I know this sounds like a silly question, but I've been in Austin since the summer and I haven't made any friends! Part of it is due to my shyness and part of it is due to my work schedule. I had hoped that I would make friends through work, but unfortunately I work with all middle age women that are obsessed with celebrity gossip and American Idol. I go out to see bands a lot and the few times I've tried to strike up conversations with people they acted uninterested or snobby. So! Would someone like to adopt me as a friend? I know that sounds desperate, but I'm tired of staying cooped up in my apartment!


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Oddly this came up twice this weekend in my circle of friends.
My answer to both was "persistence"
So you went out a struck up a conversation a few times and based on a bar side chat it didn't work out? Keep at it! Talk to everyone; I have made acquaintances and from there formed real friendships by meeting people everywhere there are people. I would say that the ratio of people I speak with Vs. the ones that become friends with is well below 1%
Talk to people it's really the only way. I am a horridly shy person, but that is something I wanted to change about myself and I took the "fake it till you make it" approach, I am still a shy person, but now I am they shy person that says "hi" to the person behind me in line at the grocery store for no reason other than to be friendly.
Here's a quick project for you. You say you are new to town and like the bar/music scene here. Go out and learn your bartenders names, ask them who their cool regulars are. Then next time call them by their names and see how well that works towards getting over your shyness.
To the OP,
I went to check out your profile and nothing. Also you have no entries. I'm not really interested in friending someone on LJ who doesn't update.
(My problem might just be that I'm a freak magnet, honestly. I think Portland is by and large pretty comfortable but the tiny handful of skeezy men always seem to find me regardless.)
Its funny... just this weekend a friend and I were talking about an "add_me_austin" type group because we've all asked that question at some point...