
Nigel Lythgoe (Photo Credit: Getty Images/Frederick M. Brown)
For some gay fans of Fox competitive reality shows American Idol and So You Think You Can Dance there has long been a whiff of intolerance floating over both shows. Why? Neither has ever had an out gay contestant during their actual competitions (as opposed to the UK and Australian versions). In fact, when Jim Verraros' Livejournal blog entries discussing his being gay were discovered while he was on AI during its first season, they suddenly disappeared. Additionally, somewhat frequent homophobic comments from judges, hosts and contestants occur on both shows.
At yesterday's TCA I got a chance to ask Nigel Lythgoe, one of the judges on SYTYCD and an executive producer on American Idol, about why neither show has ever had an out gay contestant.
AfterElton.com: What’s your response to the criticism that neither American Idol nor So You Think You Can Dance has ever included any out gay contestants?
Nigel Lythgoe: You mean homosexual guys who have come out? We’ve never thought about it, to be honest. I don’t actually go around and say, "Excuse me are you gay or are you straight?" It isn’t a question that we ask.
AE But it would come up.
NL: No it wouldn’t. I’m never worried if anybody’s gay. What I don’t like on the dance show, to be frank, is effeminate boys that mince around the stage. I don’t care if they’re gay or straight. That’s got nothing to do with it for me.
AE: Why don’t you like the effeminate [dancers]?
NL: Because they need to be very strong. Dancing is role-playing most of the time. And you need to be strong and lift girls. You need to look stronger than the girl you’re dancing with. You control the dance, especially in ballroom. So if you mince about the stage, you’re not doing what the choreographer is asking you to do. He’s asking you to be strong. If your choreographer then wants to do an effeminate routine, then that’s fine, but most of the time we don’t do effeminate routines so straight or gay doesn’t come into it for me.
You'll note I didn't ask Lythgoe if he asks folks whether they're or gay not. I asked why neither show has never had any out contestants.
I see a couple of odd things here. Nigel seems to be confusing effeminate with weak and as many a drag queen can tell you, there isn't anything weak about many drag queens. As well, I've met plenty of effeminate large men who could mambo Nigel across the dance floor until he dropped.
This interview with Nigel itself isn't exactly relevant to this community, but this amazing response my a female reader is. And I just thought I'd share it. I'm really sick of men calling each other women as insults, as if it's such a horrible thing to be a woman. Katy Perry has her new album titled "One of the Boys". Do you think a male artist would ever flaunt that he's "One of the Girls"? Anyway, here's the response. The fact that effeminate equals weak insults me - as a woman. What's so horrible about being a woman / or having womanly qualities? Most women I know cope pretty well with being effeminate.
I am an ardent figure skating fan, therefore I read and hear lots of comments concerning the style of skating. Words like "feminine, effeminate, flamboyant, flashy, showy" are often negative criticism.
One of the more "flamboyant" skaters was Alexej Urmanov, and because of his style he was often called superficial, phony, they (official US-sport commentators) called his costumes "elaborate" and he was generally seen as the negative opposite to the North-American "masculine" skaters (Browning, Stojko, Hamilton). Not the best example - it's also possible that the US-commentators just hated him because he is Russian.
Johnny Weir is my favourite example - commentators are careful to be politically correct when they comment on his skating, at least when he is skating his normal graceful style. But in 2006/2007 he tried a new style, and Dick Button was praising the new style as "more serious, more masculine, stronger, much tighter" - calling is old style "somewhat more frivolous". I just found that program and the style profoundly boring in comparision to this or this
(The second clip is from eurosport - with British commentators, these commentators never use words like "masculine", "feminine", "effeminate", they are really much nicer to listen too.)
One of the funniest headlines ever appeared on icenetwork (sponsored by the United Skates Figure Skating Association) after he won the Bronze in March at the Worlds. It said something "Never say Johnny Weir isn't a he-man - today he proved that he can shoulder the heaviest of burdens" When I read that I immediately asked myself: If Weir has now proven his "masculinity" by not losing his nerve in the freeskate - what's with the 17-year-old girl who just became World Champion a few days before? Does the fact that she hold her nerve (after a devastating fall at the beginning of the program) make her somehow masculine? Do you have to be masculine to shoulder a burden?
Very fascinating was also this NYT-article on Weir and Lysacek (IMO not worthy of such an exceptional newspaper), And on the ice, Lysacek will keep wowing the crowd with his feats, Weir with his flair. This is one of the more hilarious quotes of the article, IMO it kind of says that Weir doesn't have feats in his program?
Hmm, somewhere during this post I have lost my train of thought. Well, my point was that I consider these gender-specific attributes as absolutely irrelevant - not just because there are strong drag-queens, but also because there are lots of strong women. I also don't think that a certain amount of "effeminacy" in a male dancer makes him a "bad" partner in a dancing team - there have been lots of "effeminate" (hate that word, hate that word, hate that word...) ballet dancers who were absolutely amazing in the most prestigious Pas-de-Deuxs ever written for Ballet.
I think we should have moved beyond these prejudices a long time ago - it works the other way around too. My university is mostly technical and scientific - so I know lots of girls who study engineering, physics etc., they can tell lots of funny anecdotes where they were asked "A little tomboy then?", "Oh, that's unusual for girls", "I wouldn't have guessed that, you look more like a language student", "Wow, that's amazing, but isn't it rather difficult for girls?" and people automatically start looking for more "ungirlish" behaviour or attributes.
Well, I will now stash my inner feminist back into the dark corner of my personality where she normally resides. Being a feminist is just so masculine and unattractive.