Portland Parents Unite!

It's too soon!

Sat, 04 Aug 2007 14:43:16 GMT

Hey all, need some advice here~

Jayden said he bumped his tooth on the playground structure yesterday. His upper incisor (big tooth on top). He said it bled a lot.
I didnt think anything of it since the school didnt give me an incident report (something I will discuss w/ them on Monday), and his teeth weren't chipped or anything (he didnt seem too upset).

THIS MORNING, he complained that his tooth still hurt. I touched it and IT WIGGLED. *jaw drops* The incisor next to it wiggles, but not as much. It hasnt turned color and is not bleeding.

Now, they say kids start to get baby teeth at 6 mos, and then start to lose those at 6 years old.... I'm wondering, if Jay got his front baby teeth at 4 months old (to the week), would it be possible that he'd start to lose those teeth at 4 years old?

I know, it sounds stupid, but I'm in denial. I dont want to have to take him to the dentist... but man.... that tooth is so loose I dont feel comfortable giving him anything tough to eat!

HELP ME :-s
Advice?

Grief counseling for children?

Sat, 19 May 2007 23:22:45 GMT

Tyler, my 5 year old son, is going through a phase right now and I'm pretty worried about him. He's got some big time anxiety and fear about death and dying. We frequently deal with melt downs usually before bed time, or if he is already upset about some other unrelated reason and I'm not quite sure what to do about it. He brings up my Great Grandma a lot, who died 2 years ago. He cries and cries about missing her. They were actually very close. When he was a baby, my grandma cared for him while I worked, and my great grandma moved in with her when he was little. He kept her so happy, when otherwise she was a little old grumpy 98 year old woman. They really did have a special connection. I've done everything I can think of to help- we make cards, we've visited her grave with flowers, we've looked through pictures. I've tried to help him understand that while she may be gone, she's always here in our hearts, and we have many great memories of her. Well, it usually doesn't end there, he then goes into hysterics about not wanting me or others in our lives to go away, and how he doesn't want to die, etc. I've found the best solution is to find a way to take his mind off of it- but it's obviously only a short term solution, since it returns several times a week.

I'm at a loss trying to help him through it on my own, and I've decided I should probably take him to a professional of some kind who can help him work through his grief. I know it's a long shot, but has any other parent gone through this and know of someone who can help us? Any books you've read? Anything? I'd really appreciate it!

Yes, I'm single too...

Tue, 28 Mar 2006 00:51:41 GMT

I logged onto OkCupid and was faced with some quiz thing they wanted me to retake because they updated it or something. Here is my results:

FACT: You embody the German principle of Konstantzusammenschaft, which is best described in English (without using the obscure English word "sammenschaft") as "eternal togethermanship".

The Loverboy
Random Gentle Love Master (RGLMm)

Well-liked. Well-established. You are The Loverboy. Loverboys thrive in committed, steady relationships--as opposed to, say, Playboys, who want sex without too much attachment.

You've had many relationships and nearly all of them have been successful. You're a nice guy, you know the ropes, and even if you can be a little hasty with decisions, most girls think of you as a total catch. Your hastiness comes off as spontaneity most of the time anyhow, making you especially popular in your circle of friends, too.

Your exact opposite:
The Billy Goat

Deliberate Brutal Sex Dreamer

You know not to make the typical Loverboy mistake of choosing someone who appreciates your good humor and popularity, but who offers nothing in return. You belong with someone outgoing, independent, and creative. Otherwise, you'll get bored. And then instead of surprising her with flowers or a practical joke, you'll surprise her by leaving.

ALWAYS AVOID: The Nymph

CONSIDER: The Window Shopper, The Peach

Link: The 32-Type Dating Test by OkCupid - Free Online Dating.
My profile name: megasurge

Teachers and Parents

Fri, 10 Mar 2006 22:40:03 GMT

I was having a discussion with my ex-wife about our daughter, who's 6 now, and her current education progress. She was expressing some concern that her teacher was teaching the kids wrong. My reply to that was, off-the-cuff, but I thought it was good and decided to post it here. My basic understanding of a child's learning process is that they learn primarily from two things: observation and environment. In light of this, my view is that teachers are not the end all of information, they are a guide. They are trained with various ways to educate that are effective and from that point they teach how they see as proper. Beyond that, they are guides to give direction to our kids and if they want to learn more then it's up to them to do so. It is up to the parents at this point to be the rolemodel and help their child gain the ambition and motivation to "want" to learn. I'm staying very focused on this now, because from all that I have read and just from my understanding, a child's most influential ages are from 0-12 years old. In any case, I thought this might be worth posting. I'm not saying I'm right or anything, but this certainly seems like it's good thinking.

Non-Traditional Parent Playdate (Oregon Zoo)

Tue, 10 May 2005 18:59:00 GMT

Come and meet other "interesting" parents and children at the Oregon
Zoo on Saturday, May 14 at 11am.

Meet in front of the Bear at the gift shop. If you can't afford
tickets to the zoo, please contact me offlist at malacat@gmail.com and
I may be able to make arrangements.

My cell is (503) 809-1721

http://portland.tribe.net/event/cdc205a6-5307-482b-92f8-5c1e3f2a201a?
nextpage=http%3A%2F%2Fportland.tribe.net%2Fhome%3Fr%3D10288&r=10288

Baby Stuff

Sun, 10 Apr 2005 20:00:13 GMT

Ok, so I have the following items that will be leaving our house shortly...

Whoever wants them, if you are local (Beaverton, OR), you can come pick it up, if you aren't, all you need to do is pay shipping.

I'm posting this to freecycle to, so whoever gets them

Here is a bunch of clothing that Max has outgrown, mostly 18-24 mo.

Here is a butterfly mobile. I think I am missing the last piece that connects to the crib, but I think you can probably set it up anyway

Butterfly book

Green Crib Bumper

Floppy Seat

Waterproof crib mattress cover

Max's halloween costume from last year (It says 6-12 months, but it runs large)

Email malacat13@yahoo.com

Looking for friends and more...

Fri, 08 Apr 2005 19:22:17 GMT

Hello. This community doesn't really seem too active but I thought I would post to see what might come of it. So, for starters, I'm looking for a long term relationship with a girl who is sweet, caring and honest. I'm kind of leaning toward single mothers because I'm a single dad myself and it seems that at least single moms would understand the time constraints involved when you have a child as I would understand their dilemmas as well. It just seems like it works out better, however, if you're not a single mom but you do like children and are good with them as well as have understanding about my time constraints then it still might work out. So, I'm not going to go into much more detail than that as I have a complete profile that I filled out (with pictures) at OkCupid.com. Just click that link and it should take you to my profile. I'm really only looking for friends right now and if something should click then great! If you want to hang out sometime then message me or email or contact me any number of the possible ways there is. Hopefully I will meet some great girls.

Non-Traditional Parent Meetup, Saturday April 16, 2005

Fri, 08 Apr 2005 17:14:59 GMT

Hello Portland Non-Traditional Parents!

Come and play with other Non-Traditional kids and parents at Peanut Butter & Ellies!

Saturday, April 16, 2005 at 10:00 AM

Please note that there is a NEW LOCATION for Peanut Butter & Ellies is 4405 SW Vermont, Portland OR

To sign up for the Meetup group, go to http://alternaparent.meetup.com/68/ or just show up!

Hope to see you there!

-Anne

Kind of an Odd Request

Fri, 08 Apr 2005 16:25:02 GMT

I need your help, guys.

I'm looking for a gay-friendly pediatrician in the area of St. Vincent's hospital. Or anywhere, really. I took my son to his first appointment with his new pediatrician and explaining his family situation and her reaction was really awful.

Any ideas from you parents out there?

Dads & Daughters...

Mon, 07 Feb 2005 20:38:22 GMT

Also, I thought I may as well post this neat resource web site:

Dads & Daughters

It seems pretty decent.

Uh-oh...

Mon, 07 Feb 2005 20:36:44 GMT

This is definitely not what you want your children doing while you sleep... ;-)

Young Driver New Story

How is it that I run around after my kids all day, but still don't lose any weight??? :O)

Mon, 16 Aug 2004 22:46:10 GMT

Hi everyone,

I haven't posted in a LONG time - mainly because I've been in Nursing school and have a toddler and a preschooler (whew, I've been busy!) But, hey my last year of Nursing school starts at the end of September -YIPPEE! :O)

Anyway... I gained 20, yes TWENTY, pounds during Nursing school this past year. (That was added to the 25 pounds I had put on since highschool)... I figure all of those late nights studying and eating junk food probably did it. :o(

Well, I tried the Atkins diet, but had a hard time sticking with it. Don't get me wrong, I L-O-V-E bacon, but after eating it every day for a few weeks, it's not so exciting anymore...So, long story short, I heard about the South Beach Diet from several people who have had tremendous success with it... (my doctor even recommended it to me).

I started the South Beach Diet a week ago and I've lost 7 pounds (they say people lose an average of 8-12 pounds during the first two weeks and it's "belly fat" too!) - so far I feel great and am really excited about it. It's different than Atkins - more about eating healthy fats and healthy carbs, ~~not just "eat as much eggs and bacon and cheese and steak as you want"...~~ (Being a Nursing student I always think about the health aspect first)...

So, I created a Yahoo Group - kind of a support group - a place to encourage each other, vent, share recipes, ask questions, etc... I haven't gotten any takers yet (except for my husband - but he doesn't count - hee hee). I figure all of us parents need a little support when we're trying to lose weight - (I know I do, to stick to my goal).

So, if you're interested in joining go here: http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/southbeachnw/ I named it South Beach in the NW...

Happy Summer everyone! :O)
(x-posted)

Daycare?

Thu, 12 Aug 2004 23:53:05 GMT

Where would I find quality daycare, two days a week, that won't:

1) cost more than my mortgage
2) freak at the lesbian grandmas
3) have a prayer circle before snacktime

and that will or might:

a) feed moderately healthy snacks
b) accept a 16-month-old
c) not panic at cloth diapers

Any suggestions? Buehler? Anyone?

*crossposted, cause I'm like that today. Blame the hormones.

Catwoman?

Tue, 27 Jul 2004 16:46:41 GMT

Miles (age six) had been invited to go see Catwoman with his Grandma and two of his older cousins (9 and 12) I've not seen the movie and I have no idea if its something ok for a six year old to see. Is it scary? Too sexual? Will it cause him to think all women should wear leather around town and carry a whip? My first instinct when she asked was hell no, but I thought I'd ask folks who have seen the movie.

Crossposted like a Mo-Fo!

ducky outfits are so cute!

Mon, 26 Jul 2004 05:32:57 GMT

Today was pretty much like all the others. My brother brought over some people, he wanted to show off taylor. Its so cute how proud he is of his niece. After they left I feed taylor and put her in her swing, she cried so I had to go pick her up til she fell asleep totaly, which took about 45 minutes. Then I put ehr in her swing again, to get online and get up on my email and my journals. Jen (summer_mommy) was online but we only got to talk for a few
Other then that I went to the store for some very much needed green tea and we stopped by whits house so she can see tay. Shes only seen her once since she was born so whit was very happy.
Then when we got back home I took some pictures of her and now Im gonna share them with you all. I will be adding a whole bunch more around the first, thats when Im getting my film developed( I get them on a picture cd and upload em on my site then put em here) so here ya go...

ducky outfits are so cute!

Mon, 26 Jul 2004 05:32:57 GMT

Thanks to those who responded.

Thu, 15 Jul 2004 06:21:39 GMT

I talked with her doctor, and he said shes colicy and using the breastmilk to satisfy herself because they use that as comfort and as a result she was taking in too much and spitting most of it back out. He gave me some good tips as to how to soothe her during her cranky time. Its not too bad anymore, But I was just so worried at the time as any first time mom would.
Oh and jsut to let you guys know, shes now up to 9lbs 6oz and 20 7/8in long.. My little monkey's getting so big!
Again thanks for all the advice!
shay

Thu, 15 Jul 2004 05:18:16 GMT

I'm leaving Livejournal very soon, so I need someone to take over as maintainer of this community. Who is willing?

How much should she be eating??

Thu, 15 Jul 2004 04:56:09 GMT

My daughter taylor will be one month one the 8th and Im wondering about how much she should be eatin..Her last weigh-in shes gained 1lb 1oz so I know shes gaining good weight but since then I've noticed shes eating more, acting hungry more often but then spit a lot of it up. Im kinda worried shes over eating..Since her thrush I've had to pump and bottle feed her and shes taking in about 4oz every 2-2 1/2 hours. I have been told 2oz is more like normal..I dunno Im just worried about the spitting a lot of it back up. I know It looks like more then It is really,but I cant help but to be paranoid..So If any of you can remeber how much your 1 month old ate, or even know, let me know I wanna compare what I've been told..Thanx..

leaving community...

Thu, 08 Jul 2004 03:54:23 GMT

due to not having enough time to ready everything, I am leaving this community.

Thank you for your time.

update on Hunter - x-posted

Wed, 30 Jun 2004 05:05:53 GMT

Hunter had his follow-up appointments for the surgery he had way back in February. (link to post that kind of describes the surgery) So the first appointment was the actual lab work [aka "voiding study"] (placing a catheter in Hunter and seeing if there is any reflux to the kidneys). The second appointment was just the doctor letting us know what's going on.
The good news from the appointments is the reflux is gone and once Hunter finishes the bottle of anti-biotic that he currently has... he's done with it. YAY!! So that just leave the vitamins and the Miralax.

Mon, 07 Jun 2004 13:35:26 GMT

Good Morning! (if you like the rain, that is)

I am in need of 2 baby gates and a highchair... My 1yr old is running rampant!

Anyone needing to part w/ theirs for a reasonable rate?

How about trade?
I have a nearly new Graco Infant carseat and base, a walker that plays non-annoying music (and turns into a pushtoy for wee ones that are starting to walk, retailing at $50), and boys clothes.

If you or anyone you know has these items, please email me or respond to this post... stratedwn2you@yahoo.com

Danke!