ok so...
say you believe that there is a line in straight edge that divides what is sexually ok and what is not based off of physical intimacy (i do not believe this, but many here do). so where do you draw this line? how physically sexual can you be with someone outside of a "monogamous relationship" (the exact time and content of which is only defined in the straight edge manual when you first get your ID card) before you've "broken edge"?

does kissing count?
making out?
any ograsm?
just intercourse?
what if it's two lesbians and they don't have intercourse - then what?
what about people who don't have intercourse ever cuz they can't or don't like it and instead do other stuff?
heavy petting?
any genital touching at all?
holding hands?
if i whip someone til their ass bleeds...does that count?

all of these things happen.

where and how do you draw the line? why can you make out with someone but not have sex with them? why can you touch their nono's but can't lick their nono's? anyone?