Tuesday, April 22nd, 2008
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11:23 am - not feeling anything
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said_goodbye
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I've tried giving my boyfriend oral sex about 4 times (I think). Last night was the first time he says he actually "felt" something when I was doing it - he says that the previous times, he didn't really feel anything. This time, he says he felt "tingling." Is this an issue of pressure (should I work on increasing pressure during oral?), his own sensitivity, or what?
It's quite frustrating - I do the same things I did on my previous partner that worked for him, but it's not working that well for my current. (I know guys are all different, but still.) Both my previous partner and current partner are uncircumcised.
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Tuesday, April 8th, 2008
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9:50 am - Penis skin flaking.. and peeling off
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frankenweenie74
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About 2 weeks ago I was experiencing pain during insertion. We thought we needed to just use more lube but that didn't help either. We then thought maybe I had an infection. So I home treated for yeast and possible BV infection with diluted Boric acid.
Several days later my boyfriend started to complain that his penis was irritated. He said it didn't itch but his skin is a little flaky in some spots mostly right under the rim. This morning when he got an erection a big piece of skin just peeled right off.
Do you think he could have a yeast infection or something?
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Wednesday, March 26th, 2008
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1:15 am - Is too much play dangerous?
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thecoolllama
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Hey all,
I just joined this group and figured I would open up with a query. I am currently between women and not getting any sex at the moment. So I go back to the crutch of self-pleasure. But I wonder, is there such a thing as too much masterbation? I mean, I get off at least four times a day. And things being to hurt a bit after awhile. It kinda feels like pain inside the urethra, not bad, it is very slight. Is this a problem? Does this mean I am doing too much? Or am I just being weired? Thanks for reading.
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Thursday, March 20th, 2008
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3:03 pm - problems with smell or taste
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eorth3000
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I have concerns about what my penis and my scrotum smell and taste like. I shower at least once a day and make sure to wash that area really well. My girlfriend still seems to complain about a bad smell and taste. Is there anyone out there with some advice to remove of smells or tastes?
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1:32 pm - Vasectomy stories?
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Tuesday, January 29th, 2008
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1:00 pm - Don't think its ED
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nocturnalinter
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So here's the question. I don't think i have E.D. but when I'm with a partner i can almost never get a full erection, and if I do, i can't retain it very long. The reason I don't think its E.D. is because when I am by myself I can attain a full erection and retain it for up to an hour or two with proper stimulation. I am thinking that it may be a case of too much masturbation. I engage it it at least twice a day, and on a good day three or four times. I've tried different things, like looking at porn with a partner , mentally trying to relax while with a partner, all sorts of things, but nothing seems to work. I do get semi erect. But not hard enough for penatration. There is usually a good amount of foreplay, including oral and mutual masturbation, and I'm fairly sure its not a lack of attraction because this has happened with every girl I've been with. so idk, I could use some advice.
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Monday, December 17th, 2007
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6:14 pm
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preciouslilme
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Sorry if this post isn't completely relevant here but I wanted to post it somewhere to get different men's opinions.
What I am curious about is if you think that watching porn effects the way you view sex. In any regard, but also specifically whether it changes the way you view your partner (especially during sex).
Thanks :)
x-posted to sextips
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Sunday, December 2nd, 2007
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6:41 pm - Holding back on ejaculation = okay?
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ic_shy_girl
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Hi Everyone, please forgive this post if it's a silly question. My boyfriend frequently holds back on his ejaculate when he orgasms (orgasms with no ejaculate). Could this possibly cause any damage, or does the ejaculate just get neatly reabsorbed into his body? Thanks!
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Wednesday, October 31st, 2007
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9:17 pm - Premature ejaculation and being understanding.
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aesoploveee
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So, my boyfriend and I just recently gave our virginities to each other. It was wonderful and I care about him very much. The thing is my boy has a problem, premature ejaculation. Actually, I really don't think of it as a problem but he gets really bummed out about it. I think it's just something that he has and it's honestly not an issue for me. I love him for who he is and I love being with him, sexually or non. I've been reading up on premature ejaculation to better understand what it is, what causes it, etc, etc, so that I can be as understanding and well-informed as possible. I don't really know anyone who has it, or has admitted to having it, so I can't really get any information from a friend or anything.
He wanted to see a urologist, just to know about his sex organs and be able to talk about premature ejaculation with a professional. The problem is he's living with his parents, who he can't be open about his sex life with, so he'll need to schedule one himself. He is eighteen, so it's not a problem to schedule, but money is. He makes barely above minimum wage so he doesn't have much of it, haha. Are there any places that you know of that have urologists or urologist-type examinations that are easier on the wallet? Any places that are free? And I'd like it to be a reliable place please, no sense in going somewhere that'll be no help at all. Another thing is, fellows and ladies, how can I be a more understanding girlfriend? As I said, I really don't mind his premature ejculation and it doesn't hold back the relationship as far as I'm concerned. But he says it embarasses him and he feels badly about it, which I can sympathize with because so much pressure is put on men to be purely sexual beings but obviously cannot empathize with since I'm a woman and the exact opposite is my expectation in society, haha. We've talked about it and I tell him how I feel, I show him that I love him regardless, but is there anything extra that I can do to make him feel like he's no less of a man to me and it in no way changes my feelings for him?
Thanks so much in advance, any advice or comments are appreciated! :)
current mood:  calm
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Thursday, September 20th, 2007
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12:47 pm - Abnormal testicle
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shaunanigans
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Alright, I have kind of a strange question.
My SO's testicles are a little strange. He has one "normal" one that looks like all the cheesy sex ed diagrams that you see in high school, and then he's got a special one. Its abnormally shaped, rather kidney shaped actually, and much larger than the other one. I don't mind it, we have great sex regardless, and he's never had any pain or anything associated with it. What's up with it, though? I just don't want it to be dangerous down the road (if it could be). Should he see a doctor? Could this affect his fertility?
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Saturday, August 18th, 2007
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11:46 am - no sex drive, considering a supllement
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moishebear
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Long story short, i'm an otherwise healthy 21-year-old male whose sex drive has dropped from doing it 3-4 times a night to not getting aroused enough to get an erection. I talked to me my doctor about it and he was completely clueless, suggesting that it's probably an emotional thing.
He may be right, but it's not a matter of not being able to get it up with one particular girl, put a matter of having no sexual desire at all for the past month or so.
My question is: as an add-on (NOT a replacement) for healthy diet and exersize, I was thinking of taking a herbal supplement called Provigro. anybody know anything about that?
I realize some people will say "Oh none of that herbal crap works". for some people, probably not. In general it seems to work OK for me, though in that case I was taking it (that is, ginseng and gingko) seperately, not in any kind of formulation.
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Tuesday, July 24th, 2007
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11:49 am - Hard lump in the scrotum
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skeas
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My boyfriend has a hard lump about the size of a pea in his scrotum. I researched it a little and found that lumps in the scrotum (not attached to the testicles) are always benign. Is this true? His is not attached to his testicles at all.
The information I found was a little confusing, so if anyone can shed light on this, it would be helpful. Is it definitely a cyst, or are there other options?
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Wednesday, July 4th, 2007
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10:32 pm
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__recidivist
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Is there a succinct, less vulgar term for blue balls? I'm working on an outline for a paper and eventually the subject is going to require me to remark on this (oh John Wilmot), and I'm hoping that there's an easier way to say it than "discomfort caused by lack of ejaculation after arousal". Which is almost as awkward as busting out a colloquialism. Suggestions appreciated.
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7:58 pm - Just curious...
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soulsex
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How large is the largest penis you've experienced? How large is the largest one you've ever seen?
My boyfriend's is average size, somewhere between 6-7 inches. I am not complaining. Just curious....I know a lot of women fantasize about bigger guys. What's the largest one you've ever encountered and was the experience of it more pleasureable for you or problematic in some way?
i've seen photos of guys that are larger than 9 plus inches. Wooosh! That's a lot of man. How big do these buggers get?
current mood:  contemplative
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Wednesday, April 25th, 2007
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11:52 pm - This is not my penis
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azn_blackmarket
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http://www.pornotube.com/media.php?m=555142 (it's a pic and yeah... not safe for work.. at all)
What penis modication is this?!
Disclaimer: Image is graphic in that it looks like an alien is trying to pop out of his penis and splooge is coming out. This is not my penis nor is it my boyfriend's penis...Thank god.
BUT WHAT THE HELL??? Talk about cool and scary at the same time...lol
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9:38 pm - Chances of Pregnancy
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bluesuitcase
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Sorry for the consecutive posts, but I've been meaning to ask this question.
Lady gives Man a lovely blow job. Man is Lady's first partner, and vice versa, in every sense of the word -- from hugs to oral sex. It is Lady's first time swallowing, and Man's first time ejaculating in her presence. Lady misses the first two drops but swallows the rest. Man has some jizz on his shirt, and Lady has a bit on her hands. Both wash up -- their hands and 'down there.'
Man refuses to finger Lady for one day, out of fear of impregnating her.
Lady finds this ridiculous, as most of the semen was swallowed, and what wasn't swallowed was either dried or washed away down the drain.
Is Man over-paranoid? Is Lady correct, or just impatiently horny? Can Man safely finger Lady after such a situation?
Hopefully this made sense!
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Wednesday, April 18th, 2007
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3:40 pm - How can I get him to want sex more?
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avelleenders11
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So when my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time we had a bit of a pregnancy scare. Due to my age, luckily I wasnt. He was a virgin when we first had sex. Well ever since then he doesnt like to have sex. Like Ill tempt him and everything and he just wont want to do it. He will use every excuse in the book to not have sex. Its not that i dont turn him on, because everytime we are together he is always hard.
I asked him today and he said well I guess sex just doesnt appeal to me. He does want to do anal though. He also always wants head. Why is he so against having sex? Is it that hes scared? The few times we did do it, we had to use sooo many precautions. For example we used a condom (thats a given), had to make sure I wasnt ovulating, and he had to pull out before he came even though he had a condom on. How can I get him to want sex more? Also he never really does anything to me, hes kinda selfish in that area.. what should i do?
Thanks for any advice .
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Friday, April 13th, 2007
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10:21 pm - circumcision - phimosis - healing
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raspberrynight
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Hey everyone,
My boyfriend had phimosis and all other options were exhausted so this morning he got circumcized. I'm having a hell of a time finding any literature on how the healing is (especially for someone who had phimosis) without being bombarded with anti-circumcision websites (which are really annoying, knowing that nothing else could be done in his case...). If anyone's had an adult circumcision on here or knows someone who has (esp. because of phimosis, since I imagine the sensitivity is worse) and would like to share how the healing process was for them, we'd appreciate it a lot. Oh, and I'm not wondering how long before he can have sex, because that seems to be the only question I can find an answer to online =P
Thanks!
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Monday, April 9th, 2007
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8:35 am - Looking for your help with a project that should benefit us all!
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perigee
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Hi folks! I'm running a project called the Body Morphology Project on the Wikimedia Commons (a repository for freely-available, freely-reusable media), and I'm looking for your help to make it bigger/better.
Basically the idea is to create and collect standardized picture sets of lots of different bodies. The goal is to provide an unbiased store of standard pictures of everyday bodies that we can all use to compare and contrast how normal bodies look. We want to do this to offset the leverage professional (diet counsellors, workout advisors, plastic surgeons, etc.) have to make us feel ashamed or abnormal about features in our bodies that may well be quite normal and within standard ranges.
So anyway, if you have a body you wouldn't mind sharing in this way, or you know people who do, please see the Project coordination page for details on how you can participate. This project is open to anyone with a body and a camera or anyone with a camera who knows other people with bodies willing to share them in this way.
The most important caveat is that the photos that are part of this project must be licensed in a Commons-friendly way, which usually means they're not intended for profitable use, and that they can be freely repurposed by any other person without strings.
To clarify/emphasize: All persons with photographable bodies are welcome to participate in the project, as long as they voluntarily do so. "Normal" is what we're trying to deconstruct or disprove, not establish. We want as wide a range of bodies/volunteer models as possible, but since the project is entirely volunteer, we'll take what we get.
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Saturday, March 31st, 2007
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12:21 pm
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anonymousdave
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I, like many other guys, have the whole premature ejaculation problem... i last a couple of minutes and its over.... I'm wanting to know if you can suggest a certain condom that would make me last loner, or any other advice or what you and your guy have tried. thanks!
if this isn't appropriate, i'll remove it.
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