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Response from Six Apart

  • May. 24th, 2006 at 3:00 PM

As you are aware, on Friday we sent out a request to a member of this community asking her to remove her default user picture because it was found to be in violation of our standard restrictions for default userpics after being reported by a fellow LJ user.

Enforcing these restrictions is not a fun or enjoyable part of the LJ Abuse staff’s job, but it is important to maintain consistency throughout our service so that everyone (kids, adults, and parents) can know what to expect when they use LJ. We do our best to have as few restrictions as possible. With any restriction we attempt to make sure that we have a clear, objective test.

To use an analogy, this is like a police officer having to enforce speed limits in neighborhoods where kids play. When enforcing these policies, sometimes you end up catching someone who is in fact a very law abiding citizen, but who just happened to be driving over the speed limit.

That being said, we’d like to sincerely apologize for the following:

  • The lack of sensitivity our procedures appeared to show toward the right for women to breastfeed their children.
  • The confusion and perception that LiveJournal and/or Six Apart is against mothers who choose to breastfeed their children.
  • The impression that we simply were not willing to listen, when in fact we are.
  • The lack of clarity on the policies, which was possibly made worse when we updated our FAQ on Saturday. We updated the FAQ to clarify our policy, not to change it in response to this specific situation.

Simply stated:

  • LiveJournal is in no way against breastfeeding or breastfeeding mothers. We salute your dedication to raising happy, healthy children.
  • In the process of enforcing our policy, we are not saying in any way that userpics showing breastfeeding are wrong or inappropriate.
  • We appreciate your voices and your use of our service.

At present, we have agreed to review both our policies and our enforcement procedures to ensure that we are acting both consistently and fairly.  Along with this, we want to add appropriate detail to our online FAQ so that it accurately reflects our policy.  I look forward to involving [info]xavi7734 in this process.

By way of background, our Abuse team revisits these policies regularly to make sure they're the right solution for our users and for the company, and we'll be looking for ways that we can better address grey areas (like userpics supporting breastfeeding). We've always believed firmly in free expression, and we think that our policy of being strict about what's allowed in default user icons but lenient about what's allowed in non-default icons is a good balance between two very different points of view. We'll be working in the upcoming weeks and months to make absolutely certain that we have the right policy and the right way to handle issues.

Finally, we very much appreciate your support of LJ and the value that your community and those like yours bring. As I have conveyed to[info]xavi7734, it’s because of users like yourselves that LJ exists, and we want to continue to run a service that enables you to create community, connect with others, and express yourselves in a free, safe, and positive manner.

I look forward to reading your feedback to this post as a temporary member of the community. 

Thanks

Father of 4 breast fed children,
Doug Bryan
VP of Business Operations, Six Apart

Comments

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[info]xavi7734 wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 10:10 pm (UTC)
Thank you very much for posting this Doug and for helping to clear up SixApart's view on this topic.

I am also looking forward to working with you directly in order help clarify and solidify the wording in the FAQ.
[info]magdalene74 wrote:
May. 25th, 2006 04:39 am (UTC)
I wish i knew someone would read these comments, and make the connection that so many members have made, but alas i fear it isnt so, since there has been no reply from six apart to any of the comments thus far.. still i want to continue elaborate on the importance of advocacy by images, even lj images, in the normalization of breastfeeding, so i would like to give you these words, taken from an advocacy site Iowa...

"Breastfeeding Promotion InitiativeThis program provides technical assistance and information to health care professionals and assists in the development of local breastfeeding task forces.

Breastfeeding Rates in Iowa

Breastfeeding rates were up in 2002 with 64.9% of babies being breastfeed at birth according to the Iowa Newborn Metabolic Screening Profile. Iowa has seen a steady increase in breastfeeding rates since 1991. The following table shows rates for the past 8 years:

1995 1996 1997 1998 1999 2000 2001 2002
56.4% 57.7% 59.9% 61.6% 62.7% 63.1% 64.6% 64.9%



WIC National Breastfeeding Promotion Project and Evaluation Report

The WIC National Breastfeeding Promotion Project was a cooperative agreement between USDA/Food and Consumer Service and Best Start Social Marketing. The goals of the project were to increase:

Breastfeeding initiation and duration among WIC participants
Referrals to WIC for breastfeeding support, and
General public acceptance and support of breastfeeding.
Carefully targeted messages, materials, and other media interventions were developed by Best Start based on social marketing research. The project strategy included a media campaign, pamphlets, posters, and resource materials for program staff. While developed at the national level, the project was implemented at the state level.

The project kicked off on August 1, 1997. Paid television ads and outdoor billboards appeared in selected media markets in August and September of 1997. A second phase of paid ads are were used in 1998 and include some new media markets. In addition to television ads and outdoor billboards, radio ads were also featured in 1998. Newspaper advertisement was added in 2000 with both daily and weekly papers being utilized statewide.

The project evaluation showed an increase in awareness of the breastfeeding messages targeted in the campaign and more positive attitudes on breastfeeding.

Read the complete evaluation report:

Iowa's Implementation of the WIC National Breastfeeding Project
Breastfeeding Resources:

Several breastfeeding resources are available for download. If you would like to adapt these materials for distribution within your program, please contact Jewell Chapman at (515) 281-4919.

Counseling Guides for Health Care Professionals
One-page guides intended for use by health care professionals when counseling mothers.
Breastfeeding in the 1st Week
Breastfeeding at 2 Weeks
Breastfeeding at 4 Months
Breastfeeding at 6 Months
Breastfeeding at 9 Months
Breastfeeding Promotion and Support Guidelines These guidelines were developed by the Iowa Lactation Task Force and the Iowa WIC Program. Divided into five chapters, the guidelines are intended for use by health professionals who provide support to generally healthy mothers and babies.
For more breastfeeding information:

Call (515) 281-5024, or
You may also use the "Contact Us" page to submit questions online.

"

as you see, billboards and posters, visualizations of nursing mothers were and are very important in this campaign.. the images on lj are a part of that, and the more people, children as well as adults, exposed to these images, the BETTER.. so protecting children?? thats like protecting them from vitamins, or education... protecting them FROM their own good, not FOR it.
With Love,
Marie
(no subject) - [info]ahavah_ehyeh - May. 28th, 2006 03:50 pm (UTC)
:) - [info]hojja_nusreddin - Jun. 3rd, 2006 03:56 pm (UTC)
[info]pernwebgoddess wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 10:14 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much for your attention to this matter, Doug. We really aren't sensationalists, as you yourself are no doubt aware. Your professional and sensitive response has really helped restore my faith in your company, and made me much more comfortable with my decision to pay for an account with you. I'm sure I speak for many of us when I say this.

I do hope this can be a constructive dialogue.
[info]ectv wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 10:14 pm (UTC)
Thats much better than the carbon copy replies we've been getting.
I still think that the "no breastfeeding" icon issue is pretty silly, but I really appreciate you actually taking the time and energy to address our concerns and feelings in this matter.

p.s. - Make sure to give your lovely breastfeeding wife a hug tonight :)
[info]unlegal wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 10:19 pm (UTC)
Thank you for the apology. It is very much appreciated.

It is wonderful to know that we are being heard, and that you care about this issue, and want to resolve it fairly.

Thank you, again.
[info]xavi7734 wrote:
May. 25th, 2006 02:08 am (UTC)
Totally OT, but may I steal your QAF icon?? :)
(no subject) - [info]unlegal - May. 25th, 2006 02:12 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]xavi7734 - May. 25th, 2006 02:24 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]unlegal - May. 25th, 2006 02:42 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]tamago23 - May. 25th, 2006 03:40 am (UTC)
[info]beyondinsanity wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 10:19 pm (UTC)
Thank you.
It's nice to finally get a real response from someone,as opposed to the blanket letters we've recieved up to date.
It's nice to know that sixapart is really paying attention to our concerns.
Thank you for taking time to listen to us and look into matters.
[info]simplymelodious wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 10:23 pm (UTC)
Thank you.

It is so good to know that we've been heard and you are willing to work with us all.
[info]dwa20 wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 10:26 pm (UTC)
RE: To use an analogy, this is like a police officer having to enforce speed limits in neighborhoods where kids play. When enforcing these policies, sometimes you end up catching someone who is in fact a very law abiding citizen, but who just happened to be driving over the speed limit.


I would be more content with the decisions made by Live Journal if the "police" were targeting the true offenders. This analogy bothers me in the same way that a speed trap bothers me. You apprehend the individuals who are honorable and the "criminals" as usually slip through the net.

If you go to directory search and type in any offensive term and ask that the users be displayed by user pics (aka default icons) you see photos of overt sexuality and sexual acts that are truly horrific. Here you will find images available to children that truly have the potential to harm them.

Why not utelize the wording in the state breastfeeding laws, and make and declare breastfeeding an act of nutrition and exempt it from the "nudity/sexuality" guidelines?

Set up the speed traps in the neighborhoods where the "criminals" reside, not in front of the church on Sunday morning.
[info]raving_liberal wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 10:39 pm (UTC)
I agree with this comment. Police target individuals who break laws, those who are a danger to society, even if only in one particular act of law-breaking. LJ/Six Apart's policies are not protecting society in any way. In fact, classifying any part of the breastfeeding breast as indecent or in appropriate is harmful to society. A visible areola surrounding the mouth of a breastfeeding baby does no harm. A speeder in a neighborhood with children is doing harm.

It would be very simple to do as the above commentor suggested, and include wording in the LJ Terms of Service or FAQ that reflected state and Federal laws exempting breastfeeding from indencency statutes. With such a policy, LiveJournal would be at no risk of exposing any viewer to truly indecent material. They would simply be acting in accordance with pre-established state and Federal standards of decency.

yesss - [info]assfab - May. 24th, 2006 11:09 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]disparate_ether - May. 25th, 2006 12:31 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]mercy_rain - May. 25th, 2006 01:11 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]disparate_ether - May. 25th, 2006 01:13 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]mercy_rain - May. 25th, 2006 01:18 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]disparate_ether - May. 25th, 2006 01:25 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]mercy_rain - May. 25th, 2006 04:23 am (UTC)
Right to display not protected? Hah! - [info]omnifarious - Aug. 10th, 2006 05:34 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]raving_liberal - May. 25th, 2006 02:09 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]disparate_ether - May. 25th, 2006 02:16 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]raving_liberal - May. 25th, 2006 02:27 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]magdalene74 - May. 25th, 2006 03:44 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]christinahash - May. 28th, 2006 11:03 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]ladydouji - May. 25th, 2006 05:04 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]dreamalynn - May. 25th, 2006 12:00 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]ladydouji - May. 25th, 2006 05:24 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]dreamalynn - May. 27th, 2006 12:43 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]ahavah_ehyeh - May. 28th, 2006 03:54 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]ksej - Jun. 1st, 2006 02:08 pm (UTC)
I agree - [info]electricmstress - May. 24th, 2006 10:40 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]beyondinsanity - May. 24th, 2006 10:43 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]pipu - May. 24th, 2006 10:47 pm (UTC)
Agreed - [info]assfab - May. 24th, 2006 11:07 pm (UTC)
Re: Agreed - [info]beyondinsanity - May. 24th, 2006 11:14 pm (UTC)
Re: Agreed - [info]assfab - May. 24th, 2006 11:29 pm (UTC)
Re: Agreed - [info]beyondinsanity - May. 24th, 2006 11:37 pm (UTC)
Re: Agreed - [info]samuraigrrrl - May. 24th, 2006 11:40 pm (UTC)
I can to see what the fuss was all about - [info]rudestlink - Jun. 5th, 2006 11:35 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]assfab - Jun. 6th, 2006 01:05 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]saara687 - May. 25th, 2006 01:51 pm (UTC)
Re: Agreed - [info]beyondinsanity - May. 25th, 2006 02:12 pm (UTC)
Re: Agreed - [info]saara687 - May. 25th, 2006 01:53 pm (UTC)
Re: Agreed - [info]theprophecygirl - May. 24th, 2006 11:38 pm (UTC)
Re: Agreed - [info]assfab - May. 25th, 2006 02:27 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]entirelysonja - May. 25th, 2006 12:38 pm (UTC)
[info]joy_disaster wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 10:46 pm (UTC)
So... does this mean the people who have been warned are going to get suspension on the cut-off date or not? People are still receiving suspension threats. Can we get a clear answer on this? Livejournal hosts white supremacy communties for heavens sake - are we really going to have to go through the ridiculousness of watching breastfeeding icon users drop off one by one as they are suspended?
[info]ceeinjax wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 11:35 pm (UTC)
I think an injunction on suspensions for breastfeeding pics in default icons would be appropriate until some decisions are made. Unless you already know that nothing is really going to result from all this "discussion".

I would also like to see some deadline established for coming to a decision on this issue.
(no subject) - [info]theprophecygirl - May. 24th, 2006 11:44 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]pfratz - May. 24th, 2006 11:56 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]rhiannonhero - May. 25th, 2006 03:58 pm (UTC)
[info]stellarstarrise wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 10:46 pm (UTC)
Thank you for the apology. I wasn't included in the "offensive" userpic scandal because, well, I don't happen to have a breastfeeding usericon (hate having my picture taken, feeding a baby or not.) However, I do support my friends and I do believe that an image of a breastfeeding child should be considered completely normal and as unremarkable as any other image of food or a person engaged in eating.

The designation that a breast (clothed or unclothed) is primarily sexual is offensive to me. I agree that offensive acts could possibly be performed with breasts, and I also agree that I'd prefer not to have my own daughters see such acts. But I must disagree and say that the sight of an infant nursing has never been offensive to me, and in fact, may require the active interest of a large population of people before it becomes mainstream: like the women of the 20's, displaying dimpled knees under short skirts, we are pioneering a new American (the rest of the world's not so regretfully behind in this matter) fashion.

Knees were once scandalous. Breasts are now scandalous (but only if they're in use, it seems.) The media's fascination with these knees made them seem commonplace, then a war made them seem completely normal. You'd never be caught dead staring at my knees now (unless there was something on one.) In ten years, if we're lucky, you'd never blink at seeing my baby (well, in my case it'd be babies, but they won't be nursing at 10!) at my breast. It would seem normal to you.

Many children live in a place where they may never see a woman nursing a child. Some of them might be curious enough to access our community, I'll admit that. Still, if one types "breasts" into the search, the first response of the search engine isn't "breastfeeding." There are some images (and some image communities) floating around out there (and I applaud them) that have the capacity to make me blush at 26, never mind 12 or 13. These images would be considered acceptable by many: note their proliferation in the movie industry, where even a PG-13 feature can feature naked breasts.

I think I'm trying to say that our pictures are meant to inform, and not to offend: I am, therefore, completely confused about the degree of censorship (and I do realize that they can be secondary icons) being afforded to such an act, which should be commonplace and unremarkable. This "taboo factor" is influencing many young couples against breastfeeding, even here, in one of the last-ditch places to turn for nursing help.




(no subject) - [info]the_id_kid - May. 25th, 2006 11:50 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]stellarstarrise - May. 25th, 2006 02:52 pm (UTC)
[info]marliah wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 10:47 pm (UTC)
I just want to apologize to you (and all the people in charge), I think the outbursts from people, particularly in this community give breastfeeders a bad name.

I think the behavior in this community regarding this policy has been rediculous and immature and just want you to know not all boob nazis are LJ haters.

I do appriciate your post here and I hope it will shut some people up ;)
[info]housepoet wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 10:50 pm (UTC)
how are you even a boob nazi with that type of comment?
(no subject) - [info]runawaybunni - May. 24th, 2006 10:51 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]joy_disaster - May. 24th, 2006 10:51 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]starlitlexy - May. 24th, 2006 10:51 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]assfab - May. 24th, 2006 10:56 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]marliah - May. 24th, 2006 10:58 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]runawaybunni - May. 24th, 2006 11:01 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]marliah - May. 24th, 2006 11:06 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]runawaybunni - May. 24th, 2006 11:08 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]housepoet - May. 24th, 2006 11:15 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]talula_fairie - May. 24th, 2006 11:33 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]housepoet - May. 24th, 2006 11:05 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]serendipitylove - May. 24th, 2006 10:58 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]beyondinsanity - May. 24th, 2006 11:23 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]arianamama - May. 24th, 2006 11:14 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]beyondinsanity - May. 24th, 2006 11:17 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]saturate - May. 24th, 2006 11:34 pm (UTC)
Mod note - [info]pamagain - May. 24th, 2006 11:35 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]yonmei - May. 24th, 2006 10:50 pm (UTC)
[info]dwa20 wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 11:16 pm (UTC)
I agree, I don't see how breastfeeding in any way can be compared to an illegal act.
(no subject) - [info]disparate_ether - May. 25th, 2006 12:33 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]crayolaab - May. 25th, 2006 01:12 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]disparate_ether - May. 25th, 2006 01:14 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]jbarbie23 - May. 25th, 2006 04:01 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]magdalene74 - May. 25th, 2006 03:55 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]disparate_ether - May. 25th, 2006 03:56 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]talula_fairie - May. 25th, 2006 05:11 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]disparate_ether - May. 25th, 2006 05:20 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]f1ymetothemoon - May. 25th, 2006 08:00 am (UTC)
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(no subject) - [info]yonmei - May. 25th, 2006 12:57 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]anysia - Jun. 5th, 2006 03:07 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]xratedouroboros - May. 27th, 2006 12:37 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]yonmei - May. 27th, 2006 09:00 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]xratedouroboros - May. 28th, 2006 07:30 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]yonmei - May. 28th, 2006 08:16 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]xratedouroboros - May. 28th, 2006 09:01 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]ahavah_ehyeh - May. 28th, 2006 04:05 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]xratedouroboros - May. 28th, 2006 07:34 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]kaaaty - Jun. 4th, 2006 02:22 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]yonmei - Jun. 4th, 2006 04:28 am (UTC)
Hang on a sec - [info]anysia - Jun. 5th, 2006 03:10 am (UTC)
[info]joy_disaster wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 10:50 pm (UTC)
Also, I want to clarify that no one thinks LJ is "against breastfeeding" - our issue is that it is being defined as "nudity and obscenity", so assertions that LJ supports breastfeeding mothers are beside the point.
[info]pipu wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 10:53 pm (UTC)
not to mention condescending!
(no subject) - [info]stellarstarrise - May. 24th, 2006 10:57 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]joy_disaster - May. 25th, 2006 02:51 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]stellarstarrise - May. 25th, 2006 03:17 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]jesurgislac - May. 24th, 2006 11:28 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]joy_disaster - May. 25th, 2006 02:46 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]mollyf - May. 24th, 2006 11:52 pm (UTC)
[info]bopeepsheep wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 10:55 pm (UTC)
(oooh, conspiracy theory - LJ seems to have eaten my first version of this comment! *g*)

Thank you for taking the time to post here and apologize. I'm sure you realise how upset and insulted members - and non-members - have been about this issue. We appreciate the clarification and discussion you're prepared to put into this.

There are some continuing niggles.
- LJ Abuse responses over the last few days have been variously inconsistent, rude, hostile, contradictory, offensive, discriminatory, illogical, and mendacious. Daring to complain about their attitude has resulted in even more unpleasantness, and threats.
- The FAQ updating was done very badly - not changed in British English until well into Sunday afternoon, nor French/Italian/German. It was then implied or blatantly stated in several LJA responses that it had "always been thus" (anyone there read George Orwell lately?). While it is true that TOS effectively say you can enforce any policy you like, the point of FAQs is to clarify those policies so that people can apply them appropriately. You cannot honestly expect people to abide by a policy you haven't published. "Graphically sexual" does not and never would mean "nudity", there are legal and societal distinctions we all understand. Changing the wording in the middle of an argument smacks of desperation in most situations, and it's how it came across here too.
- the implication in the original responses that breastfeeding was being viewed as 'graphically sexual'. I don't think we need to tell you how wrong that is.
- "secondary sexual characteristics" were cited as unacceptable in an LJA response by LJA team member Carson. That includes breasts, yes, but also beards... are we going to see a clean-shaven ruling?
- the grey area that is the new ruling. Areolae vary greatly in pigmentation and size and this is a discriminatory policy, however reasonable a compromise it sounds. Male areolae are acceptable. Images of men with large amounts of breast tissue are acceptable. Images of cartoon breasts are apparently acceptable. Images of women in bikini tops smaller than the average hamster are acceptable. Images of women with 2 pixels' worth of areola visible are not? Women with small or pale areolae will get away with it (I'm not showing you mine right now but I bet you'd never spot them in an icon), women with darker pigmentation/larger areolae will not?

It's all been extremely maddening, not least because it all sparked from a diversionary tactic by someone who'd been "caught by the speed trap" themselves. I bet there hasn't been a single "oh no I saw what might be an areola" complaint from anyone viewing the schools search or doing an interest search. (And hey, if you're using LJ at all aren't you supposed to be old enough to see that kind of thing anyway? It's not like it's hardcore porn.) It would be much better if you'd put the searches back to returning just text, they'd take a lot less time to load and be much easier to read. But I guess that's a case of style over substance, and while it would be good to go into that now, it's probably not an appropriate place to do so...
[info]aibohportposie wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 11:31 pm (UTC)
You actually have brought up the point I've been wondering all along. The number one reason for LJ having this ruling is "think of the children", however, I was under the impression you had to be 13 or 14 to have an account on this (and most... COPA is it? I don't remember the name) website so why would children not old enough to be here be using the website?
(no subject) - [info]housepoet - May. 24th, 2006 11:34 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]elfwreck - May. 25th, 2006 07:01 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]vashti - May. 25th, 2006 08:51 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]realcdaae - May. 24th, 2006 11:59 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]junipertree - May. 25th, 2006 01:56 am (UTC)
[info]housepoet wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 10:56 pm (UTC)
While we have stopped our letter writing campaign to livejournal about their 'anti-breastfeeding' stance, livejournal.com continues to wage war against users with nursing pictures with areola/nipple showing.

So what is it? If you're willing to work with us and we have ceased fire on our side, shouldn't you show the same consideration for us?
[info]theprophecygirl wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 11:10 pm (UTC)
I asked this question in xavi's earlier post about the user icons, this has been bothering me all day. I'd like an answer.
(no subject) - [info]hardvice - May. 24th, 2006 11:26 pm (UTC)
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(no subject) - [info]realcdaae - May. 25th, 2006 12:25 am (UTC)
[info]runawaybunni wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 10:56 pm (UTC)
While I appreciate your attempting to apologize, there are a few things I take issue with.

The first is your analogy. Your TOS was clear - no sexual/violent images. Nursing photos are neither. It wasn't that this person just happened to be 'driving over the speed limit' - they didn't do anything wrong.

It wasn't that your procedures appeared to show a lack of understanding. They DID show a lack of understanding and most of them were downright rude. You may sit here and say that you are willing to listen - and I don't doubt that you are - but when we got an email back saying things like "letter campaigns don't acheive anything" (I'm paraphrasing) it was inherently clear that you weren't willing to listen.

A no nudity rule is reasonable - excluding male breasts but not nursing ones is not. The message that sends is that a breast that is nursing is inherently more offensive than a totally bare male breast. If a male breast is not inappropriate, then surely a breast that is nourishing a child cannot possibly be.
[info]talula_fairie wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 11:25 pm (UTC)
Exactly. Some of the things that LJ Abuse said were extremely rude and downright unprofessional.

Especially this one:

"Finally, please be aware that write-in campaigns are never effective in swaying the opinion of the Abuse Team or LiveJournal administrators, or in focusing attention on a particular issue. A flood of requests concerning the same issue only serve to slow down the responses given to valid inquiries such as your request for policy clarification."

and this one:

"We ask only that you are willing to extend the same support and appreciation to, for instance, parents who choose to believe that it is inappropriate for their children to view unsolicited nudity in public. The physical-world analogy is not perfect in this situation; breastfeeding is indeed perfectly legal in public places, but in a public place, another parent is also able to cover a child's eyes or remove a child from the area if he or she believes that such an action is inappropriate for their child to see."

Telling us to shut up and cover up because a mother can't shield her child's eyes from viewing our nursing photos is pretty...offensive. I was in shock when I read that coming from a major company.
(no subject) - [info]magdalene74 - May. 25th, 2006 04:10 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]entirelysonja - May. 25th, 2006 12:53 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]donut_fiend - May. 31st, 2006 11:30 am (UTC)
[info]hisrisingstar wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 10:58 pm (UTC)
I think that many people would like a deadline of resolution. Many of us feel strung along, and feel that excuses are being made. I think a timeline of when we can expect resoultion would be best, because with your response I feel as if there isnt an end in sight.
[info]ahavah_ehyeh wrote:
May. 28th, 2006 04:16 pm (UTC)
Wow - I agree.

In fact, I've been saying that very same thing since 2001...
[info]stellarstarrise wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 10:59 pm (UTC)
(I guess you could say the open bottle their car was stopped for contained root beer instead of three-bulldozer mixed drinks.)
(no subject) - [info]witchbaby33 - May. 24th, 2006 11:08 pm (UTC)
[info]stellarstarrise wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 11:11 pm (UTC)
*rolls* I had to look twice at your icon to figure it out. How sad, that excessive drinking and...umm...erotica...aren't an issue, but my desire to do what God intended me to do with my breasts is.
(no subject) - [info]witchbaby33 - May. 24th, 2006 11:13 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]witchbaby33 - May. 24th, 2006 11:19 pm (UTC)
[info]realcdaae wrote:
May. 25th, 2006 12:01 am (UTC)
how are we to know if that is policy when it isn't in the faq or something lja pulled out of their asses?

I've asked LJ abuse that about other things once or twice. They don't like it much.
[info]talula_fairie wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 11:20 pm (UTC)
Thank you for your candid response. It is much improved over the previous responses.

I sincerely hope that Live Journal will allow all breastfeeding icons, regardless of weather they are showing areola as this is standard for the community in the US. Weather people find it offensive or not is moot really, considering that a mother breastfeeding her child is exempt from indecency laws even if she is showing areola/nipple. If more companies like Live Journal would allow images of breastfeeding, it might change the tide towards having people view it as normal, which is how it should be viewed. By Live Journal restricting photos of breastfeeding in any way, you ARE sending a message that breastfeeding is somehow inapparopriate.

I also hope that you will reconsider suspending those users who have images of breastfeeding that include areola as their defult icons. I will lose many friends (and you will lose those customers) if you suspend them, and many women will suffer without their good helpful advice in the breastfeeding communities.
[info]deannahoak wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 11:57 pm (UTC)
I very much agree
If more companies like Live Journal would allow images of breastfeeding, it might change the tide towards having people view it as normal, which is how it should be viewed. By Live Journal restricting photos of breastfeeding in any way, you ARE sending a message that breastfeeding is somehow inapparopriate.

I agree with this wholeheartedly. It should be normal for people--children or adult--to see breastfeeding infants in public with regularity. It is policies like this, which clearly send the message that there is something inherently shameful about breastfeeding in public, that contribute to the huge number of babies in this country who are fed formula.
[info]dwa20 wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 11:22 pm (UTC)
Suggestion
Instead of likening the act of breastfeeding to a minor traffic violation -- that is still an ILLEGAL act. Use wording similar to this state law in your TOS guidelines.

"A woman's breast feeding, including breast feeding in any place where the woman otherwise may rightfully be, does not under any circumstance constitute an obscene or lewd act, irrespective of whether or not the breast is covered during or incidental to feeding."
[info]ceeinjax wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 11:28 pm (UTC)
Re: Suggestion
EXACTLY!
Re: Suggestion - [info]blonnie - May. 25th, 2006 12:16 pm (UTC)
[info]pelageya wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 11:23 pm (UTC)
this part "To use an analogy, this is like a police officer having to enforce speed limits in neighborhoods where kids play. When enforcing these policies, sometimes you end up catching someone who is in fact a very law abiding citizen, but who just happened to be driving over the speed limit." is very upsetting. If person is driving over speed limit he is creating a danger to someone. Why would you compare a breastfeeding mother to a nice person, who is creating a danger?
[info]assfab wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 11:24 pm (UTC)
agreed.
(no subject) - [info]arianamama - May. 24th, 2006 11:40 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]becke1084 - May. 25th, 2006 04:28 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]dreamalynn - May. 25th, 2006 12:17 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]pipu - May. 25th, 2006 04:58 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]entirelysonja - May. 25th, 2006 01:02 pm (UTC)
[info]assfab wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 11:24 pm (UTC)
A law abiding citizen who speeds just once and gets caught IS STILL SPEEDING. It's AGAINST THE LAW. Breastfeeding is NEVER inappropriate. It ISN'T against the law. It is actually illegal to prohibit breastfeeding in public, whether you can see aerola or nipple.
[info]noiseinmyhead wrote:
Jun. 19th, 2006 01:52 pm (UTC)
acctually it isn't illegal to prohibit breastfeeding in public...it depends on the state you live in.....
um - [info]assfab - Jun. 19th, 2006 04:43 pm (UTC)
CONSTITUTIONAL RIGHT TO BREASTFEED - [info]assfab - Jun. 19th, 2006 04:48 pm (UTC)
[info]ceeinjax wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 11:27 pm (UTC)
[info]ravingliberal wrote:

In fact, classifying any part of the breastfeeding breast as indecent or in appropriate is harmful to society. A visible areola surrounding the mouth of a breastfeeding baby does no harm.

This is the crux of the entire argument, IMO. Photos depicting a breastfeeding child are not inappropriate. Period. There is absolutely no need to work diligently to define this "grey area" because breastfeeding is NOT a grey area. It is not sexual. It is feeding a human child in the manner nature intended that children should be fed.

There is really no need to waste a lot of time "in the upcoming weeks and months to make absolutely certain that we have the right policy and the right way to handle issues." There is only one *right* policy and only one *right* way to handle this particular issue. That is to have LJ's policy reflect federal laws and legislation in a growing number of states so that breastfeeding (and, by extension, photos depiciting mothers and children breastfeeding) is *protected* from labeling as "indecent" or "inappropriate". The issue of whether nipples or areolae are visible in the photographs is irrelevant.
(no subject) - [info]witchbaby33 - May. 24th, 2006 11:31 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]lawngnome25 - May. 25th, 2006 01:01 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]assfab - May. 25th, 2006 02:30 am (UTC)
EXACTLY - [info]jbarbie23 - May. 25th, 2006 04:30 am (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]bafleyanne - May. 25th, 2006 02:51 pm (UTC)
(no subject) - [info]jamigirl7684 - May. 25th, 2006 04:16 pm (UTC)
[info]thecranewife wrote:
May. 24th, 2006 11:40 pm (UTC)
I think this is a good resolution. I appreciate that you are willing to continue working on this issue. Thank you.
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