Grand High Supreme and Mighty Empress Connie ([info]conuly) wrote in [info]feminist_rage,
@ 2007-12-27 14:06:00
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My nieces got a Geotrax train system for Christmas.
(And they love it to bits, by the way. Precious few people have told them this sort of thing is a "boy" toy yet, and I think I'll have to hurt anybody who tries it in the future. But that's another rant for another day.)

Now, you know how it goes, there's a little pamphlet inside the box telling you all the other stuff you can buy to go with your new toy. Apparently, there are lots of "teams". There's the "Oldest team" and the "Biggest Bullies" and the "Most Trusted Team" and a whole storyline...

And there's predictably only one team with any female human or train on it. And you know what they get fobbed off with? They're the Nicest team. Nicest. Not that nice isn't a perfectly good thing to be, but it's so boring. Like that's the best thing you can say about them. In a world of adjectives like "Most Rugged" and "Most Generous", they get the world's most boring adjective ever. Nice.

And so stereotypical. Nice, nice, nice. I mean, seriously. If you're only going to have the one token female in the entire playset, can't you come up with a better adjective? ANY other adjective? All the other teams get great things, like "Most Adventurous" and "Toughest" and even "Crankiest" or "Stinkiest" (which is interesting, if nothing else), and the girls get nice. The character, I'm reading, doesn't even work on the train. She's a passenger. So I've got my nieces playing with these toys all day, and the underlying message is that they shouldn't be, that working on or with trains is for guys. (Again.)

I'm so irritated. And then I'm upset that I'm upset - like a toy is that important? - and upset that I'm upset that I'm upset. So it's not "that important". Shouldn't I still care that it's full of stereotypicity?

Ugh.

At least neither niece can read yet. They don't know any of this. That's something, anyway.


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[info]spokenonlyonce
2007-12-27 07:32 pm UTC (link)
well, I think you have good reason to be upset! That royally pisses me off too!

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[info]conuly
2007-12-27 07:49 pm UTC (link)
I know I do! I just also keep thinking "Not that important... not that important", which is doubly irritating. Like there being more important things doesn't mean this isn't still wrong.

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[info]afterannabel
2007-12-27 08:24 pm UTC (link)
It is important, though. Because it's representative of the idea that biology is destiny and women get the short end of the stick, which is reinforced in countless ways in our society.

In other words, rage on!

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[info]tayefeth
2007-12-29 02:15 am UTC (link)
YES!! Trust me, kids can pick up on those "unimportant" things and figure out the messages, unless those messages are strongly counteracted by positive messages. Of course, them having been given the train set is a countermessage in itself, but it would still be better (I almost said "nice") if the designers of the toy used the brains at the top of their spinal columns...

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[info]conuly
2007-12-29 05:34 am UTC (link)
Maybe I should write to them. I could just copy and paste this entire post, do you think?

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[info]tayefeth
2007-12-29 03:42 pm UTC (link)
Writing to the manufacturer is a good idea, but I think rewriting, rather than copying and pasting, is the way to go.

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[info]conuly
2007-12-31 08:46 pm UTC (link)
You're probably right. There is a time and a place for a rant, and it doesn't always coexist with the time and place for a calm, well-reasoned letter telling people they've fucked up.

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[info]slurp
2007-12-27 09:17 pm UTC (link)
I'm upset, too. Kids get the message so young of what they should or should not be.

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