applies to blogs written by women...
 
 
Current Mood: contemplative
 
 
I have stuff I have been meaning to do entries about for a couple of days now: prepare for link dumpage.

Firstly: sexism is rife. All you good, intellectual, decent blokes who don't believe that women experience random, low-level sexism every day? We do. Just because you, personally, do not perpetrate it does not mean it doesn't happen, from crap in the media to crap in the classroom.

Of course, the problem of what to do about it is something else entirely...



Speaking of feministy concerns... [info]tyrell makes a good point about the idiots who bleat that criticising X-female-author is anti-feminist. I would suggest that the reverse is true: if X-female-author is crap, it is anti-feminist NOT to criticise her. We don't further the careers of female authors as a group by delivering patronisingly lowered standards headpat reviews to existing female authors.

But then, this ties in with my views on the counterproductivity of positive discrimination, and we know how controversial THEY are...



A meme with a pretty picture to break up all the text:


You are The High Priestess


Science, Wisdom, Knowledge, Education.


The High Priestess is the card of knowledge, instinctual, supernatural, secret knowledge. She holds scrolls of arcane information that she might, or might not reveal to you. The moon crown on her head as well as the crescent by her foot indicates her willingness to illuminate what you otherwise might not see, reveal the secrets you need to know. The High Priestess is also associated with the moon however and can also indicate change or fluxuation, particularily when it comes to your moods.


What Tarot Card are You?
Take the Test to Find Out.




Google have apparently forgotten their "Don't be evil" motto:
After a Google user posted a profane picture of the Hindu saint Shivaji, Indian authorities contacted Google to ask for his IP address. Google complied. He was arrested and is reported to have been beaten by a lathi and asked to use the same bowl to eat and to use in the toilet. Not surprisingly, Google is a keen to play this down
[info]cabalamat2 is characteristically blunt about this, here.



It's tough being part of the generation between the baby boomers and the up and coming ones. We're suffering a squeeze akin to the one the Liberals got in Crewe and Nantwich, and it's not entirely our own fault...



On the subject of Crewe and Nantwich, I extoll all of you, of all political bents, to read [info]alixmortimer's excellent post mortem here. I think she makes a very good point about the macho posturing of the negative campaign being very off-putting unless you're going to win anyway; hopefully certain people who flood LDV with negative posts about the other parties are taking note.



Obligatory plug for [info]si_blog: this time pointing out that most people in favour of liberalising the laws around homosexuality are not, in fact, gay. Myself included. It's not their Gay Agenda, it's our Gay Agenda, because freedom which is only applied to the members of groups approved of by the majority is no freedom at all...
 
 
Current Mood: rushed
 
 

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Good news: GRATS GEORGE!!! Nobody deserves a beautiful wedding more than you, mate.

Bad News: OFFS you have GOT to be JOKING?! Have they learnt nothing whatsoever from all the recent data fiascos? Clearly not. Then again, maybe it's a late April Fool... Or maybe they announced this today in the hopes that it would be burying in all the noise about abortion...

Could be either: Moffat is taking over from Rusty on Who. On the one hand, Moffat has written all of the best episodes of new Who, so even if he takes the show in a bad direction, at least it will be a better-written bad direction... But on the other hand, we don't know what that direction will be. Still, at least we can comfort ourselves with the hope that it's unlikely to involve bloody Billie Piper. We can has TEAM Tardis, and not just DUO Tardis, Oh Grand Moff? Pretty please with a cherry on top?
 
 
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21 April 2008 @ 02:00 pm
Firstly, the comments to this week's reactipoll show exactly why [info]diggerdydum is the best Who comm on Livejournal: a heady mixture of sharp intellect, affectionate piss-taking, and Molesworth references. And (so far, at least) a pretty much wank-free zone... It can't last, can it?


Secondly, a link from today's Casting the Net on Liberal Conspiracy, with a heartwarming tale of political canvassing.
Talking of civil partnerships, there was a lovely moment today. It won’t surprise you to know that I’ve been out tapping on lots of doors ahead of the local elections in Oxford. Earlier I spoke to a woman who had a problem which needed sorting out (I’m being deliberately vague) so I popped into her lounge to take down the details, out of the cold. Her wall was covered in photos of her family - there must have been forty of them, and when I commented on them, she proudly said that she was very careful to make sure that she had all her sons and daughters, grandchildren and great-grandchildren were up there, though the newest great-grandson won’t arrive until later this summer so he’s not up yet. She pointed out her own children, including one photo of two women, with a cutting from the paper stuck into the frame. “That’s my daughter and her girlfriend on their wedding day - she’s gay, so they had one of those civil unions. What a lovely day - here’s the ad me and her Dad put in the Oxford Mail for them.” And we returned to talking about parking, and all the other things people might talk to a party political canvasser about.
That really made me smile, even though it's in the middle of a fairly ranty blog post - that already, among the general public, civil unions are a thing to bring up proudly to strangers, and everyone just calls them "weddings". YAY! Now if only the media could catch up.


Thirdly, weep, oh ye petrolheads, for one of the prettiest cars in the world has been totalled. Oh bugger.


And lastly, if you're feeling evil, and I mean as evil as Mumm-Ra the Evar Liviiiiiiing, and have someone in close physical proximity to you whom you want to drive to distraction... Buy one of these.

Mwahahahahahahahahahahaaaa!
 
 
16 March 2008 @ 11:11 am
Via [info]von_geisterhand (again): Penn and Teller's Bullshit has an episode on profanity (which really does contain lots of swearing) in which Penn Jilette and his silent partner give idiot pro-censorship types just enough rope to hang themselves. If you've got half an hour to spare this fine Sunday, have a skeg at this, (especially if you're the anonymous commenter from my last post who felt the need to censor him/herself on the word "bloody". Assuming you've found the font size setting on your browser, and can read this, anyway). Watch for the cute little doggie in part one.

Part one:



Link: http://hk.youtube.com/watch?v=ojEpASQi_7o

Part two:



Link: http://hk.youtube.com/watch?v=C61mC-d8vFA

Part three:



Link: http://hk.youtube.com/watch?v=20EPn4hOrR4

[info]von_geisterhand says in their post:
One slightly more philosophical point that does not get covered in this is that those who wish to limit the range of your verbal expression are essentially trying to also limit the range of your emotions and ideas. If this sounds a little bit like the efforts of the government in "1984", that is because it basically is. An emotion/concept/idea which cannot be expressed in speech will find it very hard to spread in the population.
Penn does obliquely refer to this, if not explicitly. Lots of the talking heads skirt around it too. Really, what it boils down to is this: a state which says that you cannot use some words because they might offend somebody is garnering power that it should not have. If you don't like the words that someone uses, tell them you don't like their words. This is the beauty of free speech: if EVERYONE has it then nobody can force you to not be heard.

In this regard I completely agree with Rowan Atkinson, and what he said when he was campaigning against SOCPA and the Racial and Religious Hatred Act. He said that in my view the right to offend is far more important than any right not to be offended. The right to ridicule is far more important to society than any right not to be ridiculed because one, in my view, represents openness - and the other represents oppression. And he's completely right. Completely and absolutely correct.

I have things that offend me, everyone does. Religious fundamentalists offend me. Hazel Blears offends me. The BNP offend me. But I don't want to ban any of those things. I want to debate them. I want to drag them kicking and screaming into the full light of day and make sure everyone can see their flaws, their inconsistencies, their lies, and their stupidities. I abhor the "no platform" stance lots of people take to the BNP. If you don't allow the BNP to speak publicly, you give them power. Paranoid tinfoil hat wearers will see this censorship and say to themselves Well, there must be something in it, or They wouldn't be trying to shut them up. The proper response to people like the BNP is to let them spout their illogical claptrap in public, pick out all the logical inconsistencies, hold them up for everyone to see, and then point and laugh.

Freedom of speech is important. It's important for big things like racism and homophobia and sexism, but it's also important for little things like the right to say "fuckety bollocks" when you stub your toe without fear of being arrested. To curtail the right to swear in public because somebody might get offended is to erode our right to protest, to express our feelings, to engage with society in a meaningful way. So next time you hear someone swear, don't bemoan the decline and fall of civilisation. Be glad that you live in a society where people can freely express ideas, even if they are ideas that other people don't like.

It's a beautiful thing. You cunts.
 
 
Current Mood: ranty
 
 
09 February 2008 @ 11:20 am
For any Democrats still to vote in the primaries, this entry on PoliticalBetting.com might be of interest. I found it quite interesting, anyway. I suspect [info]tinuvielberen is right when she says that a lot of this is personality-based.

And, if I was American, apparently I would be green:


What's Your Political Philosophy?
created with QuizFarm.com

Green


100%

Old School Democrat


100%

New Democrat


75%

Foreign Policy Hawk


40%

Libertarian


40%

Pro Business Republican


25%

Socially Conservative Republican


0%




Predictably, all I can think now is Kermit the frog:






For those who haven't been following the Arse Bishop of Canterbury's horrendous cock-up of wording, dear old [info]elephantfeed has the best entry I have seen on it so far, if you can parse his faux-child style. Some of his understanding of the legal concepts involved is a little simplistic (as one of the commenters has said) but his understanding of the legal philosophy is absolutely correct:
When it comes down to it, most Law is there to settle disputes between PEOPLE. In CRIMINAL law, the dispute is between ALL OF US and someone who is doing harm – because we cannot operate as a society if we let people do harm to others. But mostly it is because two people have a disagreement and they need someone to sort it out.

There is NOTHING to stop them going to their Priest or Vicar or Rabbi or Imam or Militant Atheist Baby Elephant and asking them to help them decide. Arbitration is to be ENCOURAGED and, so long as both sides are happy with the outcome, it would certainly cut down on all the cases that are clogging up our judges' calendars.

But what happens if the Vicar and the Baby Elephant have DIFFERENT answers?

[A: Nobody is a bit surprised?]

That is when you end up in court.

It's just no good if you have MULTIPLE legal systems, not all of which are based on equal protection for all parties. People will be unable to settle their arguments if one person insists on one law and the other demands the rights to use another.

That is why you need ONE set of laws.
Dead on, Fluffy cheeks, dead on.

At the end of the day, though, I'm quite glad that Rowan said what he did. That was a huge flash of true colours right there, and EVERYONE has seen it. He's made it perfectly clear that not only does he think that discrimination on religious grounds is acceptable, he thinks it is "unavoidable". Uh, no, Rowan, it will be quite easy to avoid. Disestablish your increasingly anachronistic church, prevent people from acceding to our legislature just by being bishops, stop any religion from having influence over our legal system disproportionate to the number of believers, and let the secular majority live their lives in peace without being beaten with the "white Christian country" stick every time one of us suggests something you (or any of your other Misogynistic Bearded Sky Pixie Cult friends) don't like.

Why can't we all just listen to JS Mill? He was bang alongside the English law principle that you should be able to do anything you like as long as it's not specifically outlawed. Religious codifications always tend to go the other way, and this is fundamentally illiberal.
 
 
12 January 2008 @ 12:32 am
One of the best birthday presents I got this year (apart from the presence of lovely people at my impromptu gathering) was a box set of season two of the original series of Star Trek. I already had season one, and lovely [info]pmoodie supplied me with the next on the list. So, since I am incapable of much movement, Mat and I are lying in bed and watching it. Despite the obvious holes that can be picked in it, there is much squee.

The problem is, I can't help but think of this video every time I see Spock and Kirk together on screen

(And really, this is NOT SAFE FOR WORK OR BRAIN. And contains swearing)



Cos, you know, it beats politics.

Also, while we're on the subject of trek videos, anyone who hasn't seen this:



... is ordered to report to Mister Spock for interminably dull diversity training. George Takei rules, he rules so much.
 
 
Current Mood: happy, geeky, sore
 
 

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It's rather disturbing when one's theoretically heterosexual fiancé gets invited to a Facebook Group called "Nick Clegg is More of a Hottie Than David Cameron Any Day" by another theoretically heterosexual male. I know that Lib Dems are enamoured of using FaceBook as a campaign tool, but really, even if you're taking the mickey (as that group clearly is), some things are not going to make you look good. And do you guys really think that yet another comparison of your glorious leader to Cameron is a good plan? If everyone thinks they're the same person then that weakens you catastrophically, surely?

Still, at least Facebook have listened to my earlier whinge and changed "fan of" to "supporter of" for politicians. Which means I'm getting loads of invites to become a supporter of X person... I'm with Mat on this one; if you're a Lib Dem and you value localism, you want your supporters to be local. This means that I still won't be becoming a supporter of any Lib Dem councillors in, for example, Ealing. Even if they buy me a really good birthday present ;)

Devil's Kitchen has whined about MPs pay. He kind of has some good points (I think MPs should spend less time legislating too, although not so they can spend time in other jobs, but so that they can spend more time doing constituency work and becoming more accessible to the electorate). But the assertion that we end up with the dross and the crap who can't actually make £60,000 plus £136,000 expenses in their normal professions if that is what we pay MPs is extremely offensive. Firstly, the assertion that everyone who earns less than £200k is dross and crap is something that makes me want to punch the right wing twat on his pompous nose. Secondly, as I said in the comment to Aaron Heath's entry, I get uncomfortable when people complain that other people are not worth the money they are paid and that their jobs are easy when they haven't actually walked a mile in their shoes, possibly because I have been on the receiving end of such accusations myself more often than I would like. I also think that the suggestion that MPs only do 160 days work a year is not only inaccurate, but dangerous. MPs might only sit in parliament for 160 days, but that doesn't mean they don't have surgeries, local campaigns, etc, to do in their constituencies. Asserting that this is not the case simply furthers the endemic disillusionment with politics which has been stalking abroad in this country for ages. I, personally, think that MPs should be paid more. That way we'd get people attracted to the job who have some measure of intelligence and talent, and less people like Hazel frigging Blears.

Speaking of accusations I have been on the receiving end of... Well, it wasn't really an accusation, but a friend of mine mentioned in an f-locked post his moral discomfort with a friend of his having a large age gap relationship (I'm not giving any more detail than that, since the post was locked, and I'll thank readers who are also on this friend's f-list for respecting that confidentiality also). I've been in a large age gap relationship. It didn't work out, but it lasted ten years, produced one child, and ended on friendly terms which remain friendly to this day. I was the initiator of the relationship. In fact, in my late teens, I went through a long phase of going for men in their thirties. Most of them were mildly uncomfortable about my age, because they thought that they would be on the receiving end of precisely the kind of moral discomfort my friend has. It annoyed me then, and it annoys me now. The younger person in a relationship might well be being exploited, but so might the older. My rationale for choosing older men was because they were 1, richer and 2, more grateful. *I* was exploiting *them*. On the other hand, maybe there's a genuine attraction and the relationship will be a happy one. Either way, if all parties are above the age of consent, I firmly believe that not one single person has the right to judge. Nice people don't judge others for having interracial or mixed religion or mixed weight or mixed height or same sex relationships, so why is it still acceptable to judge others for having an age gap larger than we, personally, are comfortable with? I suspect that position will not make me popular, but there it is.

Finally, something that's been bugging the lovely [info]matgb and I, in a low level way, for a while now.



Why is there one corner of the Houses of Parliament which always remains unlit at night? It can't be that the bulb has gone: surely they'd have changed it by now?

ETA: actually, looking at that photo, it's two, isn't it? Weird.
 
 
Current Mood: contemplative
 
 
22 November 2007 @ 07:34 pm
Inspired by [info]susanne_est_moi  
So, apparently some of the colonials are celebrating something called Thanksgiving today. [info]susanne_est_moi posted a list of things that she is thankful for, and (to cheer me up because [info]matgb is travelling away from me as I type, soon to arrive in the Land of the Wombles) I thought I would follow suit:

I am Thankful for:

- [info]matgb, without whom... Well, without whom Life would be a lot less interesting and less fun. I love him so much I'm going to marry him. Who could have predicted that a year ago?
- [info]shrublette, for similar reasons (well, apart from the marriage bit). Also, [info]shrublette's dad. Although we are not together anymore, he's still her dad, and if it wasn't for him I wouldn't have her.
- Liberty. OK, I'm not free to do everything I want to, due to constraints of finances and travel and stuff, but I am free to think what I want, wear what I want, read what I want, talk to who I want to, believe what I want... It's more freedom than many have in this world, and I'm grateful for it.
- Having a roof over my head and food to eat and beer to drink. Which is, again, more than a lot of people have.
- Byron, and Pugsley, and Ceara.
- My friends and family. A more wonderful, selfless, caring bunch I could not have dreamt of.
- Tim Berners-Lee, for inventing t'intarwebz, which allows me to write this blog, email and keep in touch with all of you lot, shop cheaply without having to get dressed, etc., etc..
- John Stuart Mill, Shami Chakrabarti, and all the other great Liberals I admire.
- Radio Four.
- Books. Being able to read them, and smell them, and how they feel in your hand and the knowledge they impart. Books are awesome.
- Science Fiction, and all the great writers thereof (ILU Isaac Asimov!); also HP Lovecraft and Dorothy L Sayers and John Mortimer and PD James and Edgar Allen Poe and Agatha Christie and MR James and Sir Arthur Conan Doyle and Ruth Rendell and HG Wells and all the other fabulous authors of fiction who have made my world a better place.
- The NHS. Yeah, so it's got it's flaws. But I'm grateful for it none the less.
- Stephen Fry.
- My education.
- Vincent Price. And Peter Cushing and Christopher Lee. And Roger Corman.
- The many and varied wonderful kinds of food and drink which I am able to enjoy thanks to being (just about) financially solvent and living in a place where I can obtain them fairly easily (tee hee amusing pictures of my friend John on that link).
- Yorkshire. From the innermost inner city of Bradford to the wild desolation of Saddleworth Moor; from the top of Snake Pass to the shores of the North Sea; from the tops of the treetops in the woods to the bottom of the deepest coal mine. I love every square inch of my home county. I love the landscape, I love the architecture, I love the people. I love going out into the woods and feeling my roots stretching back for generations; I also love that I can meet people from practically every country on earth here. Best of all possible worlds.

I could go on forever here, but I think that's a long enough list, isn't it?

ETA: nearly forgot, but the day was saved thanks to [info]gominokouhai: Happy Birthday Doctor Who!. Now there's something to be grateful for ;)
 
 
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31 October 2007 @ 10:08 am
Cherie Booth, wife of exPM Mr T BLiar, is giving a lecture today on Equality. I may not agree with her on all things, and I certainly disagree vehemently with her husband on many things, but some of what she was saying today was bang on. How often is it that you see an avowedly religious person say something like:
"Religion, like everything else, is subject to interpretation. Religion is only as good as the people who operate the religion.

"And in the course of that fallible human beings, mainly men, will make judgements which aren't necessarily true to the principle, that basic principle, that men and women are of equal value."
?

As a leftie, I find myself increasingly annoyed with certain other self-declared lefties who use the excuse of respecting culture to not intervene when palpable injustice is occurring. Culture is not immutable, nor is religion, and dogma should not be an excuse for oppression, be it of women, or men, or any other group. I also think Cherie is totally correct when she says that dialogue is better than boycotting as an instrument of change, and I applaud her statement that people can get too hung up on what women wear. It's not about what women wear per se (be that full burqas or miniskirts), it's about the fact that women should have the choice to wear what they like and not be judged for it (be that full burqas or miniskirts).

I was almost late taking the small one to school, so fascinated was I listening to her interview on the Today Programme this morning, and I will be interested to see the text of the lecture if and when it becomes available.

Now, onto the sexy men. Stephen Fry, how do I love thee? Let me count the ways... He has put the text of his first column for the Grauniad up on his blog today. I particularly liked this bit:
In our culture we are becoming more and more fixated with an “it’s one thing or the other” mentality. You like Thai food? But what’s wrong with Italian? Woah, there… calm down. I like both. Yes. It can be done. I can like rugby football and the musicals of Stephen Sondheim. High Victorian Gothic and the installations of Damien Hirst. Herb Alpert’s Tijuana Brass and the piano works of Hindemith. English hymns and Richard Dawkins. First editions of Norman Douglas and iPods. Snooker, darts and ballet. Such a list isn’t a boast, it doesn’t make one an all-rounder to rival Michelangelo, it’s how humans are constructed. Adaptable, varied, versatile. So, believe me, a love of gizmos doesn’t make me averse to paper, leather and wood, old-fashioned Christmases, Preston Sturges films and country walks. Nor does it automatically mean I read Terry Pratchett, breathe only through my mouth and bring my head slightly too close to the bowl when I eat soup.
implied slander against Pterry fans notwithstanding.

Hurrah for diversity of interests, and hurrah for reminding us all that we can have that, it's permissible, even laudable, and we shouldn't feel bad for embracing both "high" and "low" culture in our likes and dislikes.

Mr Fry, I salute you.

His blog is syndicated to LJ as [info]fryblog, for those of you who wish to worship at the temple of Stephen from the comfort of your friends page.
 
 
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03 June 2007 @ 09:28 am
Today is the start of the 100th Isle of Man TT Races. The TT is something of an anomaly, these days, in our increasingly risk-averse society, and it's with that in mind that I want to talk about it.

Every year at the TT, a couple of people die. Many more are seriously injured. This inevitably leads to calls for it to be ceased, banned, done away with. Yet everyone who participates in the TT, and every one of the spectators, knows that they are at a higher risk of fatality than average just by being there. They know this, and they go anyway. A gentleman on radio four this morning was talking about his son who died racing at a recent TT, and he said "my boy might be dead now, but he died living his dream, and how many of us can say that?"

Risk is something that is increasingly taboo in modern Britain. If you ride the Mountain at the TT, hell, even if you ride a motorcycle in every day life, you are looked at askance by many people. There's an impression that everybody thinks you're a little bit mad. The term "nanny state" tends to be brought out at this point, but I don't think that it's necessarily the state that's the driving force behind this. Yes, our present government seems intent on drafting in even more measures to protect us from the nebulous risk of terrorism, but my view is that's more about power-grabbing than Nanny Statism. Motoring Journalists continually bemoan the prominence of the "health and Safety Nazi", but I don't believe that the humble Health and Safety worker is at fault here either. I think it's us.

For some reason we appear to be going down the road of trying to eliminate risk. I make no bones that I don't understand this. I have said before on numerous occasions that I can't understand how the times we are living in now merit the kind of response that those in power are giving us, but the majority of the country and the media seem to think that this is not only acceptable, but laudable. I know that I'm in the minority in thinking this, but it's WEIRD. In the seventies and eighties we actually WERE getting blown up by the IRA on a fairly regular basis. One of the few things that I agreed with the arch-demon Thatcher's stance on was that this was not pleasant, but that to change policy because someone threatens you with a bomb allows the person with the bomb threat to win. The day after the Brighton Bombing, the day after she was herself almost killed by a terrorist, she said "the fact we are gathered here, now, shocked but composed and determined, is a sign not only that this attack has failed, but that all attempts to destroy democracy by terrorism will fail."

That kind of attitude from a British PM seems odd now, in these days of control orders and Belmarsh prison and the Serious and Organised Crime and Police Act. And it's not just the big freedoms which are being eroded in the current climate. We've all heard the stories of children playing conkers being forced to wear safety goggles by schools who live in terror of being sued by parents of injured children, for example. And then there is also the proposal to prosecute the parents of under-sixteen year olds who drink alcohol. A lot of the things which I did myself as a child would be viewed with horror by modern parents. Climbing thirty foot trees without a rope or a care; shooting empty cans off the back wall with my dad's air rifle (without ear defenders!); being dropped off at school of the back of my dad's motorbike; being allowed, nay, encouraged to drink my dad's home-brewed beer... These things would lead to accusations of irresponsible parentage these days.

I don't think that my parents were irresponsible. I think my parents were the model of responsibility. They recognised that the elimination of risk is not only impossible, but undesirable. Just as one doesn't make an omelette without breaking eggs, just as one doesn't prevent terrorists from changing one's way of life by changing one's way of life in fear of them, one doesn't learn to judge and deal with risk without experiencing it. Risk is necessary. If we don't take risks, as a species, we stagnate. If the Wright Brothers had thought that the prospect of injury from their Heath Robinson contraption was too great and had decided not to take the risk, well, the environment would probably be a lot better off, but I'd have never met [info]missdiane.

From the smoking ban to the nebulous prevention of terrorism measures, every day in this country choice is being taken away from me, freedom is being taken away from me, in the name of eliminating risk. As a (fairly) responsible adult, I see this as patronising in the extreme. I am quite capable of researching the risks of a given activity and deciding for myself whether or not that risk is acceptable to me. So, today, I celebrate the TT. One hundred years of sticking two fingers up at those who deem that risk in the pursuit of fun is unacceptable. One hundred years of throwing yourself around the tiny roads of a tiny island at impossible speeds, just for the thrill and joy and exuberance and adrenaline of it. I'm there in spirit, if not in person.
 
 
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10 July 2006 @ 10:33 pm
NB: any links which may have been in the original entry are no longer there. Sorry.

Originally Posted 5th November 2005 )
 
 
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