If I was in WW2, they'd call me spitfire! ([info]becka_mouse) wrote in [info]customers_suck,
@ 2006-12-12 09:42:00
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Overheared. Exact Quote. No lie.
As I walked into The Pop Shop today to get my breakfast *of pancakes the size of friggin hubcaps with straberries on top* with the ever adorable Maggie, I heard a woman yelling at the manager.

I didn't particularly care. Hadn't had my coffee yet and besides, you know me. When have I ever given a crap what customers do?

"I'm pregnant! I should get my way! Why can't anyone give me what I want?!"


I had to turn and look. I thought it was someone being stupid and possibly mocking pregnant women or atleast a particular pregnant woman. Nope. It was a woman about my age *i'm 26* with a large belly that made me fear for suddenly soaked shoes, red in the face and pounding her fists on the counter.


In true becka_mouse form I waddled up with my 6 month pregnant self, tapped her on the shoulder and said "Excuse me. Couldn't help but overhear you and...I'm pregnant, too. Whats your point?"

I was met with icy glare of doom. That was met with eyebrow raise of "Don't give a shit." She left shortly thereafter and I got free coffee.

But, seriously, what the everliving fuck?



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[info]classifiedpeon
2006-12-12 02:52 pm UTC (link)
Good for you! I hate when pregnant women use that as an I-should-get-everything-I-want card. So you opened your legs. Good for you. :/ I would've NEVER thought to do that while pregnant. I don't see why anyone thinks this deserves special treatment*.

Congrats on the pregnancy. :)

*I do believe that pregnant women have more right to sit on buses and whatnot than, say, teenagers and young men or whatever. But I don't think it entitles them to free coffee/soda/food or drink of choice.

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[info]satanicmantis
2006-12-12 02:57 pm UTC (link)
I do believe that pregnant women have more right to sit on buses and whatnot than, say, teenagers and young men or whatever.

One person's need is not another's obligation. If someone chose to be pregnant, why should they get special treatment for it?

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[info]jokergirl
2006-12-12 03:02 pm UTC (link)
No, but there *is* such a thing called common courtesy.
Oh wait, I believe that got buried next to her husband, Common Sense.

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[info]enlisted_smile
2006-12-12 03:04 pm UTC (link)
It's human decency. They don't HAVE to move, but it would be polite to. Standing while pregnant isn't exactly fun.

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[info]conceptual_tea
2006-12-12 02:57 pm UTC (link)
Ever get the feeling that people like that got pregnant for the attention?

I was offered a few extra "perks" while pregnant (cashiers opening up new lines for me in crowded stores, being offered a seat, etc)...I NEVER asked for it, and I was always a little embarrassed when I got it.

When I was pregnant I wanted to be "strong woman blossoming with life! RARR!" not "weak delicate little worn down thing."

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[info]becka_mouse
2006-12-12 03:59 pm UTC (link)
Some women are just absolute wusses or dramawhores. I really think this woman was both. Its preggo-entitlemoos like her that make the strong woman blossoming with life! RARR! types look horrifying.

I'll be honest even after I had my first baby whenever a pregnant woman walked into where I worked, I pheared teh hormonalcrazies.

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[info]sulking
2006-12-12 04:23 pm UTC (link)
i think it's weird that some pregnant women take offense to courtesies when they're offered them like it's a feminist issue. really, it's just done to be polite. if you feel that strongly about it, stand on the subway when someone offers you a seat, or stand in line for half an hour when someone tries to help get you in and out. the reality is that you're carrying a baby that needs to be properly cared for, so some people might assume that you have better things to do than stand around and wait to be rung up, or that you might want to rest considering you have another BODY growing inside of you and it's changing everything else up temporarily. it's not your right, but it's something other people think about and are usually considerate of/sensitive to.

i don't know, it just sort of boggles my mind that people will find something wrong with every effort of kindness and consideration. it makes me wonder if it's the same when someone opens a door for you - do you grab it away from them and say "I CAN OPEN THE DOOR MYSELF!" because you interpret it as patronizing? it's just something i don't understand. people aren't offering to help because they think you incapable, just to make things easier.

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[info]rubyawake
2006-12-13 01:57 am UTC (link)
>>I was offered a few extra "perks" while pregnant (cashiers opening up new lines for me in crowded stores, being offered a seat, etc)...I NEVER asked for it, and I was always a little embarrassed when I got it.<<

Exactly! I'm 7 months pregnant, and I feel embarassed when people do things for me just because I'm pregnant. I mean, it's nice, and I appreciate the thought, but I also don't expect it. I can't imagine demanding extra attention because I chose to have a child.

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[info]conceptual_tea
2006-12-12 03:04 pm UTC (link)
Incidentally, so you know...this post is BEGGING for CF wank. Just warning you. Might want to turn off your email notifications :D

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[info]sevenday
2006-12-12 03:24 pm UTC (link)
No wank from me! ^_^

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[info]dreamertheresa
2006-12-12 03:53 pm UTC (link)
I really don't see how it is. I'm pretty sure all the bases were covered. Sucky customer = pwnd by a fellow pregnant woman. Which goes to show not everyone who is pregnant or has kids is a complete ninny.

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[info]kokuten
2006-12-12 05:17 pm UTC (link)
CF_Wank is easily defused, just throw a friggin puppy in for a distraction.

Which would make this comment meta-cf-wank.

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[info]z3ncat
2006-12-12 07:34 pm UTC (link)
Why on earth would this start CF wank? Pregnant EB gets pwned by pregnant woman. The pregancies cancel each other out, and the equation is resolved into "EB gets pwned". Which everyone and their pet squirrel loves.

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[info]obs1d1an
2006-12-12 03:07 pm UTC (link)
yay! You showed the evil preggo woman! good for you though.. she needed to be put in her place.

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[info]sunfire_leo
2006-12-12 04:44 pm UTC (link)
That pregnant woman makes the rest of us look bad.

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[info]becka_mouse
2006-12-12 04:47 pm UTC (link)
yup times 11tybillion.

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[info]becka_mouse
2006-12-12 04:44 pm UTC (link)
Its the best feeling. Too bad the local indoor pool is closed.


Repairs. And they heated the pool, too. God what a feeling.

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[info]ysathora
2006-12-12 04:45 pm UTC (link)
I always love your posts. Now we know where the little one gets the awesomeness from ;)

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[info]becka_mouse
2006-12-12 04:48 pm UTC (link)
Thanks.

I'm the only female in my family with a set of hypothetical balls. The others are..well...like the EBs in my posts.

Oh! Maybe a part of me is getting back at all their EBness by pwning EBs I don't know?

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[info]idiosyncracy
2006-12-12 05:33 pm UTC (link)
If only there were more women in the world like you. Hell, if only there were more people with your common sense and courtesy.

Your post reminded me of one day when I was getting on the bus, and a rather young woman with a toddler kept going on and on about how she should have been allowed to get on the bus first, because she has privledges. I could understand this if it were freezing outside and the bus was in danger of being too full, but it was a beautiful day and the bus was only about half full.

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[info]paraxeni
2006-12-12 07:00 pm UTC (link)
I witnessed a woman with a 3 year old in a pushchair harassing the driver of a bus I was on because he wouldn't let her get on with the kid in the buggy. Why? Because both of the spaces at the front of the bus had wheelchairs in.

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[info]jobiska
2006-12-12 07:04 pm UTC (link)
I had just opened an email from the Pop Shop about 5 minutes before I read this post. Now I'm doubly hungry!

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[info]becka_mouse
2006-12-12 07:15 pm UTC (link)
they have the biggest effing pancakes ever.


where are you from? i live a block from them.

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[info]kitsune_rei
2006-12-12 09:22 pm UTC (link)
Dang, if it got me everything I wanted, I'd get knocked up! I didn't know I was missing the boat!
It also looks to me as if she *did* get what she wanted. I pity the resulting entitlement child. Creating life doesn't suddenly make you better than the rest of the world. Its in fact been proven quite as easy thing to do, considering our population. Its being a good parent that gets you respect.
I guess the stereotype is people fawn all over pregnant women, but usually that's caring friends of nice people who do it because they want to, not because they're asked.

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[info]ms_bates
2006-12-13 02:54 am UTC (link)
My mom would have laughed her ass off at that woman. She always told me pregnancy has it's bad days, but it certainly doesn't make you the princess of everything.



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