| Monday, December 21st, 2009 |
12:48 am
[iamlucian]
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Tastes Like Cock
Has anybody thought of a way to make a dildo taste more like cock? Does salt damage silicone? |
| Saturday, December 19th, 2009 |
4:22 pm
[bobsomething] |
lolajake lucas plus
I have a lolajake lucas plus caramel color for sale if anyone is interested. It's brand new. I paid 500+ for it and am looking to sell it for 400 obo. |
| Monday, December 14th, 2009 |
4:31 am
[the_sea_lingers]
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Erotica?
Hankering for erotica lately and I was wondering if there are any FTM-centric anthologies or sites out there. All I've found are broken links and a few calls for submissions that link to defunct sites. No video, just looking for the written word. Any help is appreciated! |
| Sunday, November 22nd, 2009 |
6:41 pm
[ericaequites] |
Does anyone know of a site or book which explains how to make a dildo harness, please? The store ones are all black, which my guy doesn't like. Also, he is husky, and we don't want to spend the money. We both like living indoors and eating food:-) |
| Wednesday, November 4th, 2009 |
8:28 pm
[gizmogled]
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Play Packer
I'm looking for a dual packer for play and have no idea where to start. I'm a small guy, so a 3.5" packer works well for me. I'm also very poor and I'm in the UK, so postage from the US is pretty extortionate. So anything cheap is good. I wouldn't wanna shell out for something that could be awful anyway. Cheers guys Current Music: Oasis - Don't Look Back in Anger | Powered by Last.fm |
| Wednesday, October 28th, 2009 |
10:24 am
[redbury]
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Pumping??
Hey guys, I going for lower surgery (metoidioplasty), and I am to pump my micro dick. Can any one enlighten me on how many times and for how long one will do it ( pump that is). I'm not using DHL, just the pumping. The surgery is not for a number of months but I have been advise to do this. Any advise will be great. Thanks. Current Mood:  cheerful |
| Monday, October 26th, 2009 |
12:03 am
[transitioningd]
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Looking for a comfortable pack and play
Hey guys, I'm new to this group and I was wondering if someone can point me in the right direction. I'm looking for a comfortable long wearing pack and play? I need one that doesn't look like I have the biggest hard on ever (a small one is fine). I want to be able to wear it to work, then without missing a beat use it for penetration. Ideally I'd like one that has a bendable shaft. Where I can bend it down for the "soft" daily wear and bend it up for play time. Is this possible? Where can I find it if it is? Or is there something kind of similar? Current Mood: hopeful |
| Monday, October 19th, 2009 |
10:14 am
[makeyourself_52]
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goodfella and spareparts joque harness
If anyone has the goodfella and the spareparts joque harness, do you place the balls outside the pocket in the harness or inside? If you tried both which do you like better? Which does your partner like better? Thanks for any input. I'm not sure which way would work best. -Tyler |
| Sunday, September 20th, 2009 |
2:28 pm
[way2new]
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LikeReal Vs. Lola Jake
I know this has been asked countless times. And if there is a better forum or someone I can email please let me know. I've been debating on which Lola Jake product I wanted to buy & what custom features (if any, since they are so expensive now). From reading the various reviews on here, I'd get as far as pricing things out, writing down what I wanted, yet something would stop me from going through with the order. I was very ready to go ahead and take a chance on Lola Jake (since there are great reviews, despite a few bad one's i see from time to time), when i saw everyone talking about LikeReal. Needless to say, it's put some uncertainty back into the buying process. LikeReal presents itself nicely, but my question is which one is the better product? Also, why is there a video of a LR-600, 700, & 710 but none are offered on the site? I'm looking for something that's got a good size, tab (which does the tab come w/ hair on the LikeReal or no?), durability, and sticking power. I've noticed that unlike the Lola Jake's the main concern is it staying in place. I'm not really interested in it as a packer, it's moreso for intercourse (hence the size thing). Anyone own them both and can compare the differences between the two? Hell, anyone own either and can share the pros & cons? The realism of the design & touch? I just want to know which one is the better buy for use. |
| Wednesday, September 16th, 2009 |
12:23 am
[alex_insider]
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threesome (nsfw)
So, I have kind of an interesting situation. My girlfriend is completely ok with me being trans and we have a great sex life..but, she'd really like to see me fuck another girl. She says it turns her on, which I completely believe. She likes girls a little (enough to kiss and kiss their tits), but not too much, but it turns her on to think anothergirl wants me. Now if I was a sisguy no problem...I could just go out and find a girl and bring her home. I mean my girlfriend is hot and when she wants to kiss a girl, she does. Anyway, I'm not a sisguy so I'm wondering if there's somewhere I can meet a girl that might be down with this, insteadn of going out, finding a girl and hoping she'd be down once she found out I wasn't born with the same kind of dick shes used to.. Any ideas??? |
| Monday, September 14th, 2009 |
8:40 pm
[tenuous_tenor]
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First-time potential for intimacy with straight woman, looking to upgrade...er...accessories
***It's been so long since I've made a post anywhere that I'm afraid I've forgotten my PC language. If I offend anybody, can we just talk about it first before you flame me? Also, I can't even BEGIN to remember how to do an LJ-cut so I'm sorry if this is abnormally long*** I"m a 32 year old transman. Up to this point all of my sexual partners have come from the queer community. I haven't been on T in several years. When I was on T I was on a low dose. I haven't had any surgeries. All this is to say that underneath my clothes I still look very female. I recently got out of a four-year relationship with a lesbian-identified cisgendered woman. I have recently begun casually seeing a straight-identified cisgendered woman. I've disclosed and so far we have only made out. I'm hoping that we will get to the point where we are more sexually intimate. I can say that she has an...hmmmm...academic (?) knowledge of trans folks by virtue of the environment she's in right now so she's pretty groovy in terms of me talking about this sort of thing and isn't absolutely in the dark about guys like me. But like I said, she's straight-identified, has had no contact with the queer community, and has only been with cisgendered men before. So, for the most part I'm proud of my road to manhood so far and have been told I'm good in bed. I don't actually have real performance anxiety. I think I have "how do I make this all work" anxiety. Such as, how do I make the need for a "break" while I strap it on appear as seemless as possible? How do I handle packing or not packing? With queer women from my past relationships, these sort of questions were just understood. I didn't have to worry that she was thrown off by my lack of physical arousement below my southern hemisphere. It wasn't expected. I'm in a situation now where I'm wanting to upgrade what I use for packing and for fucking. Right now, in my daily life I don't pack. It feels uncomfortable and it also feels like I have half a hard-on all the time. Also, all I've ever invested in is a jock strap bought at a box store like Target. When I do pack, like if I'm going to a club, it feels secure even when dancing or being groped so that's never been a concern. Now that I'm engaging in hot and heavy make-out sessions with this new woman, *not* packing makes me very self-conscious. I can't even remember what I bought to pack years ago. It was probably the smallest possible popular soft packer at the time. I also want a new rig for sex because I have been dissatisfied for a while now with what I have. The harness is a flexible rubber/plastic O-ring on a nylon front plate held in with straps that snap. The straps are also nylon and there's an adjustible buckle at both legs and at the waist. I've really disliked the idea of buying sex toys online so I'm fairly sure the cock was purchased at a sex store where I could actually get a feel for what I was buying. I have no idea what kind it is but it's 6" long and 1 & 1/2 " in diameter and it has a hard plastic suction cup at the end. This is about the right size for me If after all this preamble you've made it this far here are my questions: 1. I need a new harness. My preferences are something that's very easy to slip on and off in the dark with minimal fuss and necessary readjustment each time. I don't love the idea of the O-ring (or whatever attachment) going over the cock and looking like a cock ring or straps crossing over the balls. Cocks with suction cups at the base have worked okay in the past but they're not good for really hard fucking. *blush* Since that's what I'd like to be doing in the near future, I'm looking for something better. My ultimate preference would be to have a harness that would allow for all-day wearing and let me easily switch out a soft packer for one that's good for sex. 2. I need a new cock that's better suited to my needs. This is especially true if I get a new harness and the cock I have now really won't work as well in it. Like I said above 6 inches in length by 1 & 1/2 inches in girth looks proportional on me so I'm not interested in much more than that. Realism is very important to me. I do use condoms so complete sterilization isn't important. I don't like penetration at all and I am able to orgasm while having penetrative sex with my partner so anything that goes into my body won't work for me. A couple posts back I read about something called the Goodfella (sp?) that looked promising. 3. I need a new soft packer. I'm not exactly a DIY kind of guy so I'm not too interested in modifying the one I have. To be honest, if I start cutting up the one I have now and it's all jacked up and then I don't find something better than what I had before is really gonna piss me right off. I'm willing to try it though if what I have sounds to y'all like the best I'm gonna get. I want something that is smaller than what's typically considered "small" and that has good product reviews from other transguys in the grope-and-fondle stage of new relationships. 4. This is slightly OT from the other questions, but if anyone could address the fact that I am entering into a sexual relationship with a straight woman for the first time would be great. I am nervous about it. Will my body differences be such a big deal given the fact that ALL men have different bodies from each other? What about the fact that I really don't look male at all when my clothes are off? Is getting naked absolutely necessary? Sheesh. Okay. I'm gonna stop now. Lord love you if you've read it all. Thanks for any help in advance. 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| Monday, September 7th, 2009 |
11:38 am
[way2new]
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Question about travel.....
I'm new to this forum, but have been reading for almost a year now. My question is a general one, about traveling. I'm pretty new to traveling and "passing", it's been one of those things i avoided thus far to prevent embarrassment. I am not on T nor have I had any surgeries, but I've been able to pass for years. I guess my hesitation is traveling in the airport. Checking in, looking one way with a license that says something else. It's not so much the "Id" Check, as the "binding" & "packing". I wear an underworks binder & pack with a mango, which doesn't include any metal. yet i fear walking through a checkpoint, and being pulled to the side. I would die if I were pulled over and searched or my carry on contents exposed to everyone else in line. Has anyone ever had a problem at the airport? And should I always check my bag, when carrying other "equipment"? Also, any suggestions on booking hotels, without hassle. I just want stress free travel tips. |
| Tuesday, September 1st, 2009 |
7:59 pm
[finchy004] |
Glue for prosthetics
I recently purchased a flaccid like real prosthetic. I didnt order extra glue but am using the factor 2 glue and remove that comes standardly with their products. I am having huge problems with the glue. It wont stay on, it holds it in place but it wouldnt hold it if i were wearing boxers let alone naked. I know some guys use the glue for the erect prosthetics and the glue holds for sex....so i must be doing something wrong. Wondered if anyone had any advice as i really want it to stick. |
| Friday, August 28th, 2009 |
10:35 am
[redbury]
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SEX DRIVE
Could any one enlighten me on how long the libido stays high? I have been on T for over 5 years. Every thing else is slow in coming. My gf says that there should be classes on how to fend off guys with libido as high as mine! Also I wish to thank you on my last post, (the extra hole). I no longer worry about it, I laid the ground rules down that it does not exist and we're happy with that. :) |
| Thursday, August 27th, 2009 |
12:28 am
[slmvideo]
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FTM Testosterone Research Study
Are you 18 or older? Do you currently identify as a female-to-male transgender or transsexual, or have identified as FTM in the past and now identify as male but have NOT started T? A self-identified transgender male, Stacey Colt Meier, is conducting a research study on persons who identify as transgender men. He is a doctoral student at the University of Houston and the results from this study will be used for his Doctoral Dissertation. The purpose of this research is to examine changes in cognitive functioning, emotional reactivity, and personality due to testosterone. In order to qualify for this study you must be at least 18 years old. You must not have started testosterone before the first testing session. You must plan to start testosterone within the next year and plan on taking testosterone for at least one year. If you are interested, email Colt at ftmresearch(at)gmail(dot)com with your first name and telephone number. He will call you for an initial telephone screen. The study consists of three measurements (surveys/questionnaires) lasting 2 to 3 hours each where Colt will snail mail packets to eligible participants. These measurements will be conducted over the period of one year: first pre-T, second 3-4 months after starting T, and third 10-12 months after starting T. You will be asked to fill out questionnaires that assess basic demographic information, personal transitioning plans, personality, and emotional reactivity. This study has been reviewed and approved by the Committee for Protecting Human Subjects at the University of Houston. See video for call for participants http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ecs9hphpmBEcross posted everywhere |
| Sunday, August 23rd, 2009 |
4:34 pm
[almost_alejo]
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a strap-on: realistic(ish) + small(ish) + cheap(ish)?
my boyfriend and i are looking for a strap-on cock. ideally, it'd be realistic in color and shape, about 1" in diameter and 5" in length, under $40, and have a good density for anal sex. any leads? i like the dimensions and price of the small silk dildo by tantus, and we'll probably get that if nothing better turns up, but we would prefer something a bit more realistic. thanks! |
12:32 pm
[kael_isaac] |
uncut packer
I've recently been looking into buying an uncircumcised packy. I've seen the likereal and lolajake. Are there any regular (isn't attached to the body with glue) packers that are somewhat inexpensive? |
| Friday, August 21st, 2009 |
6:21 pm
[ippola]
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| Thursday, August 20th, 2009 |
2:07 am
[brycecake]
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Like real prosthetic
I was wondering if anyone has any personal expiriences with these... If so do you have one with the urination device? How well does it work? I am looking at the LR-300 model.. I am just really looking for a prosthetic that can be used for daily use and sex. If any one has any recomendations for another company let me know. |
| Saturday, August 15th, 2009 |
7:01 pm
[john_m_cage]
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