Andrea ([info]nifty_geek) wrote in [info]audiography,
@ 2008-09-03 01:13:00
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Theme:  Infidelity
So, most of the posts I've been noticing so far have been about people who've been cheated on.  I think I'll bring something a little different.  You see, I've been the 'other woman' in someone's life.  It's not something I'm proud of, but I wouldn't go back and change it now for anything.  There were lots of songs that I listened to during that period in my life and I give you a bunch that kinda stood out the minute I read this week's theme...



In the beginning, they tell you the prettiest things.  That they'll take you away, that they'll leave their wife, that there's only you.  This song came into my life at exactly the right time, and I listened to it endlessly, hoping that the day would come when he would come away with me.  It's a sweetly quiet song, just Norah Jones' voice and a haunting piano, sometimes serious, and occasionally playful.

Norah Jones - Come Away With Me

Buy "Come Away With Me".


I know that the artists have said time and time again that the next song is not about cheating, but so many of the lines in it were said to me in that context that I can't help but think of it as such.  Lines like "My girl's in the next room, sometimes I wish she was you", and "No, I don't think she has a clue." hit me hard the first time I heard it.  Yeah, it's overplayed, but have it again.  :)

Hinder - Lips Of An Angel

Buy "Extreme Behaviour"


This song kinda speaks for itself.  Yeah, it's bad 80s rock.  It's a hair band.  But the lyrics are lovely.  It's got a nice sentiment to it, and one that I could easily identify with. 

Def Leppard - Have You Ever Needed Someone So Bad

Buy "Vault: Def Leppard's Greatest Hits".


Finally, two songs from the aftermath.  Let this be a lesson - infidelity never turns out well for anyone.  The first is a sad song by The Wreckers.  At first listen, it is a country/folk sounding song.  But then you listen to the words, and the way they sing them. 

"You're not sure if you love me,
and not sure enough to let me go,
baby it ain't fair you know,
to just keep me hanging 'round"

Just, yes.

The Wreckers - Leave The Pieces

Buy "Stand Still, Look Pretty".


The second is a lovely little piano piece by A Fine Frenzy.  It's about the healing that comes after a breakup, particularly a nasty one.  If anything, it doesn't fit in completely with the theme, but it is a song that helped after, and one that I still like to listen too now.  Just a piano, and Alison Sudol's voice, clear and pure.  Lovely. 

A Fine Frenzy - Near To You

Buy "One Cell In The Sea"  (I did.  It's fantastic.  The whole thing.  :))


Finally, a bonus song!  Just because of the title.

Dashboard Confessionals - Screaming Infidelities

I just couldn't leave it out.  Dashboard Confessionals is just one of those bands you like, or you don't.  I love them, my room-mate, not so much.  As she called it, one guitar and a whole lot of whining.  I prefer to call it 'acoustic'.  :)  It's quiet, melodic, a man relenting his lost love.  Good stuff.

Buy "The Places You Have Come To Fear The Most".



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[info]erinya
2008-09-03 03:49 am UTC (link)
"Near to You" doesn't seem to be playing properly on Box, and so I'm unwilling to download it but I really want the song. What I hear when I pull up the player is the same garbled clip repeated over and over. ????

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[info]nifty_geek
2008-09-03 04:43 am UTC (link)
Weird. Hang on, I'll reupload.

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[info]nifty_geek
2008-09-03 04:47 am UTC (link)
Fixed, I hope! I'm really sorry about that, it should be fine now. :)

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[info]glass_pyx
2008-09-03 04:38 am UTC (link)
Grabbing the A Fine Frenzy--thanks so much! I like your post a lot. I really love "Screaming Infidelities." I think his voice is just so... hurt when he sing it, even live. It's great.

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[info]glass_pyx
2008-09-03 04:39 am UTC (link)
Oh, the song's not there :(

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[info]nifty_geek
2008-09-03 04:47 am UTC (link)
It should be there now. Sorry about that!!!

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[info]glass_pyx
2008-09-03 05:01 am UTC (link)
Thank you!

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[info]imweirdlikethat
2008-09-03 05:59 am UTC (link)
Took the Wreckers. Thanks!

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[info]scottishdiva
2008-09-03 07:58 am UTC (link)
Lips of an Angel is lovely - I took them all....thanks :)

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[info]toujoursjeune
2008-09-03 01:34 pm UTC (link)
took dashboard and norah! thanks

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[info]phoenix_anew
2008-09-03 08:20 pm UTC (link)
How could Lips of an Angel be about anything other than a guy who's at least tempted to cheat on his significant other?

No offense to you as it fits the theme quite well, but I hate that song so much. There's something so disgusting to me that couples slow dance to a song that when you really pay attention to the words there's absolutely nothing romantic about it. The narrator is a sleaze as far as I'm concerned.

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[info]baseballchica03
2008-09-14 04:34 am UTC (link)
There's something so disgusting to me that couples slow dance to a song that when you really pay attention to the words there's absolutely nothing romantic about it.

This is an old comment, but I have to say word. Like Every Breath You Take, or whatever it's called by the Police. Sting has SAID HIMSELF that it's a song about a creeper stalking his ex. Why, why, why for the love of all that's good would you make that your wedding song?

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[info]phoenix_anew
2008-09-14 09:40 am UTC (link)
It is an old comment, but as you agree with me, I'm glad you replied. I was start to think I was the only one bothered by that song. :) And ditto on Every Breathe You Take... that's just creepy.

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