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Delayed Gratification with a touch of Impulse Control
Created on 2004-05-15 10:25:47 (#3154203), last updated 2009-06-07
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Basic Info| Name: | slow_poke_poly |
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who_is_she ) is for discussions about polyamory by those who would identify as "slow-pokes". The idea for it came up during discussions between tylik and myself about the fact that there are probably more of us 'slow and careful' polys out there than any of us suspect, and we do face some unique challenges in navigating the dating pool.... which often SEEMS to be heavily populated by folks splashing wildly in the deep end. We slow pokes, in the shallow end of the pool with our float toys, celebrate our uniqueness here.
who_is_she ) is for discussions about polyamory by those who would identify as "slow-pokes". The idea for it came up during discussions between tylik and myself about the fact that there are probably more of us 'slow and careful' polys out there than any of us suspect, and we do face some unique challenges in navigating the dating pool.... which often SEEMS to be heavily populated by folks splashing wildly in the deep end. We slow pokes, in the shallow end of the pool with our float toys, celebrate our uniqueness here. ConnectInterests (44):
agreements, alternative lifestyles, alternative lovestyles, alternative marriage, alternatives to marriage, commitment, compassion, compersion, delayed gratification, family of choice, grok, group marriage, impulse control, intentional community, intentional family, intimate network, intimate networks, love, love without limits, multi-partner relationships, multipartner relationships, multiple partners, open marriage, openmindedness, patience, poly, poly family, poly folk, polyaffection, polyamorist, polyamorists, polyamorous, polyamory, polyfamilies, polyfi, polyfidelity, sacred sex, safe sex, safer sex, sexual ethics, significant others, the ethical slut, tribe, trust
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