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Things to know:

What we're about is the whole body...not just bits & pieces. In what format is up to you.

Guys: no penis shots unless you've got it dressed in an outfit. A condom is not an outfit!

Girls: no simply flashing your breasts or what's down below...there's other comms for just that.

This comm has the subheading Free Porn the Sequel so you're welcome to link good stuff you've found online...so long as it's a free site or from a free section of a pay site.

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Be aware there are professional models & photographers of fetish and adult entertainment in here. Amateurs are welcome but they do tend to get intimidated sometimes.

Most imporant above all else...be polite. When commenting, if you don't have anything nice to say then don't!

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NCSF Media Update -- October 22, 2006

Mon, 23 Oct 2006 18:00:03 GMT

National Coalition for Sexual Freedom -- Media Update
October 22, 2006
www.ncsfreedom.org
media@ncsfreedom.org

National Coalition for Sexual Freedom -- Media Update
October 22, 2006
www.ncsfreedom.org
media@ncsfreedom.org

1. Adult event hits the road in permit flap
2. No Pain, No Gain
3. Polyamory
4. A Friendly Hogtie
5. Vote looms for sex parties
6. SSFC squanders student funding
7. Rural swingers club violates zoning rules, officials say

Adult event hits the road in permit flap
by Christine Wallgren
The Boston Globe
October 19, 2006

The New England Leather Alliance has abruptly pulled its three-day Fetish Fair Fleamarket scheduled for January out of the Holiday Inn in Mansfield -- site of last winter's event -- and moved it to Danvers. The chairwoman of the Leather Alliance says town officials forced her group out because they were uncomfortable with the fair's adult contents.

"I think it's discrimination," said Vivienne Kramer, "and we don't appreciate this kind of treatment."

Kramer predicts local businesses will lose about $1 million in revenue due to the fair's departure. Last year, the event -- which features sexual paraphernalia and information -- drew about 5,000 people, she said.

Holiday Inn officials, eager to keep the business, appealed to the town and Massachusetts Land Court on the group's behalf, to no avail.

Mansfield officials maintain they are simply enforcing local bylaws -- specifically, the requirement that the group obtain a permit under the town's adult entertainment bylaw.

Last January the fair was held at the Mansfield Holiday Inn without incident, and without a required special permit, according to Building Inspector Nick Riccio, the town's zoning enforcement officer. It was the first time the event was held in town and the omission of a permit was an oversight, Riccio said.

"I wasn't even told about the flea market until a few days before it opened," he said. The New England Leather Alliance and Holiday Inn said they were unaware of any special requirements.

But this time around, town officials were determined to enforce the requirement for a permit, the cost of which is based on the square footage being rented. In the case of the Holiday Inn venue, the cost was $9,600, according to Kramer.

That was more than the New England Leather Alliance bargained for. "And even if we had paid the $9,600, there was still no guarantee we would get the permit," Kramer said. So the group decided to take its event to the North Shore.

This is the first time in the 15-year history of the event that a last-minute change of location had to be made, Kramer said. It is also the first time any kind of permit was required, even though the fair has run in Boston and several nearby suburbs.

And it was a first for Mansfield as well -- no past group has fallen under the requirements of the adult entertainment bylaw, which was revised in the late 1990s.

Kramer said that while her organization is now focusing on the Danvers event, Mansfield has not heard the last of the New England Leather Alliance.

"We may plan something in the spring just to show the town we are everywhere and we are harmless," Kramer said.

The fair -- which includes sex toys and other fetish paraphernalia -- is the alliance's biggest fundraiser of the year, Kramer said. Proceeds benefit such causes as domestic violence prevention and breast cancer research. Patrons of the flea market have never caused public safety problems for communities where the event was held, she said.

"If they had just come and seen the crowd at the Fetish Fair Fleamarket, they would have seen it looks like a crowd at a baseball game," Kramer said. "They are suburban middle-class people: your neighbors next door, looking to explore what interests them in their private life."

[continued]

To read this entire article, go to:
http://www.boston.com/news/local/articles/2006/10/19/adult_event_hits_the_road_in_permit_flap/
To respond, write to: the author at CLWallgren@aol.com or the editors at letter@globe.com

No Pain, No Gain by Sarah Gianetto
Arizona Central
October 19, 2006

A burning cigarette poised millimeters from the flesh of her chest, the woman on stage lets her head fall back in tense anticipation -- or is it ecstasy? -- as the ember inches closer. I watch, waiting for cherry to meet skin, wondering how being burned becomes a fetish.

People have all kinds of fetishes, but things that leave scars? I think for a moment and realize it's not as unusual as we might think. Remember the 1996 David Cronenberg film Crash (not the triple-Oscar winner from 2004)? No? This Crash depicts stars James Spader and
Holly Hunter delving into a subculture of scarred and mangled car-crash fetishists.

I think of my own fetish for vampires. They would leave scars, too. (Not that I've been bitten by a vampire...Or that they even exist...But, in theory, vampires would leave scars.)

Tonight, at the Arizona Fetish Ball 2006, held at the Venue of Scottsdale, I'm looking to find either a leash or a special ring. There are vendors' booths all over the place offering everything from raver toys and spanking paraphernalia (which a stranger asks me to demonstrate on him) to hair extensions and knives to - yes! - jewelry. On the second floor, near where an emcee auctions off a pair of feathered pasties modeled by a lovely lady in lingerie, I find Gazelle, who's selling belly dancing costumes and rings of the type I want.

The ring is similar to the one Lestat wore in Interview with the Vampire. (He used his when fangs just weren't discreet enough.) It fits on the tip of the finger and looks like a cat's claw. It's a harmless little accessory -- until it gets into the hands of my date. But even then, it's nothing compared to the performance art: people getting the skin of their backs punctured with hooks that let them hang suspended above the stage; the S&M stage where a woman in vinyl holds onto her friend as she's flogged; or, most notably, the couple with the cigarette.

[continued]

To read this entire article, go to:
http://www.azcentral.com/ent/music/articles/1019woman.html
To respond, go to:
http://www.azcentral.com/arizonarepublic/opinions/sendaletter.html

Polyamory
by Stephanie Sellars (opinion column "Lust Life")
New York Press
October 18, 2006

The first time I heard the term polyamorous, I was on a date with a guy who was simultaneously on a date with another woman. There was some confusion as to whether or not it was actually a date, but it sure seemed like one when he bought us drinks, sat in between us at the bar and gave us equal conversational attention. It crossed my mind that he might be trying to set up a threesome. When she went to the restroom, I asked him bluntly, "Is she bisexual"? "I don't know", he said. "I haven't known her very long. Why do you ask"? "Well", I replied. "This situation is a little odd - why did you invite both of us"? "I didn't think you were interested", he said. "And I had already invited her before you said you were coming". "I'm dating someone, but I'm not a fan of monogamy", I said. "You mean, you're polyamorous"? He said. "Poly what? What exactly does that mean"? I asked. "It's the opposite of monogamy. Multiple partners". "Oh, then I suppose I am - what you just said".

That was two years ago. Since then I have identified, more or less, as polyamorous. When I mention this to people, they usually assume I'm a swinger, if not a heretic. Polyamory isn't just about juggling multiple sex partners. The definitions vary, but generally speaking,
polyamory refers to multiple love relationships, whereas swinging typically revolves around uncommitted, emotionally detached, recreational sex. Literally meaning "many loves", polyamory includes: couples who have secondary committed relationships, triads, quads, group marriage, open marriage, intimate networks and singles with multiple romantic partners. Whatever the configuration, the common defining elements of polyamory (also known as responsible non-
monogamy) are honesty, openness and consent among all parties. Liars and cheaters need not apply.

Most people find it shocking that there's actually an ethical way to have your cake and eat it too. I never had the desire to be a deceitful whore. I enjoy play parties and casual sex, but I've always craved romantic connections with more than one person. So I've had open relationships and erotic friendships. I've been simultaneously in love with two men. I've been in love with a man and a woman at the same time. I've carried on multiple relationships while feeling strong bonds with exes and peripheral lovers. I can't say that it's been easy, but throughout all these experiences, I've tried to be as honest as possible.

Like many poly people, I was polyamorous long before I knew there was a name for it. Birgitte Philippides, a thirty-something artist residing in the West Village, has been polyamorous all her life, but officially only in the last three and a half years. She says, "There is one model in society for relationships - monogamy. The other is cheating - it's more socially acceptable for me to have a boyfriend and cheat on him than it is for me to openly love more than one person".

[continued]

To read this entire article, go to:
http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm
To respond, write to: editorial@nypress.com

A Friendly Hogtie
by Luke Navarro
SF Weekly (San Francisco)
October 18, 2006

Recently, after downing an after-work beer, my strait-laced friend Raoul unexpectedly jumped off his barstool and blurted, "I'm gonna be late to my first Shibari class!" Hmmm, some kind of sushi? "No man, BDSM Japanese rope bondage. You should come!" Images of a hogtied, ball-gagged Ving Rhames from Pulp Fiction stormed my brain. "Uh, I have papers to grade." (I teach junior high.)

My friend had just gotten into a feisty new relationship with a woman who liked a little spank-and-tie in the bedroom. Not wanting to appear anything less than a fifth-level dungeon master, he considered this outing a way to acquire "essential skills."

Twenty minutes later, after a carpe diem pep talk, the two of us were semiconfidently strutting past bondage racks and vinyl chairs with stirrups, down the dark hallways of the Citadel, Mission Street's own "community dungeon." While the place hosts classes called "Kinky
Japan Revealed," "Public Humiliation," and the Mysterious "Bootblacking Workshop," this evening was demurely titled "Rope Bondage Peer Workshop."

Inside was a fairly innocuous and geeky group - resembling, perhaps, a Radio Shack employee barbecue - crowded around a table, comparing rope. A grizzled old guy (someone's grandpa!) let me touch his: "Mine is marine quality tough, but softens in water." I was fondling samples of a red, hand-dyed silk variety when suddenly Raoul whipped out a 25-foot black nylon rope from his shoulder bag and whispered, "I got it from Stormy Leather on Howard. Let's do this!"

[continued]

To read this entire article, go to:
http://www.sfweekly.com/Issues/2006-10-18/news/suckafreecity3.html
To respond, write to: letters@sfweekly.com

Vote looms for sex parties
by Mike Goodwin
The Albany Times Union (NY)
October 17, 2006

SCHENECTADY -- The City Council is expected to approve an ordinance next week to dramatically expand the types of adult businesses the city regulates -- potentially closing a Union Street inn that holds sex parties for swingers.

The council's Development and Planning Committee approved the tighter regulations Monday night, setting the stage for a vote by the entire council at its next meeting to increase the number of adult businesses regulated by the city and determine where they can locate.

Lawmakers are expanding the rules that forbid pornographic bookstores and strip clubs from existing anywhere but industrial zones. The legislation would expand the list of businesses that can operate only in industrial zones to include hotels that offer room rentals for sex, pornographic theaters, escort services and nude modeling studios.

The move comes nearly nine months after neighbors began complaining that Union Street Bed & Breakfast was holding loud parties and advertising gatherings for sex on its Web site. But the inn's owner, Bob Alexson, said the parties are private affairs in his own home and off-limits to government regulations.

But committee Chairman Frank Maurizio said he expects that once the legislation is passed it will stand up to legal challenges and force Alexson to end his parties or host them in one of the city's industrial zones, the only sections of the city where sex-related businesses would be allowed to operate.

...Alexson, who promised a legal battle if the city tries to close his establishment or halt the parties, said his inn is outside the reach of the government.

"What I do in my own private home is no one's business," said Alexson, who added that his parties do not meet the qualifications to be regulated as a sex club.

[continued]

To read this entire article, go to:
http://timesunion.com/AspStories/story.asp?
storyID=526284&category=SCHENECTADY&BCCode=&newsdate=10/18/2006
To respond, write to: the author at mgoodwin@timesunion.com or the
editors at
tuletters@timesunion.com

SSFC squanders student funding
by Danny Tenenbaum (opinion and editorial)
The Badger Herald (The University of Wisconsin-Madison)
October 17, 2006

Every semester, countless students are shut out of classes that fill up within minutes of opening. Academic departments simply lack the funding to pay for the extra teaching assistants and lecturers. While not directly related, lengthy waiting lists for courses like Arabic
and Urdu can seem ridiculous when we consider that another portion of our tuition money continues to be funneled into the pockets of Sex Out Loud "facilitators", who hold under-attended lectures covering topics like "BDSM and sensation play" and how to go about "pleasing
yourself and your partner(s)".

Of course Sex Out Loud, a student organization with a recently doubled budget of $88,849, isn't going teach these pertinent skills without props - rest assured that our money is also going to the purchase of dildos and vibrators. President Reagan once wasted $44 billion in an attempt to use lasers to protect America from nuclear missiles. In 2003, amidst two under-funded and overly ambitious wars in Southwest Asia, President Bush allocated $1 billion to "protect marriage". And now Sex Out Loud needs a hundred thousand dollars to protect you from - um - improper masturbation technique?

Every year, the Student Services Finance Committee becomes the most hated group of students in Madison as they sift and winnow through page after page of organizational budgets, searching out and deleting attempts to make students pay for gratuitous travel expenses and other questionable uses of tuition money. This year, Sex Out Loud did their best to abuse the segregated-fee system and ultimately succeeded, getting funding for brand new sex toys as well as rent for an expanded office on State Street (the most expensive address in Madison).

[continued]

To read this entire article, go to:
http://badgerherald.com/oped/2006/10/17/ssfc_squanders_stude.php
To respond, write to: the author at drtenenbaum@wisc.edu or the
editors at oped@badgerherald.com or comment at end of article

Rural swingers club violates zoning rules, officials say
Associated Press report via The Fort Wayne Journal Gazette (Indiana)
October 12, 2006

A rural swingers club is facing fines of $300 per day after Shelby County officials decided it was in violation of zoning ordinances.

The club, called Topside II, was the main topic of discussion at Tuesday night's meeting of the county plan commission.

"This isn't something that you would expect in rural Indiana", said Shelby County Sheriff Tom Debaun.

Amy Butcher, executive director of the commission, said the owner, Gary James, had moved the club onto an old farm he had bought in rural Shelby County after running afoul of zoning officials in Indianapolis, where she said he had operated a similar club.

The club's Web site described it as one of the Midwest's oldest swingers clubs.

"We don't know if any of this activity is illegal", Debaun said. "All of their caveats on their Web page say they don't tolerate illegal activity, so that people who are participating in this are participating of their own free will, and they are supposed to be adults".

However, Topside II's Web site does request donations - from $5 for single women to about $30 for single men and couples - from those who attend the club about 15 miles southeast of Indianapolis.

The donations could be enough to classify the club as an adult business, officials said, and the area is zoned for agriculture and single-family residential use.

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To read this entire article, go to:
http://www.fortwayne.com/mld/journalgazette/15741962.htm
To respond, write to: letters@jg.net

HOW TO WRITE A LETTER TO THE EDITOR

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Generally, for a letter to be published, it's important to include your name (or first initial, last name), city and daytime phone (for verification only).

For more information, see:
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Please alert us to positive, negative or neutral stories about SM, swinging and polyamory at media@ncsfreedom.org

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I'm going to let you in on a little secret

Fri, 20 Oct 2006 20:27:14 GMT

8:04 PM 10/19/06 · It's a little known fact as to why I first put de House·of·Skin together. I mean, sure, some probably assumed horny guy with more than a little too much free time who wanted a simple way to get his hands on pictures of hot women sans clothing may've crossed a few minds...

...which isn't too far from the truth.

Pay attention: Yes, there's (NWS) content under de cut...though to be fair you can't see any of the typical "No No" areas.

I actually did it so I could get cool backgrounds, like this, for my desktop.

Surprised?

show me some

Mon, 16 Oct 2006 00:42:36 GMT

Anybody know what happened to the community show me some? It looks like it has been suspended for some reason. I was just curious why.

Q&A from Cheri Magazine

Wed, 27 Sep 2006 15:27:19 GMT

2:03 PM 9/23/06 · Even though it was Lacie Heart who was the focus of this particular interview, it was the one with Jesse Jane that most often sticks with me; she welched on a question. Basically she said what seems weird to "civillians probably isn't weird to me. This was disappointing because it's a load of crap! The question was about what she felt was the weirdest based on her experiences...not those of the general population of the planet.

Anyways...

The questions in this one are pretty similar, if not exactly the same, to the ones she was asked so I thought I'd have fun filling them out. Also figured, as my wonky little brain works that way, maybe a few of you would like to take a shot at these too:

When did you realize your calling to be a porn star?
Have you ever danced professionally?
What's your feeling about platsic surgery and/or breast augmentation?
Are you all natural?
What's the best thing about being a porn star?
What's the worst thing about being a porn star?
What's the last concert you went to?
What's in your iPod right now?
Do your sexual attitudes change once the cameras start rolling?
How long have you been in the business?
What are to pros and cons of being a freelance performer vs. a contract star?
Does your family know what you do for a living?
How do they feel about it?
What kind of stuff do you like to read?
What's your favorite non·porn movie?
If you could have dinner with anyone, living or dead, who would it be?
If you won the lottery tomorrow, what's the first thing you'd do?
What size cock do you prefer?
Do you have anal sex in your films?
Ever do a gang·bang on film or in person?
What are your feelings on oral sex, both giving and receiving?
Any special techniques you use?
Do you prefer having sex with or without condoms?
Do you prefer men or women as sex partners?
What is your favorite sex act?
What was the happiest day of your life and why?
What is the weirdest place you've ever had sex?
What's the most perverted thing you've ever done?
What kind of music do you like listening to?
Which of your movies are you most proud of?
What does the future hold for you?
Anything you'd like to say to the people reading this?

When did you realize your calling to be a porn star? Oh, I suspect I've always known, since that first day in daycare. But the thing that clinched it was when I started having sex the number of women I pleasured that recommended the field to me. That or an escort...could've gone either way.
Have you ever danced professionally? I can't even dance unprofessionally.
What's your feeling about platsic surgery and/or breast augmentation? Not for me but I don't much mind others getting it done.
Are you all natural? Every last little bit of me.
What's the best thing about being a porn star? I really enjoy the snacks at the buffet table.
What's the worst thing about being a porn star? Are you familiar with smegma?
What's the last concert you went to? I don't goto concerts. I fine them very gauche.
What's in your iPod right now? I despise Apple products. Other mp3 players are fine and my musical tastes are all over the place.
Do your sexual attitudes change once the cameras start rolling? Yes they do. When the camera turn on I run and hide. No problem having sex in front of people but put some film into the mix and I'll disappear in a puff of smoke.
How long have you been in the business? Let's see *counting on fingers* I'd say all of about never.
What are to pros and cons of being a freelance performer vs. a contract star? Freelance is more fun because I can go where I want and do who I want howerver I want. Then again, that contract's handy because if anybody gives me any shit I can hit them over the head with it.
Does your family know what you do for a living? Oh yeah...I told them all about it.
How do they feel about it? They're very supportive.
What kind of stuff do you like to read? Just about anything that pushes the bounds of reality. Got a real fixation for the Anita Blake series by Laurell K. Hamilton lately.
What's your favorite non·porn movie? I've got a lot of them, watch a lot of movies, but Ghostbusters never goes out of style.
If you could have dinner with anyone, living or dead, who would it be? Angelina Jolie...so long as I can spoon feed her the ice cream.
If you won the lottery tomorrow, what's the first thing you'd do? Buy back the house I grew up in...the new people have let the flowers outside die and that's just wrong.
What size cock do you prefer? Well *pointing down* this one's been working for me okay; I grew it myself. It's deceptively effective...I think it's about average and most women think it's huge.
Do you have anal sex in your films? It's not my thing. I'll do it on request, depending on the lady, but I don't tend to offer it.
Ever do a gang·bang on film or in person? Nope...I was once offered to get in on one but as I didn't know the other guys I decided to pass.
What are your feelings on oral sex, both giving and receiving? I love to give it but can go either way about receiving it. I'm very desensitized, part of the reason I so rarely orgasm during sex, and I've found only women with exceptional skills can even make it feel good. Which isn't to say it doesn't feel okay otherwise but in those cases it's just...eh.
Any special techniques you use? My inability to orgasm has heightened my desire to get the women I'm dining on as much pleasure as she can take short of her head exploding. Depending on where I may start or not, I tend to focus on peeling the labes aside and the hood and concentrating on the clit. If the lady is into some or a lot of pain I may take it between my teeth to draw it out and flick my tongue rapidly over the tip of it. It's good to get the hands in on it as well, a finger or two to stimulate the G·spot simultaneously is always a nice touch. If she has what is sometimes referred to as curtains...I'll suck as much of it into my mouth as possible and apply pressure. More often than not, I just wing it.
Do you prefer having sex with or without condoms? Were it not for the safety factor, many a scary cootie out there, I'd always go bareback. Not a big fan of the little raincoats.
What is your favorite sex act? The ones where there's little acting involved.
What was the happiest day of your life and why? I could say the first time I loved someone and they loved me back but that's so cliche (how ya doing Debbie?). We've had 3 dogs since I've grown up but the 3rd was technically my Sisters...though I spent more time with that one then she did. Getting the first two, separately, was a job beyond words. There little faces, excess flesh and fluffy all around. I even didn't mind the puppy breath so much that first day.
Do you prefer men or women as sex partners? Women work for me. It'as possible I may give a guy a shot someday but I really kinda doubt it.
What is the weirdest place you've ever had sex? Beind a 7·11, 4 in the morning, on top of an A/C unit, while a racoon was watching us.
What kind of music do you like listening to? Anything I can zone to, doesn't need to be a specific genre. Trance tends to work pretty good.
Which of your movies are you most proud of? In junior college I made this film where my dog Heidi tracked down my sister and killed her. It was on 8mm, still got it around here somewhere. It took a lot of ketchup and patience but it was well worth it.
What does the future hold for you? I'm immortal so that parameter is a bit more vague with me than most. I'll have to get back to you.
What's the most perverted thing you've ever done? Who's to say? What one person takes to be perverse another finds rather common. That said...nothing comes to mind.
Anything you'd like to say to the people reading this? Don't drink and drive, never accept a wooden nickel, patience is a virtue, never take any gods name in vain, people that don't like chocolate have issues, etc.

Note: On impulse I dug up the magazine that Jesse Jane answered this interview in and discovered she had a few questions not in Lacie's take. Some were the same but different on a minor point; iPod question switched to CD player. So I added some of hers into this after the fact.

Also, even though these questions were specifically aimed at women that are porn stars...you don't need to be either to answer. Do what I did...have fun!

Hi

Mon, 21 Aug 2006 23:44:43 GMT

I just wanted to say hi, I just joined today. I maintain the cybersex community. I figure I add this community in case I have any future problems.

I suppose it's about time

Tue, 01 Aug 2006 16:18:17 GMT

Running an adult community or two, where members are encouraged to post images of themselves or others in erotic fetish gear or varying states of undress, can be pretty fun. Of course, the problem I have is when I post an image of a model I admire or lust over, or both, I tend to run the gambit of a bunch of random nutjobs flirting with me because they think the image is actually me.

The first couple times it followed a kind of logic but after awhile it was just getting weird.

To be fair...I think it's finally time I shared a naked image of myself:

Are you happy now?
^{...mostly naked is close enough...}

just to give you the heads up...

Mon, 26 Jun 2006 22:51:47 GMT

...dopple is now me.

Damn those LJ·Abuse peoples!!

Fri, 03 Mar 2006 14:14:13 GMT

come check out the beautiful girls of bbwporn!

this community was created to serve as place where BBWs, BHMs, and their partners can post photos. the goal of this community is to promote acceptance and positive body image. we'd love to have another member of our big, beautiful family. :)

-j

Member community list

Wed, 15 Feb 2006 18:04:05 GMT

It took me awhile, for which I'm sorry, but it's done. The user info for the community now lists all of the communities I know of which have mods on this community.

The list is:
_adult_promo
ass_wednesday
bbwporn
bondage_a_gogo
dallas_bdsm
darkpinupgirls
house_of_skin
ineedtogetlaid
ljbooty
mocha_calor
naked_parties
nekkidbbw
nekkidbhm
odd_sex
oooooh_shiny
party_nudes
phantasexx
phat_tuesday
show_your_boobs

Please let me know if there are any I should add or remove.

Fri, 03 Feb 2006 16:55:41 GMT

just wanted to remind everyone about my little corner of LJ -- bbwporn!

this community is a place where BBWs, BHMs, and their admirers post all types of insanely sexy photos, so definitely check it out! not to mention, we're having a calendar contest right now to choose girls for the upcoming Hottest Girls of BBWPorn calendar!

hope to see you there! :-D

-j

cross posted like WHOA! sorry if you saw this, like, 10 times. :)

Newly banned user...

Wed, 18 Jan 2006 16:06:40 GMT

I just banned the user dirty_olman after he tried to post the following message on one of my communities:

DEMANDS
BANTOWN DEMANDS THAT LIVEJOURNAL.COM POSTS THAT THEY "HAVE BEEN TROLLED BY BANTOWN".

UNLESS ONE MISS DENISE PAOLUCCI HERSELF POSTS TO news THAT "LIVEJOURNAL HAS BEEN TROLLED BY BANTOWN", THE ACCOUNT STEALING WILL CONTINUE. I REPEAT: UNLESS THE FAT SLUT POSTS TO news TO ANNOUNCE THE OVERALL TROLLED STATUS OF THE WEBSITE, ORGANIZATION, AND COMPANY BY BANTOWN, MORE LIVEJOURNAL USER ACCOUNTS WILL BE HIJACKED.

Do not take this as a joke.

We are far from kidding.

Sun, 01 Jan 2006 01:16:39 GMT

I banned the member jesterstear from my community, for complaining about a rule change I made on it. Now he has done this before in the past, and today he was just a real asshole to me, so I took him off. Just giving you other members a heads up, and letting you know he may cause trouble in your groups too.

Wed, 28 Dec 2005 18:16:44 GMT

i'm looking for tips on promoting my community!

any ideas???

-j

bbwporn

Intro....seems like the thing to do today...

Thu, 08 Dec 2005 00:26:07 GMT

Hi, I'm Dawn aka dfwleathergirl and I mod the dallas_bdsm community. It is an adult community that serves DFW area LJer's who have an interest in the BDSM and Leather lifestyle. Fortunately we are pretty low maintenance when it comes to being a moderator for it, but I am hoping that the first of the year gives me the time to put some more effort into generating discussions and participation with the members.

I also am a member and sometime poster to many other adult groups...including some who's mods are members here!

Thanks for starting this group and letting me join. I think it is a great idea and look forward to participating!

Intro~~

Wed, 07 Dec 2005 22:10:08 GMT

Hi I am onesexiladee. I am a co~mod for show_your_boobs and nekkidbbw. I think this community is a great idea. Right now I am going through the entire 17,000+ list of members for show_your_boobs and deleting the members without birthdates etc.

Well thats about it and once again thanks for a great community!

Wed, 07 Dec 2005 18:59:32 GMT

intro time... :)

my name is jenn and i'm the moderator and creator of bbwporn. i started it after joining nekkidbbw and being inspired! the community is supposed to be for pictures of people actually *doing* stuff, but it is mostly just a copy of nekkidbbw. anyway, my co-mod is total_static. i love my community and i'm happy to be here and to get to share tips, advice, warnings and so on with all of y'all!

-j

Member-community list

Wed, 07 Dec 2005 18:44:02 GMT

It occurs to me that having a list of communities moderated by our membership, added to the userinfo for this comm might be a groovy and handy thing. Unless I hear objections from you great folks, I'll assemble one from your intros and post it up later this week.

EDIT: Okay, so far it looks like these are the adult communities modded by members here:

_adult_promo
ass_wednesday
bbwporn
mocha_calor
naked_parties
nekkidbbw
nekkidbhm
party_nudes
phantasexx
phat_tuesday
show_your_boobs

Please let me know if I'm missing anything, of if any of you wants your comm to be left off the list for any reason.

For the Other Mods Here

Wed, 07 Dec 2005 01:40:00 GMT

This member for sure should be removed from your groups. He is a major dick, that has stalked a few of the women from my community...

revolutionary79

I'd take him off ASAP

EDIT: I think I may have found one of the russian guys who are stealing the pics and adding to that russian website, that a lot of us mods are hearing about. There is also a totally russian community, that talks about picture exchanging...which seems very fishy to me. pics_exchange is the group and here is the guy _conversations_. I'd ban him as well.

Sat, 03 Dec 2005 05:29:32 GMT

Hi there...I'm Doug and I think this is a pretty good idea for us mods of adult type communities. That way we can give eahc other a heads up on the people that we ban and such. Anyway I'm the creator and owner of show_your_boobs, one of the biggest communities on LJ(can you tell I'm proud of that...hehe), that has nudity in it. One of my co-mod's (and my girlfriend) is also on this community onesexiladee, and then I have 3 more, cause it's hard to run it alone. We always seem to have drama on the community at times, but it's not always so bad. The community is 3 years old I think...maybe even more, and we have like 16,000+ members. Probably more than that, I haven't looked at the stats lately. So yeah anyway not sure what else to say really...but hello everyone heh

just a little help..

Fri, 02 Dec 2005 00:23:32 GMT

I posted this in my community nekkidbbw
and thought i'd share it here.

Heres a list of the people who have been banned from my community.
These top two are in just about EVERY BBW community on livejournal and they're CONSTANTLY causing trouble. They're both steadily attacking me and focusing on me right now. If you know any other screen names or anyway i can get them to not be able to comment to my pictures in a community,that'd be wonderful. I've already set it to where they can't comment in my personal journal,but that obviously doesn't work if you post in a comm. So heres the list.

melissachickswf
jezusofsuburbia and we're pretty sure his other name which is also banned is yallwantasingle but we're confident hes got more. So if you know of more please let us know. Those two are the BIGGEST problems. If you run a community here on livejournal,and they're in your comm. or on your friends page. Watch out. For now i'm just ignoring them. They act like they're 3 and i'm too old for that.

now heres the rest of the people who have been banned
hombrelobos_99/djsinthe/absintheofcolor (all the same person)

googledude

toplflite

the last 3 were banned basically for rude comments to the girls and or making them feel uncomfortable. By saying they could do something sexual better to the girl than the girls husband could,after the girl asked for them to respect their marriage.

So thats whose been banned from mine. Good luck!

hi

Wed, 30 Nov 2005 23:27:58 GMT

So heres my intro.
I'm Tina I live in Arkansas and i'm 25.
I am the owner and main mod of nekkidbbw
and I co-mod with my husband the male version which is nekkidbhm

Ummm..I do modeling for paid sites. One is www.Poisondolls.com and hm. Other than that I don't know what else to say in here. I don't really have any tips that i can think of right off. I've had nekkidbbw little over a year I think and its got over 1000 members so I've defintly had my share of problems. I have in the user info whose been banned and why with most of them. If you'd like to take a look and see if any are in your community and If I don't have why they've been banned or I just put "they're a cunt" lol and you'd like details feel free to ask. Other than that,I think this community is a great idea.
Oh! I do have one suggestion. For those of you who run naked bbw adult communities (or probably naked ones period i don't know) I would suggest not letting in russian journals. Some of my pictures as well as many others from communities on livejournal have been stolen and put on a site that is all russian. So my community now has banned any journals that aren't in english or any journals that have no enteries or profile unless the person with the empty journal emails me and lets me know they speak english and are not going to cause trouble in the community.

Other than that,Not much else for me to say here.

-Dead Gurlie-