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http://www.un.org/News/Press/docs/2007/gashc3899.doc.htm



Date: Wednesday, April 2, 2008
Location: Multiple locations
Description of event: World Autism Awareness Day with efforts by involving national media to bring attention to this historic day. Federal and provincial government representatives are being encouraged to wear the Autism Speaks puzzle piece pin and officially recognize April 2 in the House of Commons and provincial legislatures.



*Awareness night with the Toronto Rock Lacrosse Team (April 12, Toronto, Ontario)

* Autism-friendly movie day in partnership with Today’s Parent Magazine and Movies for Mommies (April 27, Rainbow Cinema - Promenade Mall – Thornhill, Ontario)


You can find more general information here: http://www.think-differently.org.uk/




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Hey, I don't know how many of you are communists, but what do you think of this Soviet children's book? Do any of you know where I can find a translation? And would any of you read this book to your children?
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This is about to read like one of those "I walked nine miles to school, uphill both ways, barfoot in the dead of winter over broken glass" stories, but I swear to you, it's not. It's true.

By the time I was nine years old, I was expected to get up for school on my own. My alloted shower time slot was from 6:30-6:45 if I remember correctly. If I went over that, there were big problems. We had one tiny bathroom and four(theoretically, mom actually slept in more often then not at this stage in my life) people to get through it.

I made my own breakfast.

I made my own lunch.

I packed my bag myself and that included all the things I needed for special activities like skating, granted, I wasn't involved in much extra curricular, no one really supported me in it.

I had to motivate my sister to get moving and get her things ready. This normally ended in me doing everything for her too. She's two years younger.

I went to the bus stop alone, with my sister and waited with the neighbour kids for the bus that took us to school.

When we got home, I was the key carrier, I let us in and I made us a snack. I made sure we did our homework and kept things "safe" until someone came home from work. This was only about an hour.

N is Nine...

She doesn't get up on her own most days.
She doesn't pack her own lunch, most days.
She forgets *everything* and if I was to run things to her every time she did, I would be running up to the school on average one day per week.

I'm at a point where I've decided that if Natasha forgets something, if it's not an emergency and it's not some special day like her birthday, I won't run it to her, be she at school or at her dad's.

I'm trying to encourage her to get up on her own since she takes *forever* to get dressed and eat in the morning on the days I wake her up (go figure?) and I'm encouraging her to pack her own lunch so she gets something more like what she actually *wants* to eat.

I don't expect the level of independance that was expected from me at this age, but I expect her to not need me every second. I don't think I'm required to put toothpaste on her brush, turn the taps on in the tub or fetch her toilet paper from the cupboard right beside the toilet when the roll's done. (For that matter, I'm tired of replacing the roll--she's perfectly capable!)

The question is--AM I ASKING TOO MUCH? AM I BEING TOO HARSH WITH REMEMBER IT OR YOU DON'T GET IT?

Oppinions please!

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Pursudo

Public Pumpkin Project (update)

kiwano

kiwano

Male, 26

Toronto, ON Canada

The Public Pumpkin project will be on October 28th. Carving will begin in Grange Park at 1pm (BYO pumpkin and carving tools; though some people may be willing to share the latter). After about an hour and a half, anyone who wants to skip the group carve (but why would you want to do such a thing) can come by, and we'll head out to decorate the city with our new jack-o-lanterns.

Everyone is responsible for figuring out how to keep their own pumpkin lit (either coming back to light it, using long lasting candles or flares, or maybe just dropping a turtle light in there and leaving it on), and also for collecting it in early November (because we're decorating the city, not littering).

Also, anyone who brings a bike with a lot of basket/trailer space, or a wagon, or some other light (i.e. not a car or anything) pumpkin moving device is sure to be hailed as a hero by the masses without such tools, who will be spared from having to lug their pumpkins around!

Again, Grange Park (at the North end of John St., just S of the AGO), Sat. Oct. 28, 1pm.

(the public pumpkin project is brought to you by the Melon Collective, and the letters P, J, and C)


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I just got a brochure in the mail for Lovable Labels (I requested it) and after looking at their website, I thought I'd share the info here.
These are amazing labels! They are personalized for your kids. Both stick-on and iron-on, and claim
"Our [stick-on] labels are UV resistant, dishwasher and microwave safe.  The iron-on labels are made with a special industrial material and are washer and dryer safe."
I especially like the ones for shoes. Brilliant! Apparently, you can request a custom logo/icon. I have e-mailed them asking what the pricing is for this, since my boys have outgrown most of the images offered, but haven't outgrown losing their stuff, lol!
The company is Canadian based (Mississauga, actually!) and shipping is free for Canada!

Lovable Labels


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Hi all! I just wanted to send out some *huge hugs* & CONGRATULATIONS!!! to [info]eveille & [info]steerpike on the birth of their daughter, Ellen, who was born yesterday afternoon. :)

Hope all is well with both of you & your new addition :)

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Has anyone here gone through making the decision of getting the Rhogam shot? If so, what did you decide and why?

I was just doing some reading on it and there are a lot of risks involved.

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HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!


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Hope all is well with everyone & their families :)
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Here's an interesting article for all the moms out there (particularly the stay at home moms):
http://www.pulse24.com/Business/Top_Story/20060503-002/page.asp
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Where do I begin? What do I do?
I've come to the shocking realization that potty training is the only thing I havn't read about a dozen books on and countless magazine articles about.
I'm pretty sure my daughter is ready. She's 18 months old and she's starting to acknowledge when she's going, not just when she's uncomfortable with a dirty or wet diaper.
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My son's teacher annoyed the Hell out of me today.
Rant warning! )
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Those of you who have older children, do you give an allowance.
If so, how old is your child, how much do you give, and what does s/he have to do to earn it, if anything.

Thanks!

x-posted

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So my hubby and I are putting a list together of everything that we are going to need for Ellen.

Any impute would be great.
I mean everything from crib to diapers we are putting on the list. So if there is anything that we may over look(since this is our first)please let me know. Or if there is something you found that you went through a lot of ie. wash clothes ext. that would be great.

Thanks.

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Does anyone know where in Toronto I might be able to get some decent looking nursing bras? Maybe even something a little sexy? I'm getting pretty sick of the "wal-mart whities".
I'm willing to PAY (though the cheaper the better, I have no problem forking out the bucks for something that looks half-decent)
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IT'S A GIRL!!!!!!!
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Maybe someone here can help me.

I am looking for a new born baby jumper with hornes. I have been searching on-line for awhile now for interesting fun baby clothes but have come up with nothing. Any sites you can recommend would be great.

If I can't buy one then I will make it but I wouldn't mind saving the energy.

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I figure that since I am now working on my 18th week I should join altparents. Steerpike and my spawn is due Aug. 8th. We are hoping that we will be able to find out what the little bugger is pretty soon. I am tired of waiting and I want to start making some stuff. Yes I am going to try my best to make as much of the stuff for our kid as possible. Clothes, bedding what ever comes to mind.
Well I just wanted to say Hello.
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I've been seeing a lot of children at Sneaky Dee's as of late..I mean young children, and several babies.
Now I'm definitely not one of those overly-zealous child-free people who feel that children should not inhabit the same restaraunts as adults, but I definitely draw the line at this.
Sneaky Dee's is NOT an environment in which children should be allowed. It's a little f*cked up to me that someone would bring their kids there in the first place (especially late at night, as I've been witnessing.)
Your thoughts?
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Oh yes, I forgot to post my announcement here!!

James Anthony was born on December 26th at 7:03pm,
weighing 7lbs 7oz and 19 inches long.

Drug-free birth after induction at Pembroke General Hospital after a bit of a fiasco with my home birthing plans.

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Hi all! Geez, it's been quiet on here lately...How's everyone doing? Hope everyone's Holidays are going well!
I'd also like to take a minute to say a huge CONGRATULATIONS!!! to [info]1in8 & her family on the birth of their new addition, James Anthony :)

As you may have noticed, there was no annual holiday get-together this year; However, I would love to schedule something for January, maybe a lunch or dinner...What do all of you think? Is there anything in particular you'd like to do? (Input is always very much appreciated.)

Also, I'm planning on taking my son to the Science Center sometime next week, while we're both still on vacation from school-Would anyone like to join us?

Hope everyone is happy & healthy :)
-Amanda. founder of A.P.T.

P.S. HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

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Current Music:
Coin Operated Boy-Dresden Dolls
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