stupid_free: oh sweet merciful...

when i scream there's no reply (

pageless) wrote in

stupid_free,
@ 2006-10-15 05:07:00

Current mood:	giggly
Entry tags:	anti_porn, languid_ardor

oh sweet merciful...
http://community.livejournal.com/anti_porn/537705.html

the whole comm troubles me greatly, but this post stuck out. probably cuz it's near the top of the page. ;)

the poster (girl, i think) claims every guy who watches porn is bad in bed, and doesn't know what a woman wants, cuz he just gets his ideas of sex from bad porn.

sounds like someone needs to learn how to be a little more vocal about what she wants? (actually, everyone who comments should learn how to speak up, from the looks of things, geezus!)

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	heatherface 2006-10-15 05:16 am UTC (link)
	I bet they're all virgins. Roffle. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	rochelle 2006-10-15 05:28 am UTC (link)
	Hahah. My thoughts exactly. (Reply to this) (Parent)(Thread)

	glossolalia 2006-10-15 05:23 am UTC (link)
	Oh, good GRIEF. headdesk (Reply to this)

	amokk 2006-10-15 05:23 am UTC (link)
	Guess I'm safe, since I watch porn... with my wife, even. And the point of porn is to make money. There's no hidden agenda to keep women subjugated, to promote men as superior, or to trick people into thinking women can orgasm from penetration alone. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	ajsha 2006-10-15 05:58 pm UTC (link)
	apparently, that's even more evil, but I really don't suggest digging deeper into that community, it's making my head hurt. (Reply to this) (Parent)

	funkybrewsta 2006-10-15 05:25 am UTC (link)
	sigh I have nothing to say that post. (Reply to this)

	molkat 2006-10-15 05:37 am UTC (link)
	How the hell would they know what sex is like in porn unless they have watched porn? (Reply to this) (Thread)

	anngwish42 2006-10-15 05:53 am UTC (link)
	In fairness, I'd think they were beyond dumb if they were criticizing porn having never seen it. Opposition born of ignorance is the worst and stupidest sort of opposition. From the quick once-over I have the community, it seems like most posters there are opposed to porn because they've seen it, and they didn't like what they saw. (Reply to this) (Parent)

	sunshineyellow 2006-10-15 05:49 am UTC (link)
	LOL. Did porn also teach them to not tell their man what they like? Did they think that's only something that porn stars do? (Reply to this) (Thread)

	izzerwurst 2006-10-18 04:01 am UTC (link)
	actually, in most porn the woman seems to like everything that is done to her, no matter how painful or humiliating, unless it's rape porn, in which case she decides she likes it in the end.. you know it's usually scripted to appeal to the viewer, right? (Reply to this) (Parent)(Thread)

	tasha 2006-10-15 05:56 am UTC (link)
	I actually don't think it's stupid and see what's she saying. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	scorpi084 2006-10-15 05:58 am UTC (link)
	You don't think a blanket statement that men who view pornography are bad in bed is at all stupid? (Reply to this) (Parent)(Thread)

	bunnyface23 2006-10-16 03:17 pm UTC (link)
	To be fair, while the above is solid advice... some dudes refuse to take direction. So you wind up telling them "do this", and they do it for a few seconds just to humor you and then go back to what they felt like doing anyway. Such men should be shunned. (Reply to this) (Parent)(Thread)

	darkly_cute 2006-10-15 06:00 am UTC (link)
	I'll believe what they say when I find a job that's less degrading than the sex industry. Until then, I'm happy with my current "objectified" status. There's much better stupid in that community, FYI, like the post where the members say that prostitutes don't deserve birth control, legal protection, or proper health care. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	scorpi084 2006-10-15 06:39 am UTC (link)
	Do you have a link? I'm interested, but not enough to read all the other crap. (Reply to this) (Parent)(Thread)

	batty_ 2006-10-15 06:37 am UTC (link)
	show me a dude that watches porn, and i'll show you a dude who probably pulled a porn move at some point. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	batty_ 2006-10-15 06:40 am UTC (link)
	also um. we dont really give a shit about your man and his porn habits. nor your sex life. we don't care. (Reply to this) (Parent)(Thread)

	happiestsadist 2006-10-15 06:51 am UTC (link)
	Oh man, that is some quality stupid. Somehow porn-viewing on the part of a man prevents a women from being able to ask for what she wants. Riiiight. The dumb is strong there. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	ginasketch 2006-10-15 10:48 am UTC (link)
	I agree on one hand. Women should tell their partners what they want, but I also know there are quite a few men out there that get the idea from porn that dick in vagina=guaranteed orgasm. I also knew (not in the biblical sense;)) this moron that thought if you screwed a virgin they were guaranteed to orgasm. pssh. (Reply to this) (Parent)(Thread)

	blondebeaker 2006-10-15 07:19 am UTC (link)
	Oh fer................. I got nothin' (Reply to this)

	mistressmelissa 2006-10-15 07:24 am UTC (link)
	I think any girl who says a guy sucked in bed is stupid. If it's not feeling good or the guy is not doing what I want him to, I tell him and I instruct him very specifically on what I want done. Therefore, I have never had bad sex. Not saying it's not possible, but the guy would have to really,really suck and not listen to a word I said. (Reply to this)

	closedingirl 2006-10-15 08:16 am UTC (link)
	When are women going to start telling men what the fuck they want and stop making excuses? Seriously, if your guy does something you don't like and you don't tell him, it's your own damn fault. (Reply to this) (Thread)

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	madra_liath 2006-10-15 02:33 pm UTC (link)
	One stand-up comedian made a decent analogy of trying to fix a car and having a mechanic standing there looking over your shoulder and saying "Nah, not like that!" but never actually telling you how to do it right. (Reply to this) (Parent)(Thread)

	tooimpurenangel 2006-10-15 08:32 am UTC (link)
	I watch porn with my fiance. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	razorbagel 2006-10-20 11:52 pm UTC (link)
	i want to watch porn with my BF but he says it makes him feel weird. i'll leave the unfortunate time i called him when he was in the donations room at a sperm bank (preparing for possible chemo) for another time. :) (Reply to this) (Parent)(Thread)

	therikkster 2006-10-15 10:08 am UTC (link)
	...I wasn't aware porn was supposed to be educational. ~~Thats what the BDSM wiki is for.~~ (Reply to this) (Thread)

	shadsdf 2006-10-15 12:34 pm UTC (link)
	Would you happen to have a link on hand? My interest has been caught :} (Reply to this) (Parent)(Thread)

	gorillarock 2006-10-15 10:47 am UTC (link)
	god, i hate women. but seriously, thats probably like one of the better posts in the whole community. my personal favorite is the one who wants to connect invisible dots between the amish school shooting and porn. then there's also the girl who started cutting herself when she found out her boyfriend was watching porn. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	ginasketch 2006-10-15 10:51 am UTC (link)
	then there's also the girl who started cutting herself when she found out her boyfriend was watching porn Yeah. And I've done that. Whats it to you? You don't know why or what goes on in people's psyches. (Reply to this) (Parent)(Thread)

	annabolina 2006-10-15 12:45 pm UTC (link)
	Finally a voice of reason. Thank you very much. Can I still take the cookie 'though? (Reply to this) (Parent)(Thread)

	This is why kallell 2006-10-15 02:06 pm UTC (link)
	I watch lesbian porn, i learn what women want from watching other women. That and femdom ;) (Reply to this) (Thread)

	Re: This is why nodescriptor 2006-10-15 02:29 pm UTC (link)
	Lesbian porn intended for men or porn intended for lesbians? There's probably a significant difference in what each set of women is portrayed as wanting. (Reply to this) (Parent)