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[ Saturday
June 7th, 2008 7:31pm
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I don't know if you guys know the story of the guy i like. i've liked him for a long time, but he never ever said he liked me, so i guess he dont. but he is always hanging out with me everytime he sees me.
WHen we are hanging out, he's always so flirtacious, but the moment he sees my girlfriends coming, he leave. When he sees my guy friends, he awkwardly hangs around and talk to them, telling them to do something stupid. he told my brother to take my ipod from my pocket. today, he told this guy that i just met last week that its gonna be my birthday soon and he should buy me a present.
he's four years older (19), so i dont think he like me, but he keeps confusing me with those actions. Last week, he gave me a hug and was joking around with me. this week, he saw me talking to that guy and he was like "wassup with you and that guy volunteering here? you guys are talking alot" when he sees me hanging out with that guy he walks by then walks away. he's so confusing. The guy that i met last week thought that he was my boyfriend b/c of last week and how touchy he was. b/c the guy i like was being hot/cold all day, i ended up takling to that guy like the whole time. what's going on?
in addition, he asked me why i kept coming here to volunteer. he told me that i should just stay home. (for the record: i am there to volunteer for hours, not to see him.) does he not want me there? >
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[ Saturday
May 17th, 2008 10:03pm
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Hey girls.
I posted last Monday about having broken up with my boyfriend...
Just before he broke up with me I'd given him his birthday present (late, because he'd been away and I hadn't had a chance to give it to him before) but I wouldn't let him open it because I hate watching people open things I've given them.
Anyway afterwards we broke up and it was fine, it wasn't a bad one and I didn't really care. It's irritating because I'm not upset... just really pissed off and a bit spiteful.
But we still have not spoken, and he hasn't even thanked me for his present which really gives me the shits. He said, you know 'promise you'll hang out with me sometime' and although I don't want to - if he's saying shit like that, why don't I get a measly 'thank you'?!
I don't know what I'm asking for exactly, advice? I don't want to talk to him first. But I think he's being cowardly or something, I mean... I WANTED that present D:
I wish I'd taken it back!
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[ Monday
May 12th, 2008 8:09pm
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My boyfriend just broke up with me. I feel kind of sad, I got kind of teary.
But I just keep thinking of all the things I've been wanting to do that I can do, and I don't know if that's a good or bad thing.
I never wanted to really see him unless I made an effort to think about him... but that's more just to do with my own personal problems that I need to deal with - that were probably a big part of the problem.
But should I be crying and wallowing and wishing he was back? I am going to miss him, he was my best (and only close) friend as well as my first love... I just don't know :|
Am I emotionally stunted?!
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April 22nd, 2008 6:57am
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I just found out that my ex boyfriend of about a year had cheated on me. We just broke up no longer than a week and a half ago. I'm REALLY struggling with the anger. It's basically rage. And I just feel so completely hurt and betrayed. It's hard because he was my best friend. And while I've had to deal with not having him anymore, this also comes up. And the girl he cheated with was his first girlfriend. She's gorgeous. I am jealous, depressed, and irate. I've never been cheated on and I don't know how to handle it. And even though it's in the past, I can't leave it there. I just consider everything we had one big lie. But I loved him... Please, please help me...
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[ Wednesday
April 16th, 2008 7:22pm
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Hey guys, I'm new to Livejournal and to this community. I hope to meet you guys!
Name: Joanna
Age (grade, if still in school): 16
Sex: Female
Birthday/Sign: August 7, 1991
Single or Taken...(including: pics and/or info about your s/o?):
Yes, I'm taken by this lovely guy. We've been together for 10 months as of today! Favorites... Bands: Alternatives, rock, punk, and lots more
Tell us anything you want about yourself:
I'm a shy person at first. I love hanging out with my family and friends.
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[ Wednesday
January 30th, 2008 12:27am
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Girl advice, hm..where to begin
I guess this is about a breakup im going through at the moment , well let me just start off by saying we dated for 2 years and like a month .. the first year i have nothing to complain about it was perfect .. then like a few months after our one year .. he dumped me .. for like no apparent reason .. we still hungout and stuff but then summer he started hanging out with other girls and it really bothered me even though we were still broken up but it still bothered me cause idk.. Maybe the fact i love him ? haha... well anyways i was talking to him one time while we were broken up and he told me he was gong to his grandmas? and then i ended up seeing him at the mall with another girl and thats where it was time to move on for me so i started talking to other guys and i finally was kind of over him , i kind of just ignored him and blocked hiim out of my life then all the sudden he asks me back out and idk what i was thinking but i gave it another chance and that was in like september..and we lasted but it wasnt the same at all.. then like last week he tells me he just wants to be alone ? but then that weekend hes at the movies with another girl then tonight i was on this girls myspace and his comments are on there saying all sweet shit to her .... and i just wish i would have never taken him back.. I need some type of advice because seriously..idk what to do , thnk or say
- your guys advice has really helped out , i blocked him completely out of my life
but today i found out he had sex with my ex bestfriend..while me and him were dating..?
reall nice to know
Any type of advice would be awesome :)
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| Get Over A Guy? |
[ Monday
January 14th, 2008 4:30pm
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How can I help myself get over this guy that I'm soo attached to? Everytime I say I'm going to stop "talking" to him, I end up going back.
I came to realize that I always fight with him because I want him to treat and respect me just as much as my ex boyfriend did. This may sound kind of wrong.. but I feel like this guy that I'm "talking to" doesn't have alot of respect towards me.. (like for instance hugging other girls in front of me and telling them how 'sexy' they look.. but when I hug other guys, he seems offended)
So I'm just trying to slip away.. Cause I know he's never going to change, and I'm not going to be happy.
Do I sound selfish?
What can I do to get over him..
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January 14th, 2008 6:49pm
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Happy new year to all!!! But actually this year isn’t starting so well. But hey I guess that’s life right? ☺ The thing is that I’m really bothered because of a guy. I met him so unexpected. I thought it only happen in movies. I met him while I was working as a service crew. It was so memorable. Even while he was at the counter I don’t know how it happened but I flirted which I don’t normally do. But I did. Then out of nowhere my co-worker gave me a piece of note from him indicating his number and wanted to have mine and so I did. We had exchange of texts then asked if we could meet. For so many times I refused but I gave in and the first real meeting… It was more unexpected and more unbelievable. We jived so well. It was so great. I can’t believe it happened. After that I have so many questions about it but then I kept on seeing him and having communication with him. He even came and visited our house. But I don’t why but I was still having doubts about him so more often than not I gave him so many alibis so that we could not meet. But the truth is I was the one who is suffering for those decisions I’ve made. As weeks go by we barely had exchange of messages then came to none at all. But still I waited for him to text me but I was so disappointed. You know what I don’t know how and why it happened but he just have this kind of control over me and when I’m with him I felt so appreciated and safe. He really does make me happy. But my fault now I don’t have him at my side. That’s the saddest part. Unexpectedly again, one night he showed up at our house. It was close to midnight that made me scared ‘coz no one ever called us that late. I even told him that but with the words he said… He kept me calmed and I felt relieved. It was so surreal it happened but I was glad it happened. After that I expected he’ll be back but again I failed. You know what until now I like him so much and I don’t even know if he’ll be back in my life. I hope he will… I wanted that to happen so badly. But the real thing is……… I don’t know why but when he’s in front me or when I’m with him I have this way of pushing him away. I make fun of the things he says even if he says he’s serious. I’m so bad… What can I do to prevent this? I want that to end... Please help I need your opinions about the things I did…. Or just your reaction about this... THANKS!!
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January 10th, 2008 1:19pm
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January 7th, 2008 3:54pm
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There's this boy I'm starting to really like, and he swears I'm the only one he really "talks" too. But he's the type that flirts with ALOT of girls. But his friends and everyone else still look at me as his "main" girl. Only sometimes his flirting is so out of control I just get fed up and walk away. Although I still have to realize the fact that we are not going out.
We talk on the fone for hours each night, and he always treats me like an angel. I can tell he really cares for me but alot of the times I think 'He probably cares for EVERYBODY, I'm not anything special." I never say anything when he's flirting with other girls because usually it doesn't bother me. But it seems like he does it all the time like as if that's just the person he is. It gets really annoying.
He's not one of the BEST looking guys in the world, but I really think there is something about him, that's why I'm sticking around. Sometimes I feel secondary when it comes to other girls, and then I tell myself how DONE I am with him. But I manage to go back again.
Really, what should I do? Because it's really driving me crazy...
Are there better men out there? Or is it just me..
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[ Sunday
December 23rd, 2007 7:37pm
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[ Sunday
December 23rd, 2007 3:15am
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I started dating this guy about two months ago..things between us were going great. Then we kinda got into a mini dispute over something so trivial and it made me cry a little bit. After we talked things over...he told me he loved me. I acted like I didn't hear it and then he finally said it again. I didnt' say it back..but tonight..I kinda let it slip and he didn't say anything. So now I am soooo confused..and I realy hope I didn't screw our relationship up. Cause I have only known him for like two months. I know this is a crazy entry and that saying you love someone is a big thing...but he said it to me first and that was the first time a guy has ever said that me. But I do feel like I love him!
me: "well have a goodnight"
him: U2
me: I love u that band
me: I love that band
him:u love me
me:sorry that slipped megan is making me listen to war, but yeah sorta
him: well don't I feel special
him: you sorta love me?
me: Ha i am dynamic ..our conversation went from talking about coco to this
him: from coco to coo coo
me: yeah I think I am starting to fall for you and I just don't know how to express it really cause I dont' want to scare you away
me: wait you think I am crazy
me: gd you totally dropped the L word a couple of days ago and now your just making things awkward.
him: sorry if what i said upset you
me: no, i just wanted to make sure we're on the same page
him: k
me: so how do you feel?
him: that's fine
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so do you think i'll ever hear from this guy again??
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[ Saturday
December 22nd, 2007 8:39pm
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Hello all!
I posted here almost 3 months ago, and here is the post, edited so it's not so long.
[[His name, or at least his code name among my (ex)friends and I, is Bobby. He's in 9th grade, a year older than me. So, he's very, very much cute and smart and such a nerd it'd be weird if it weren't practically the hottest thing about him. And he plays soccer, like, religiously. He's my dream guy, and everybody seems to like him too.
One of my friends who has not been my friend since last spring (so this is not recent) still holds this humongous grudge against me since I said I liked him last year. This set of twins in Bobby's grade hate me, because one of them likes him and the other is an ex-girlfriend of a guy I used to like. A terrible web of fuckwittage, isn't it?
And yet, when I'm with Bobby, it all goes away. It's us and his friends from soccer, and all the other girls, my stupid (ex)friends, and my classes go away. He flirts with me. He's the sweetest guy, and after a couple weeks of hanging out with him after school (the only time available, since we're both busy, he doesn't have a cell phone, and he's year older than me) I decided- What the hell, I'll ask him out.
That went well. Not.
He told me he valued our friendship way, way too much to do that- and, obviously, I thought it was another do-all-end-all answer. Just say no, right? Don't mess with my emotions, giving me false hope.
And yet... I go to one of his soccer games. His sister is there, and the conversation turns to Bobby. "You know I like him, right?"
"Yeah. He never shuts up about you." "What, really?" "Yeah. Remember last week, some day, he stopped talking suddenly and looked at you funny?" "Umm... I guess." "He came home, and told me he had realized something today. I asked what, and he said-
Emily is fucking hot."
I died with happiness. Then Emily (his sister, who has the same name as me))decided to give me a brain stroke of happiness from a blood clot of love by saying, "He also told me that he really, really didn't want to fuck up your friendship, 'cause of Shannon." Remember the twins? Yeah. The girl who likes him dated him for a week, and apparently it got so messed up they aren't really friends anymore.]]
Oh, my god. Oh my GOD!
I dated a boy named Ben for three weeks, and everything got really messed up. I didn't love him, he threw a bitch fit, and I asked Bobby (please, read the post above, this won't make ANY sense without it) for advice. He gave me really insightful advice, really nice stuff, and I tell him "You don't know the worst of it..." This was on AIM, by the way.
He asks, what is it?
I tell him... I like this other guy so much. On a scale of one to ten, ben is like a 5 and this other guy is a 50.
He says... Who is this other guy?
I, at first, say I can't tell you, but I had a feeling he would wear me down aafter like 15 minutes so I said, screw it, I'll just tell you.
And here's the actually conversation.
ME: alright. the awkwardness ensues here. remember in like september or october when i asked you out and you rejected me? yeah you were really nice about it but iw as like. shit. shit shit. and okay this is prolly gonna make it really awkward between us but i still really, really like you. i mean, i just think we're a lot alike- we're both nerds and we read a lot and we're super retarded, no offense. and now its gonna be like "ok! i don't want to ruin a friendship or your relationship or something like that HAHA LOL." and its gonna hurt. so... yeah.
RANDY: dont worry about it.
you see i have just come to relize that i was hiding cause i thought i was to immature to handle a relationship
then i saw u with been and i was like damn it randy u r retarded
and i have been thinking about wat would Us be like
i i have come to the conclusion that i too really like you. ur funny smart beautiful and there was never a dull moment wen we did hang out with each other
so
do YOU want to go out with me?
And, no shit, I say yes! Yes, yes yes yes yes. I have liked him since last year. He is my dream guy, and I like him so much. Who givesa shit about Ben, we had problems anyway! I never expected it, I thought he was about to say, don't worry about it, it won't make it awkward, I'm just your friend. but no! Ahahaha. I was sobbing with happiness. We're such a perfect match... It's euphoria. My world is a eutopia. Ben and I are over, and Bobby and I are going out. I am so happy.
We're perfect together.
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[ Sunday
November 11th, 2007 9:12am
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So we've decided that instead of moderating membership, we're going to moderate entries. Most of your entries will get through however if there is one that we think will cause a lot of problems, it won't be accepted and you'll have the reason why and how to fix it in your email. Yes, this is pain in the ass, but honestly banning people for certain things is stupid when you actually agree with some of the people you're banning.
In addition, any people that were removed as members just because of their communities will be allowed to rejoin as long as no problems are started. The reasoning for this is because honestly, I'm a member of a few "drama" communities and frankly, I find them amusing as hell. So as I said, as long as you don't start problems here and you follow the rules, there is no issue.
And so the moral of this story is, think about what you type because honestly, some of it is stupid. That doesn't mean don't ever post, because there are some things that seem unimportant to some people that are really important to you, it just means think about how you're wording things and they way you're trying to come across.
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| Pathetic Stalker... Or Just Weird? |
[ Sunday
October 7th, 2007 10:01am
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This is way... Just way too much for me. This whole scenario I am about to lay bare all over the Internet. Especially now, since I hate all my classes and cross country sucks horribly and my friends have all but excommunicated me... But I can't figure out if it is necessary, since he's what gets me through the day- A few more hours til I see him, A few more minutes, Just let me hang out with him again.
I feel so, so creepy. Like an obsessed stalker.
His name, or at least his code name among my (ex)friends and I, is Bobby. He's in 9th grade, a year older than me. We live in America, by the way. Okay. Okay. So, he's very, very much cute and smart and such a nerd it'd be weird if it weren't practically the hottest thing about him. And he plays soccer, like, religiously. He's my dream guy, and everybody seems to like him too.
One of my (ex)friends who has not been my friend since last spring (so this is not recent) still holds this humongous grudge against me since I said I liked him last year. This set of twins in Bobby's grade hate me, because one of them likes him and the other is an ex-girlfriend of a guy I used to like. A terrible web of fuckwittage, isn't it?
And yet, when I'm with Bobby, it all goes away. It's us and his friends from soccer, and all the other girls, my stupid (ex)friends, and my classes go away. He flirts with me. He's the sweetest guy, and after a couple weeks of hanging out with him after school (the only time available, since we're both busy, he doesn't have a cell phone, and he's year older than me) I decided- What the hell, I'll ask him out.
That went well. Not.
He told me he valued our friendship way, way too me to do that- and, obviously, I thought it was another do-all-end-all answer. Just say no, right? Don't mess with my emotions, giving me false hope.
And yet... I go to one of his soccer games. His sister is there, and the conversation turns to Bobby. "You know I like him, right?"
"Yeah. He never shuts up about you." "What, really?" "Yeah. Remember last week, some day, he stopped talking suddenly and looked at you funny?" "Umm... I guess." "He came home, and told me he had realized something today. I asked what, and he said-
Emily [My last name for emphasis, and explanation- his sister's name is Emily too] is fucking hot."
I died with happiness. Then emily decided to give me a brain stroke of happiness from a blood clot of love by saying, "He also told me that he really, really didn't want to fuck up your friendship, 'cause of Shannon." Remember the twins? Yeah. The girl who likes him dated him for a week, and apparently it got so messed up they aren't really friends anymore.
And I just thought he was gay! Hahaha.
Any tips? Am I obsessed, or with good cause? And what the hell am I gonna do about those wacko girls who like him too? Do they have just as much hope as I do? A giant IDK all around?
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[ Monday
September 24th, 2007 1:53am
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So, I am a junior in college and I've never dated before. There is this guy who is a fellow residence life staff member/swing club member who I think likes me and I may like as well, but I don't want to screw up the whole working relationship dynamic by telling him.
( What to do? )
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hello,if you rmember me I asked how to flirt w/ my crush(let's call him JR) anyway I got a new question for everybody:
I think JR likes the person I dislike the most,(FV) he's been hanging out with her lately; they've been seen together
in the following places:
-in the library practically hand in hand.
-at the cafeteria basically feeding each other food from one plate.
-and I saw him carrying FV's bag for her(but I can disregard this cause he is a really nice guy)
-NOT so fun fact FV is JR's ex-girlfriend
Should I forget about him? or investigate first?
(Oh and thanks for all those who replied I really appreciate it)
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[ Wednesday
August 29th, 2007 6:47pm
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ahhh ok break up problems, any advice much appreciated!
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| INFORMATION REQUESTS: Romantic Relationship and Sexuality Impacts from Disability |
[ Monday
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I'm posting in search of any information, resources, feedback, comments, suggestions, or personal stories/experiences in relation to two articles I am exploring: ( Click here to read more... )
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help! i dont know what to do for mothers day haha and its today
my aunt said make my mom dinner, and i want to make something good, but im not sure what to make
so i guess im asking for ideas and recepies :)
haha sorry i didnt know where else to ask
so.. ideas for a gift or recepes for dinner would be veryyyyy awesome
thanks beauties<33
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