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| Sunday, November 15th, 2009 | 10:29 pm
[accentsarehot]
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Post Pregnancy Sex?
I had a baby 3 months ago and ever since sex was okay'd by the doc we've had problems with getting him in. I dunno if the doc stitched me up too much or what but I'm tellin you this is worse now than when he first took my virginity a lil over a year ago. Is there ANYTHING we can do to speed this process along? Post from mobile portal m.livejournal.com ([Questions?]) | | Tuesday, September 22nd, 2009 | 7:26 pm
[kassade]
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([Questions?]) | | Monday, September 21st, 2009 | 10:04 pm
[kassade]
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[kassade]
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(1 Thought | [Questions?]) | | Wednesday, September 2nd, 2009 | 1:04 pm
[byrontengu]
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what the hell?
[onlygoodnews4u] Deliciously wealthy men and the most beautiful women! Spam? an advertizement? What do you want us to do with this? (6 Thoughts | [Questions?]) | | Sunday, August 23rd, 2009 | 3:10 am
[theenglishcal]
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The Honeymoon Is Over
My husband & I have been together 3 years & married 1 year, we don't have any children. I'm 25 & my husband is 27. We don't live stressful lives, he works 15 days out of the month & I was about the same, we're in law enforcement. Before we were married, we'd have sex all the time. Probably several times a week. I always thought I had a high sex drive, but my husbands' is far higher. Not long afer we married, I found that I didn't want sex as often. It started off where I'd only want it maybe once a week, then it got worse. We actually went several months without having sex. It wasn't that he didn't want to, it was because I didn't want to. Lately I've really been trying to give him what he wants, but I'm honestly not into it. Yes, I'm attracted sexually to my husband...it's just I can't be bothered. I really don't know what to do. Maybe it's mental...but now I'm beginning to think it's physical, as in there's something physically wrong with me. I have put on some weight in the last few years & was wondering if maybe that contributes to my low libido. Somebody help... (3 Thoughts | [Questions?]) | | Friday, August 14th, 2009 | 11:09 pm
[fatz_me]
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Escort
I know this might sound weird but the other day i was thinking about becoming an escort. can you tell me the things they do and any skills in particular they need and is their an age restriction ? thanks x (2 Thoughts | [Questions?]) | | Sunday, July 12th, 2009 | 9:30 am
[accentsarehot]
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Threesomes
What's everyone's thoughts on threesomes? Particularly of the 2 girls/1 guy type when 1 of those girls is in a relationship with the guy? It's something my man wants to do (before we get married) but I'm not sure. I'm not the most sexually adventurous person, maybe due to only having my virginity taken just 1yr ago, though I'm open to try new things. I'm not sure I could handle the idea of the my fiance with another girl... Would almost feel like allowing him to cheat. Thoughts? [x-posted] (4 Thoughts | [Questions?]) | | Monday, June 29th, 2009 | 11:24 pm
[greeneyedpanda]
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cherry pop
it's me again! :) i wish i could give my own advice, but i got another thing i've been curious about for a while now.
sooo since my last post i've found this amazing man and we've been together about 10 months now. we're even doing the long-distance thing from different continents right now so you can tell we're hoping to be in it for the long haul. we're both leaning towards saving sex til after marriage, but we've both openly talked about sex and fantasies of us having it. the passion it stirs up in us is amazing (i can't even think of what might happen when we finally get to be together again...i hope we can hold on to the whole abstinence thing though it'll be hard lol), but it got me thinking about something else. something that might seem silly, but i still can't get over.
i'm wondering how bad the sex might hurt the first time. as much as i've put down sex before i'm a very sexual person...but sometimes when i've tried pleasuring myself with penetration (even with objects that aren't that wide compared to the "average" penis size), i'll only get it in an inch or two and it'll hurt so much that i give up and just rub my clit instead. ok, so maybe i need lube, but is it supposed to be tough the first time? is the guy supposed to come in little by little til the ridin's easy or is it a more forceful pop? should it hurt the first time and then get better? i can't quite say i love sex just yet, but i'm eager to love it and i want that first time to be included!
and yeah, sorry for the lack of more delicate wording. :p
thanks! (6 Thoughts | [Questions?]) | | Thursday, April 2nd, 2009 | 1:25 pm
[accentsarehot]
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(2 Thoughts | [Questions?]) | | Monday, March 30th, 2009 | 4:56 pm
[tswithtammysmth]
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Contact me
Have questions? Want to be anonymous? Well send me your questions. It is safe and your identify will not be given out. If your question is chosen it will be posted to </a></b></a> ![[info]](http://l-stat.livejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif) tswithtammysmth along with a response. A private response will also follow. All topics are welcome. From the weird to the norm, fetishes, fun, family or just a person to vent to. Visit me here on LJ or email me at T.S.with TammySmith@gmail.com T.S. Current Mood:  creative ([Questions?]) | | Wednesday, March 25th, 2009 | 11:44 am
[bellagiovane]
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okayyyy help?
Okay, sooooo i need some advice ASAP please. I have this friend heeee is one of my best friends actually and whenever we get drunk together we get ubbbbber flirty. Well last weekend we both got supppper drunk & ended up having sex. It was crazy the next time i saw him. He joked about it and we both were fine but now im starting to develop feelings for him. which i never ever thought would happen. Idk what to do about it. Idk if i should act on my feelings or just try & let them passsss by. But Im not sure they will. Idk he is someone that is my life daily, he is someone i dont want to loose but its crazzzy cause i never thought id fall for him. UGH help. HAHA. What should I do? (5 Thoughts | [Questions?]) | | Tuesday, March 17th, 2009 | 1:32 pm
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Finding a sugar daddy- the basics
I'm new to the community and sure hope this is relevant...I've Been trying to find a good LJ outlet for this subject. I'm interested in finding a sugar daddy. There doesn't seem to be much information on the internet about this. Finding someone isn't the hard part. I'm curious to learn more about how it really works. I'm thinking I'd meet with him and I'll present a list of expectations and listen to his, so we don't have any misunderstandings about obligations later on. Has anyone here been a sugar baby or sugar daddy before? I'd love to hear all about it, specifically about how you handled the details of who gets what, who gives what and when. Also, are there any legal issues with this? How does this differ from being an escort, legally speaking? I'm pretty new to all this and just toying around with the idea. Any advice you can give will be greatly appreciated!! Thanks! x-posted (1 Thought | [Questions?]) | | Friday, March 13th, 2009 | 4:41 pm
[deeplyinluv88]
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Hey i am new to this community!
well let me start off by introducing myself.
i am 20 yrs old and live in miami florida i recently had a baby girl
my problem is that i am not sexually active with my boyfriend like i use to be. i want to know if that is because i had a baby !
i do feel a little stress out with the baby, money, work etc
is there any way that i can get that sexual drive again with him !
i might think we need to spice things up and i dont know how
any advice that u guys can give me
thanks
Current Mood:  worried (1 Thought | [Questions?]) | 12:05 pm
[accentsarehot]
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Sex & Pregnancy
[x] I've only not been a virgin for about a year [x] The problem I'm about to ask about started around 8 months after my virginity was taken [x] I got pregnant 6-7 months months after I lost it [x] I'm about 4 & a half months pregnant now So my question is.... why, when it was starting to feel great/amazing/etc... are my man & I having to pretty much start over with the whole sex thing? When I initially lost my V-card, we had to take it pretty slow cause he's pretty big and I'm pretty small. But things were going really good. And then I got pregnant in October and we started having these "back to the drawing board" problems around November/December-ish... Like...anytime we try now, it pretty much feels like it did when he first took my virginity and it hurt so bad and whatnot. So basically, I was just wondering if my being pregnant has anything to do with it? And do you have any tips on what to do to make it easier, or will we just have to kinda ... start over? Also, anything anyone knows in general about sex while pregnant would be helpful, too! X-posted: ![[info]](http://l-stat.livejournal.com/img/community.gif) sextips, sexadvice, sex_tips, & sex_column (3 Thoughts | [Questions?]) | | Tuesday, March 3rd, 2009 | 1:22 pm
[rmysecrets]
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experience with size?
ok, so, hi! i've looked through the memories on this and couldn't find quite what i'm looking for. so here goes! bear with me! a few weeks ago, i was hanging at a friend's place, and she had a condom wrapper on her bedroom floor. i gave her shit about not cleaning up, but i had to ask her about it too because it was a magnum and i know that they're for bigger guys. anyway, she says her boyfriend is over eight inches and really thick, and she swears it's the best thing in the world. i asked her about it as much as i could without seeming live a perv :p because i've only been with one guy before, and he was not that big... looking at a ruler, he was maybe between 4 and 5. he wasn't very thick either. ever since we talked about her boyfriend, i've kinda been obsessed with the idea of a really big guy. she made it sound so damn exciting and hot! but like i said, i have no experience with that... so this is what i'm asking: is sex with a bigger, thicker guy really as good as it sounds? i mean, obviously it depends on if the guy knows how to use it, and on the emotional connection, but all other things being equal, how is it? is this something i should seek out? would it be a worthwhile experience? guys, do you get better reactions than your buddies if you're big? (or worse if you're small i guess!) thanks in advance for letting me benefit from your experiences! (4 Thoughts | [Questions?]) | | Sunday, March 1st, 2009 | 12:59 am
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