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61 Sorority Girls and me [Jul. 26th, 2008|08:38 am]

kellidunham
Thanks to the amazing techie stylings of Dale Sorenson, I'll be sharing some video clips from the CD recording show in the upcoming weeks. Here's the first in the series, "61 Sorority Girls and Me"


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LA Chiva [Jul. 26th, 2008|08:15 am]

kellidunham
Hey everyone, Akiva Peñaloza who some of you may know from the butch femme community as well as her work as a filmmaker has a short film screening on-line that I really enjoyed. Usually I hate shorts because I never understand what's going on (("wait, is that a picture frame or a symbol of a picture frame. Is that a real whale or a symbol of the injustice to cartoon characters") but this one was different. Also, as a special treat, watch for the smart ass body positive comment about halfway through the film.

There's also some voting thing going on too, so if you like the film vote for it so it can, I guess, shown on teevee (You guys know how much I know about pop culture).

Anyway, the film is La Chiva and the link is

http://www. thirteen. org/reel13/films/vote-for-saturdays-short



http://www.thirteen.org/reel13/films/vote-for-saturdays-short

try cut and pasting this link instead. myspace has it all mucked up.
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I Took This From Jesse... [Jul. 25th, 2008|03:00 pm]

dont_assume
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Fighting my battles.... [Jul. 25th, 2008|05:18 am]

tululahmoon
[mood | tired]

      I feel like I am fighting a few battles on my own, and no one is helping/there for me at all.  I seem like I am the ONLY one that understands or can really see  "what's going on".  I've always have fought these personal battles, but, it feels so different when your 22 from when you were 14 1/2 fighting these same battles.  When I was 14 I thought it was the end of me, and now I don't feel that way at all.  Sometimes, I do just want to give up because things get soo hard.  I can't be be positive everyday.  I've learned the hard way how to depend on me.   Even though I think the song is played out, and very old it holds very good meaning.  "The Greatest Love Of All" may have been extremely played out, but, what it is saying is very true, and sometimes that is the only song that will help me get through the day.  At the end of the day I always have myself.  It's true that you really can't depend on no one else more than yourself.  However, in life as it stands today with people around my age there are ALOT of people that do not love themselves.

    I think that what we fall in love with the "ideas" that society throws at us more than the reality.  I think this is why many of us can't face the reality, but, we are always stuck on the idea.  I am learning more, and more about that everyday, and fighting these battles as they may come along, but, if I fail or if I succeed at least I did what I truly believed, and not from what came out of what I should do.
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At a bookstore near Columbus Circle... [Jul. 24th, 2008|10:05 am]

kellidunham


Of course, "Best Bondage Erotica" was located under the section marked "Death and Dying"

This entry brought to you by the words "ironic" and "juxtaposition."
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Uhn! [Jul. 24th, 2008|08:55 am]

tululahmoon
[mood | tired]

So, just getting back from the gym with Morgan.  I'm glad I went.  It was refreshing!  Only thing is that I didn't like going in the locker room to only see 50+ year-old dick!  I'm sorry, but, old men walking around naked is not my thing!   There was only one HOT guy in the locker room, and I patiently waited to undress, so he couldn't see me.  Anyways, after I worked out, I got in the hot tub, and I feel soo much better.  I didn't think it would be that relaxing, but, it was.


 However, before we went into the gym, Morgan, and I had a heart to heart.  It gave me some new outlooks on certain situations in my life, and a new outlook on myself.  I'm glad that I have some intelligent friends.  Anyway, I'm tired.  Hopefully, I'll get up in enough time to have lunch with Kenny & Exxie.
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[Night of the Senses...] [Jul. 24th, 2008|11:11 am]

boykitten
[Tags|, , , , , , ]
[Current Location |[Master's...]]
[mood | cheerful]
[music |ode to joy - beethoven - a clockwork orange soundtrack]

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THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [Jul. 24th, 2008|06:11 am]

kellidunham
Since I was so busy whining about my sister's behavior, I didn't take the chance to thank everyone who did so many amazing things for me for my 40th birthday. You will be hearing from me individually, but you just need to know I felt love and cared about and really, frankly, cherished. Thanks for everyone who celebrated with me all the different ways, from going out to lunch, to sitting in a hot tub trying to convince a stranger about the importance of trying butt sex. And thanks also for the books and the book gift cards and beef jerky and the AWESOME CAMERA!  More from the awesome camera as I learn to use it.

And for loving me.

Thank you.
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[Jul. 23rd, 2008|10:14 pm]

mr_tommy_gunn
[music |watchin' "WEEDS"]

pizza,beer and friends make me oh so happy.

things have been really lookin' up. it's a nice change.

I am very thankful to my friends...and my family.

life is good.
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Weeee [Jul. 23rd, 2008|06:21 pm]

o0butch_dork0o
[Tags|]
[Current Location |Home - Bedroom]
[mood | content]
[music |What I Love About Sundays]

I work tonight at 10pm :) 
10pm to 6am.

I worked that shift last night too! Only I was training last night.

Tonight I am alllllll alone in the store :-\ It's exciting but kinda freaky. 

I'm responsible for like...everything. Ha.

Night shift goes fast though. I think it's cause from 10p to midnight you have aq steady flow of customers and then midnight to 2p you clean the machines, counters, bag the trash, stock the cooler, pick up the store, sweep, mop, and restock anything needed to be restocked. At 2am you lock up the alcohol, and 2:!5 you put on a pot of regular coffee. Around 3am you put out the food on the grill, check you water and ice supply. Then at like 4am you move the grill food to the front so ppl can buy it, put out breakfast sandwhiches, and take a smoke break - from 4am to 6am youre nonstop busy with customers. :P 

It goes quick. 

Anyway tomorrow is payday :) I have 40 hours for that check and atleast 41 for next weeks.

I need to pay cox or they are going to turn me off tomorrow...oops. Oh Well.

Oh and I have tomorrow of - Em doesnt though. 


I'll post more later,....right now it's time to go zone out on WoW.

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Holy Bat Shit! [Jul. 23rd, 2008|02:39 pm]

chyld
[mood | pleased]

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Cover Up..... [Jul. 23rd, 2008|02:13 pm]

tululahmoon
[mood | busy]

       You may think that no one has a clue
You walk around like no one can ever fill your shoes
You talk like your so inconspicuous.
Little do you know you're very much conspicuous.
All the lies that you tell, and all the games that you play
Wondering who you are going play this time
You try to hide it,  and, try to deny it
Is my friend your next specialty
Or your next cover up
Everyone can see what you really are
 Your eyes are the only one's that's blinded
Only you can't see that you're just.....

 A cover up that's
Full of deception, and lies
A cover up that's
Only for show
A cover up that's only
Playing games with yourself


You tell me to tell no one, not a soul
You act like hurting me wasn't your main goal
You claim you know it all
But, you don't know anything at all
Hoping no one will find out
when they already know
Being with me only when it's a convenience to you
Not caring about the inconveniences to me
Self indulgent you are
only  caring about you and what you feel
Thinking you can hide behind the cover.
Saying what you want and playing it off

You lied when you touched me
Lied when you kissed me
A play thing I will be no more

The game is on you.
I am no longer a player in your game.
The only one that can't see it is you.
Thinking you have it all
When really you don't have it at all
Trying to get over on me
Little do you know that you can't hide
So just face it

Boy your just a cover up
Anyone can see your cover
Trying to play like no one can tell
Truth will soon see it's way through your cover up
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[Jul. 23rd, 2008|02:06 pm]

doni_dyke01
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[Jul. 22nd, 2008|12:01 pm]

mr_tommy_gunn
Is it just me or is it kind of rude to go to someone's house,cook dinner and start getting drunk with that someone,then invite a random dude over to that someone's house...a random dude that that someone doesn't even know...then disappear with random dude leaving all your belongings at that someone's house and not even calling to say "Hey,sorry I left all my stuff at yer pad and disappeared,i went to blah blah blah with random dude and got tired an wanted to go home"  or even responding to IM's? Is it just me or is that kinda rude?
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Tennis Match Results - Win [Jul. 21st, 2008|11:04 pm]

pearmon
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Tonight L and I played our 4th Summer League game against Dana S. and Holly M. We hadn't played Dana before, but played Holly and lost 6-4, 6-2. I don't remember much from that match.

Tonight, we started out poorly - got down 0-3. However, we were taking their service game to deuces, so there was some positives to look at. My net play was atrocious though. I served strongly, and got us on the board at 1-3. I don't remember if we got our service break right away, but we eventually did, got back on track, and then pulled out the first set 6-4. I was really worried - Dana especially had some nice, hard shots. Both were very solid. But we stayed calm, and started looking for weaknesses. Which we did find.

Second set started out well - we got a break right off the bat, and held serve to take it to 2-0. However, they held a serve, and then broke us - to tie it all up at 2-2. But I was up to serve next, and I think I was down 0-40, but managed to come back. That seem to really hurt them, hind-site, as we got up 5-2. I think L. got a case of nerves, and our serve got broken - leaving us at 5-3. But we then got the break right back to win the set, and match.

So overall, we played a really nice game. Looking up their win-losses afterwards, it appears both our opponents win about 75-80% of their matches, so definitely upper tier of 3.5. We haven't really beat an upper tier opponent before, and to do it in two sets really shows some great progress. Instead of panicing, I was able to stay focused on the match, not tense up too much, and did a good job of really observing what was happening with my game and our opponents. I was able to find a few keys to their weaknesses, and that ended up being enough to help us get the win. L. also played a great game, and had to make some really tough shots. We needed our A game to beat these people, and for the most part, we had it.

Personally, my net game was horrible. I really need to focus on that when we practice this week. That is usually a strength of mine, so I don't appreciate it when it turns out to be a weakness. On the upside, I don't think my serve was broken, which is awesome. It was bad that I got down 0-40 at one point, but fabulous that I held steady and came back to win the point. Yay me.

I'm also learning that I can make some good observations during the course of the match, and they are working. I have to try hard to manage my temper/anger when I start losing, so now knowing my focusing on observations about opponents will work, I think I've found a key to keeping my anger/disappointment/etc. under wraps.

So, great win tonight. It puts us at 4-0 on the Summer Season. This is great coming off a 3-6 Spring Season (4-6 if you count a default win, which I don't). We were really in a rut, but I think we've righted our ship, and our confidence is growing. We play a tournament this weekend, and we could be in for an early loss, which will put the reins on our momentum, but hopefully the good feelings from tonight, and the Summer Season in general, will help keep things happy, even in defeat. Though I'll still hope and play hard for lots of wins this weekend :)

A Fine Frenzy - Rangers
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commercialism [Jul. 21st, 2008|09:51 pm]

jagienka
[Tags|, , ]
[mood | pleased]

top three purchases for the trip / recently

- Keen Newport H2 Sandals
-Joby GP2-00EN Gorillapod Flexible Tripod for Digital SLR Cameras
-Olympus Stylus 1030SW 10.1MP Digital Camera with 3.6x Optical Wide Angle Zoom (Green) - Waterproof & Shockproof!!!
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[Jul. 21st, 2008|03:05 pm]

mr_tommy_gunn
I hate being so bored and not intoxicated.
It is unacceptable. I can't wait to get paid Wednesday.
Fuck.
WTF? Mondays suck.I should just work 7 days a week.
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[Jul. 21st, 2008|02:27 pm]

mr_tommy_gunn
So bored I am watching "The Real Housewives of O.C."-an apparent marathon...

Someone save me...
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the simple joys of kori [Jul. 21st, 2008|04:59 pm]

jagienka
[Tags|]
[mood | wet]
[music |Julia Hamari, Edith Mathis, Karl Böhm; Vienna Philharmonic Orchestra - Mozart: Requiem In D Minor, K]

just got drenched from being caught in a summer storm. it ruined the bag my gift from yael & noam was in, but all i could do was laugh and grin and jump in puddles.

thanks, world, for washing away my cranky, worried, angst from this morning with a gorgeous storm. i forget how simple life can be sometimes.
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[Jul. 21st, 2008|12:38 pm]

mr_tommy_gunn
Why do I have MONDAYS off? No one else has Mondays off and I am often left sitting home alone with cable and no food in the house.
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