Hi,
I tried this awhile ago, and I am hoping someone has run across this fic in the last couple months. It's a rather unusual premise, but I would really like to re read it. It may have been/be a WIP.
Tony is in a relationship with a OMC naval officer, possibly a Captain. The guy was involved in special ops or something similar - he may have been on a SEAL team. Unfortunately, the guy was killed in the Middle East, and the story sort of revolves around the team finding out about Tony's partner, the house they shared etc. There is a mantle with what the author called something similar to, "the usual family at home wall" or something with that sense that had pictures on the mantle, and the flag from the funeral.
I really hope someone is familiar with this fic, as I remember it decently, but have been trying to track it down for months.
Thanks,
Nyx