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Wednesday, July 8th, 2009
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11:16 pm
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mysecondbest
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Hi!
I took a look at the memories but didn't find this.
I was watching some porn and the boys there are so well shaved. Their balls look all smooth. That would make a lot of things easier for me when pleasuring my guy. He's mentioned he's tried before but that it seems really difficult to shave his balls.
Is there a way to do this and we just dont know it? Tips?
Thnaks a lot.
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| Saturday, July 4th, 2009
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11:22 am - Semen color?
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want2ridemybike
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Does semen have different colors? Does this vary one man to the next because of genetics? Or with diet or something else?
I ask because I always thought it was white, but my boyfriend's is clear and it made me curious.
current mood:  curious
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| Sunday, April 19th, 2009
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2:57 pm - headaches
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resonanteye
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Asking for a Luddite man friend of mine...It's not exactly penis-related, but it seemed I might get decent advice here as opposed to another comm. (xposted to![[info]](http://l-stat.livejournal.com/img/community.gif) menzhealth just in case)
He gets very bad headaches, only started recently.( info and details )
Short form: headache cures? headache causes? How can I help him feel better? And has anyone had any personal experience with this?
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| Wednesday, April 1st, 2009
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8:22 pm
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| Monday, March 30th, 2009
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3:06 pm - urination among other things
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| Sunday, March 8th, 2009
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11:29 am - Sensitivity loss?
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antistatic_86
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My boyfriend has been losing sensitivity in the head of his penis for three to four weeks now. He is uncircumcised, and is a moderate masturbator. We don't get the opportunity to be together four days a week, so he'll take care of things on his own a few times. But neither of these is a new development.
I was having some vaginal irritation issues at the start of our relationship, so we didn't start having PIV sex on a regular basis until about mid-January, just about two months ago.
He's also on Celexa, or a generic. I suspect the particular type of pill he was taking changed (even though he insists otherwise. He switched doctors and got a new prescription. Other side effects have changed, too, and when it comes to things like this, [much as I love him!] he is not the most observant guy ever).
So, my question is, could the loss of sensitivity be attributed to a change in pill? Or any of the other reasons listed? Any other ideas?
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| Sunday, March 1st, 2009
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1:00 am - ANNOUNCEMENT: Sexy Spring VI Planning Meeting 3/11 -- Volunteer Planners Needed
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| Sunday, February 15th, 2009
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5:07 pm - Dry Penis
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skeas
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My boyfriend's penis has been really dry recently, to the point that the skin is hard and rough and almost leathery. He says that it has really decreased sensitivity. He hasn't been masturbating, and he's been putting lotion on it when he remembers, but so far there's been no change. We live in the desert and have pretty dry winters, but he says that this has never happened to him before.
What to do?
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| Sunday, February 1st, 2009
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4:58 pm - Penis damage
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soulmaking
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I feel so hopeless I feel like I'm about to die. I destroyed my penis. I was wondering if anyone knew of any news of stem cells that could help save a penis?
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| Friday, January 9th, 2009
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9:41 pm - Pills and Creams and Scams
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soulsex
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I can't believe ads still appear on TV and in print pushing male enhancement products.
Are there guys out there who have really benefitted from products like these? From the pills and the pumps and the creams, etc.? I am assuming none of these products really work...that's why it's hard to figure out how the companies get away with blatantly false ad campaigns.
How do they get away with exploiting men and women's insecurities like this?
current mood:  confused
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| Sunday, January 4th, 2009
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2:42 pm - Frostbite
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ralphkns
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Hey everyone. I was caught outside last new year's eve in extreme cold (wind chill of -18F); I got mild frostbite on my glans (I am circumcised) and made a bad move by pouring warm water on it while it was still numb, which I learned too late is bad for you. It's recovered slowly over the past few days, but the skin on my glans doesn't look quite the same. Stimulation doesn't feel exactly the same as it used to either, but that could just be all in my head (no pun intended).
Do I need to see a doctor? I was planning on starting to restore soon, but might wait a while. It's been several days, and each day it seems a little more normal.
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| Thursday, November 27th, 2008
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2:29 am - Fleshlight too tight?
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noumignon
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I bought a Fleshlight, and it was uncomfortably tight, so I stopped using it. Then, a couple months later, I realized you can unscrew the bottom for less air pressure and that was a major improvement. But it's still too tight. Do I have insufficient hydraulic pressure in my penis, or is this thing designed for hardcore masturbators who need a death grip to get off? The expanded line of products includes an "ultra tight" and "super tight" model, so I'm thinking this is the loosest one they've got.
If the Fleshlight is too tight for me, will I have similar problems with a live vagina? Not that I'm really expecting to encounter one, I'm just curious. Anyway, I've just gone back to my regular water wings where the air pressure is adjustable.
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| Sunday, August 31st, 2008
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4:37 pm - Blood pressure problems?
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banyangirl1832
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Houston, we have a problem.
I'm currently in a LDR, and my lovely, amazing boyfriend of two plus years has a rather tricky problem. You see, there's nothing wrong with his equipment, but whenever he starts to get turned on and in the mood, his blood pressure drops, and he gets dizzy and fuzzy, thus precluding any play that might take place. I'm not going to see him again until Thanksgiving, so finding a solution to this problem asap would be fantastic. Has anyone else experienced this, and if so, what sorts of remedies worked? I know he'd prefer not to be put on blood pressure medication, partly because he lives at home and would be questioned about his reasons for taking it, and partly because he's already got a rather serious medical condition that he has to take 100 pills for a day as it is. (Note: said medical condition does not usually impede him from having sex, don't worry. ) Any tips here? Thanks in advance.
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| Sunday, June 8th, 2008
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8:03 pm - HIV prevention
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astaciamorrigen
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I just found an article about a post HIV exposure treatment at motherjones.com. According to the article the treatment is given as soon as possible after exposure to HIV and works to stop the virus from actually spreading in the body. It is mostly reserved for healthcare professionals who are exposed to HIV in medical accidents. I find it fascinating that there is a treatment available to help prevent HIV from taking hold if a person has been exposed, yet it is not made readily available to the general public in all areas.
I'm wondering what kind of protest/mass action could be done to influence the availability of this treatment. Ideas?
current mood: curious
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| Monday, June 2nd, 2008
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2:14 pm - Performance anxiety?
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emmy_em
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My 19 year old bf was a total virgin in everyway before me (not even had his first kiss yet), He gets hard when he sees me and while we are playing around, kissing and touching as long as we are mostly clothed (at least pants on) when clothes come off he tends to lose (or mostly lose) his erection.
We've only had sex once, and since then the problem has continued. The fact that he didnt last so long that time probably doesnt help, even though ive reassured him that it was fine.
He's never been very sexual till we started going out, hardly ever masturbated etc, but hes alot more aware about these things now. The main thing is that he is worried he is going to dissapoint me and no matter how much i reassure him i know he still worries. I know he really wants to be able to have sex with me, and it gets him down even more that he can't when we both want it so much.
Any suggestions on how to help us get through this so we can have a regular sex life?
Thanks
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| Thursday, May 22nd, 2008
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8:12 pm - hard but not *up*
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iknowbluelight
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I've been wondering about this for months. I'm super glad I found this community!
Okay, whenever my boyfriend gets hard, I can see his penis trapped by his pants against his thigh. But then when I take off his pants, he doesn't spring upward, or even outward, like one would expect. Despite being visibly aroused and hard as a rock, he is never *up*. It is the weirdest thing! He actually HANGS while hard, just hangs! Let me assure you though, that he's hard and heavy and has pre-cum. It's not like he's not aroused. I cannot clarify enough that he is NOT "wilting" or shrinking or going soft. I know when that happens, and this is not it. He's hard as a rock, but just not "up". I'm not sure he knows this isn't normal. He was a Catholic boy for a long time, and only masturbated for the first time at the age of 16. (would that have anything to do with it?)
Now, we're both 18 and both virgins. We've been attempting sex lately, but since his penis just hangs between his legs, things are tricky. (Granted, this is in addition to some serious, ridiculous tightness and possible hymen business on my part. But that's another story.)
Anyway, I do NOT think he realizes that this isn't NORMAL--at least to my knowledge. I've seen a fair few penises in my life, and never experienced anything like this--they've all managed to stand at attention quite well. He, on the other hand, has never had any sexual relations--not even kissing--before me, so I didn't say anything. He's become very good at most things in which pants stay on, but this just totally baffles me. It is so weird!
Has anyone experienced this? Does anyone have any ideas?
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| Tuesday, April 22nd, 2008
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11:23 am - not feeling anything
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said_goodbye
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I've tried giving my boyfriend oral sex about 4 times (I think). Last night was the first time he says he actually "felt" something when I was doing it - he says that the previous times, he didn't really feel anything. This time, he says he felt "tingling." Is this an issue of pressure (should I work on increasing pressure during oral?), his own sensitivity, or what?
It's quite frustrating - I do the same things I did on my previous partner that worked for him, but it's not working that well for my current. (I know guys are all different, but still.) Both my previous partner and current partner are uncircumcised.
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| Tuesday, April 8th, 2008
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9:50 am - Penis skin flaking.. and peeling off
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frankenweenie74
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About 2 weeks ago I was experiencing pain during insertion. We thought we needed to just use more lube but that didn't help either. We then thought maybe I had an infection. So I home treated for yeast and possible BV infection with diluted Boric acid.
Several days later my boyfriend started to complain that his penis was irritated. He said it didn't itch but his skin is a little flaky in some spots mostly right under the rim. This morning when he got an erection a big piece of skin just peeled right off.
Do you think he could have a yeast infection or something?
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| Wednesday, March 26th, 2008
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1:15 am - Is too much play dangerous?
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thecoolllama
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Hey all,
I just joined this group and figured I would open up with a query. I am currently between women and not getting any sex at the moment. So I go back to the crutch of self-pleasure. But I wonder, is there such a thing as too much masterbation? I mean, I get off at least four times a day. And things being to hurt a bit after awhile. It kinda feels like pain inside the urethra, not bad, it is very slight. Is this a problem? Does this mean I am doing too much? Or am I just being weired? Thanks for reading.
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