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11 October 2008 @ 04:08 pm
 
macbook back online.
it was an operating system problem like I thought.

I will write this down to remember:
DO NOT DOWNLOAD UPDATE 10.5.5!!!!!
IT WILL DESTROY YOUR COMPUTER.

hooorayyy my life is back.

the Apple store is so cool.
i am soooo tired. @_@
 
 
Current Mood: awake
 
 
11 October 2008 @ 05:11 pm
1 reason to like Thomas Friedman  
What? Even a stopped clock is right twice a day.

It was when she turned to Biden and declared: “You said recently that higher taxes or asking for higher taxes or paying higher taxes is patriotic. In the middle class of America, which is where Todd and I have been all of our lives, that’s not patriotic.”

What an awful statement. Palin defended the government’s $700 billion rescue plan. She defended the surge in Iraq, where her own son is now serving. She defended sending more troops to Afghanistan. And yet, at the same time, she declared that Americans who pay their fair share of taxes to support all those government-led endeavors should not be considered patriotic.

I only wish she had been asked: “Governor Palin, if paying taxes is not considered patriotic in your neighborhood, who is going to pay for the body armor that will protect your son in Iraq? Who is going to pay for the bailout you endorsed? If it isn’t from tax revenues, there are only two ways to pay for those big projects — printing more money or borrowing more money. Do you think borrowing money from China is more patriotic than raising it in taxes from Americans?” That is not putting America first. That is selling America first.

Sorry, I grew up in a very middle-class family in a very middle-class suburb of Minneapolis, and my parents taught me that paying taxes, while certainly no fun, was how we paid for the police and the Army, our public universities and local schools, scientific research and Medicare for the elderly. No one said it better than Justice Oliver Wendell Holmes: “I like paying taxes. With them I buy civilization.


Now by all means spend our money wisely: no military adventuring in countries that haven't attacked us, for instance. Actually pave our fucking roads and fix our schools and pay down on the national debt, to continue. But don't tell me that corporations and rich people can get handout after fucking handout for the American gov't and then repay us by parking their money into offshore accounts. Hello, roads and laws and enforcement of contracts, and police and tax-breaks galore and subsidies and the list goes on and fucking on! Hell YES, we all benefit. SO FUCKING WELL PAY YOUR TAXES.
 
 
11 October 2008 @ 04:26 pm
Sarah Palin abused her power and broke the law.  
[info]vee_ecks has a summary of the first 81 pages of the report You really should read it, its laughs a plenty all the way.

My fav bits:
Oh page 44 a guy from Palin's security detail says he met with the Palins right after the election to go over arrangements and asked them about anything like, you know, a crazy ex-brother-in-law threatening to kill all the Palins he might need to know about. They said they couldn't think of anything. A couple of months later, all of a sudden there's this crazy brother-in-law threatening to kill all the Palins and no evidence to support this or anything, just Todd Palin's word for it. And Todd Palin calls the guy several times after to make sure he's all warned up about this threat. Over the same time, Sarah Palin cuts her security detail by half and pretty much stops taking security along anyplace with her. Which is mostly around home. (You know, the whole "I'm not only not going to work in the capital with everybody else, I'm going to collect per deim year round for sleeping and eating at my house" thing.) Which is also where Mike Wooten still lives and works.



And

Palin's sister got less of a community property split than she wanted and less spousal support because the judge was concerned that her ex-husband was going to lose his job any day now due to pressure from her and her family and thus would likely be unable to pay at his current assessed income level. Nelson "HA-HA" to that.


Seriously, there's many a snorfle, snicker and jaw drop to be had.

And then when you have finished, here are a couple of interesting analysis' :

On ethical behaviour and how to fuck up your subordinates by pushing them to do things you and they know are illegal )
 
 
11 October 2008 @ 04:35 pm
National Coming Out Day  
Today is National Coming Out Day.




Human Rights Campaign.

For those of you not in the know (and I'm surprised if you're not), I'm an out bisexual cisgendered woman who is in a heterosexual monogamous marriage.

I support equal rights for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered people.

If you'd like to share anything in celebration of National Coming Out Day, PLEASE do! Either here or in your own journal! :) Maybe even share your coming out story with others?

I plan on writing mine up (perhaps tonight). In the meantime, happy NCO DAY!
 
 
Current Mood: cheerful
 
 
11 October 2008 @ 01:04 pm
Scales & Goals:  

Okay, we have to get a new scale. Ours sucks major ass. So, we'll be going to Bed Bath and Beyond today... because Lorens wants some crazy hot sauce that some guy at work had. The scale we want is like $60, it's a lot but it tells you all sorts of crap and it seems like it would be rather accurate because it asks for age, height, and gender. Yay for new scales!

I've been working on my list of rewards(Loren helped):
 

1. 211.6 - Ed Hardy flip flops (my 3rd pair).
2. 10% goal 199.4 - J'adore Perfume.
3. 189 - COACH or Dooney and Bourke purse.
4. 179 - Disneyland trip.
5. 169 - Shopping spree for clothing.


after I reach 169 I have no idea where to go from there, but I will be out of the "obese" category which would be awesome enough. :) To reach my first goal of 211.6 I only have 1.4 pounds to lose, so hopefully when I get back from Vegas next week, I can order my flip flops. Of course I will go with my weight when I wake up on Friday... not when I come back from Vegas because either I will gain weight due to delicious (yet horrible for me) food and tons of alcohol. Or, I will weigh less because of drinking too much... either one not good. So we will see. I hope I hope. :) I might change my rewards who knows, by that time I may want something different. But, I will make sure it's around the same price range or so.
 

 
 
Current Mood: ecstatic
 
 
11 October 2008 @ 12:22 pm
*Pictures*  

Okay, with LJ cuts not working, it's really bugging me... I hate having really long entries, but oh well.



Loren enjoys yard work... how many of you want a husband like this? :D


A full body picture... I still have a long ways to go... but really not that bad. :)


He is learning how to be a good boy in the car!!! :)


He was a little nervous, lol.


He was watching some duckies. He wanted to jump in, haha.


Of course, we had to take a picture.


He's so pretty and well behaved. :)
 
 
 
11 October 2008 @ 02:43 pm
Just got this email...  

With just 24 days to Election Day, we need your help. The latest polls show us behind, but you can change that.

We need you to pick up the phone and start talking to voters. And we've made it simple, fun and effective.

3 ways to call voters:

  • Go to a Local Phone Bank
  • Organize Your Own Phone Team
  • Phone From Home
Click on the following link to get started: http://www.NoOnProp8.com/wecallvoters

The fact is defeating Prop 8 may come down to the number of voters you did or did not call. It's that simple. And it's that important. It's the difference between winning and losing.

So whether you join us at your local phone bank or make calls from the comfort of your home, we need you to pick up the phone today!

http://www.NoOnProp8.com/wecallvoters

Let's start and finish the conversation once and for all!

Thank you.

Sarah Reece
Field Director
No On 8


Click to contribute >>

 
 
11 October 2008 @ 02:35 pm
Guys. Srsly. We are in trouble here.  
Via crooks and liars


The Yes on 8 campaign honestly surprised us with the strength of their fundraising. For a while, we weren't quite sure how much they were up on us, because they broke the Secretary of State's reporting system. Their report was too large for it to handle. The reporting system is fixed, but the numbers are still jaw-dropping.

They have raised $24.3 million to our $15.4 million.

A lot of that has come in from small donors. LAT:

But the "Yes on 8" campaign also is particularly successful at mining small donors. It raised $4.5 million in increments of less than $1,000, and $8.6 million in donations of less than $10,000. That works out to about 46% of its money.



Apparently, the Mormom church is throwing its full weight behind Prop. 8. They need to be defeated. Please.
Please help and spread the word.

Here's where you learn all about it.
Here's where you give.
Better yet,HERE'S the O2B NO on Prop 8 page.
Here's where you help kill it dead for good.
Prop 8
 
 
11 October 2008 @ 02:05 pm
Well, if Ayers is a symbol of Obama's bad judgement....  
I see your Ayers and raise you a G. Gordon Libby

What, you've never heard of him? Oh that librul media!
 
 
11 October 2008 @ 10:06 am
OLOTEAS Samhain Event 2008  
Our Lady of the Earth and Sky invites all to join us for our Samhain event! The event will include a workshop, a ritual in a stone circle in three parts beginning at opening circle, a potluck feast, an indoor pool/hot tub, and wetlands to explore.

Date: Saturday, October 25th ~ 2 pm - 10:30 pm

Where: 23301 NE Redmond-Fall City Road - Redmond 98053 (see directions below)

Event Schedule:
10:00 am Work Party (Please do not arrive before 2:00 pm unless you are attending the Work Party or the Bunnyslopes class)
12:30PM – 3:00PM “Bunnyslopes: Part 2”
2:00 pm Site Opens (for those not attending the Work Party or Bunnyslopes)
3:15 pm Opening Circle: Tam Lin’s Initiation: Part 1 and Orientation
4:00 – 5:30 pm Workshop: “Working with the Dead”
6:00 pm Potluck Feast
7:00 pm Newcomers' Discussion
7:45 pm Pre-Ritual Discussion with Ritual to Follow: Tam Lin’s Initiation: Part 2
10:15 pm Pool/Hot Tub and Shrine Close
10:30 pm Closing Circle: Tam Lin’s Initiation: Part 3, Site Closes, Clean Up

Bunnyslopes: 12:30pm – 3:30pm “Bunnslopes: Class #2” (with Jayson et al)
OLOTEAS presents…Skiing the Magickal Bunny Slope: A Really, Really Introductory Course on Wicca, Magick and Everything. The second class falls on the OLOTEAS event day for October and will take place at the same location as our event, which is the Longhouse. Enrollment is open to all, but we ask that no new students attend after the first class date. If you’ve taken the class before, you’re welcome to come to any session you may have missed previously, or re-take any you found particularly interesting. This class is completely, absolutely, 100% free of charge! It is presented twice a year as a community service of OLOTEAS, and is supported by donations from our ritual events.

Workshop: 4:00pm – 5:30pm “Working with the Dead” (with guest presenter Mambo Kineta, Blockhouse):
A discussion centered around Fet Gede - Vodou's Day of the Dead Celebration. We’ll discuss the principle players of this holiday: The Baron, Mama Brigit and their children The Gedes - the innumerable spirits of The Dead. We’ll also cover methods of working with the Ancestors and how to work practical magick through Ancestor service.

Ritual Information: “Tam Lin's Initiation: A Ritual Drama in Three Parts” (from this month's ritual writer and director, Stephanie):

Come with us as we follow the legendary figure of Tam Lin through his Underworld Initiation. Participants are strongly encouraged to stay from opening circle through closing for the full ritual experience. If you are unfamiliar with the story of Tam Lin, visit www.tamlin.org to see different versions of the story from which this month's ritual draws its inspiration.

Feel like dressing in costume? Dress as a Dark Fairy to join the Unseelie Court's procession during the main ritual.

Our main ritual will include a reading of the names of our beloved dead. If you would like a name to be read in the circle, please send email to Stephanie (at) oloteas (dot) org and include the name(s) and how to pronounce it/them if it isn't obvious. You do not need to be present at the ritual to submit a name, and the name can be anyone who has passed whom you wish to honor.

What to Bring:
Snacks for yourself, a potluck item to share, and your own feastgear (plate, cup, utensils), as on-site supplies are limited. You might also want to bring a towel for pool/hot tub use (note: the pool area is clothing-optional). Shoes cannot be worn inside, so a pair that can be slipped easily on and off is a plus. We strive to do the main ritual outside, regardless of weather, so please bring layered clothing for colder/wetter weather if desired. No meat may be prepared on the kitchen surfaces (pre-cooked meat is acceptable). Feel free to bring and play your drums or other instruments. Also, please note that, due to allergy and wildlife concerns, no pets are allowed on site (except service animals).

Registration:
We have a suggested donation of $10.00 for adults, $5.00 for children 13-17, and $2.00 for children 2-12; this includes all aspects of the event. It is important for event and ritual planning that *all* people check in at the front door. Please do not arrive before 2:00 pm unless you want to attend the work party at 10:00 am or the second Bunnyslopes class at 12:30 pm.

A Note About Children:
This site features a swimming pool, hot tub, and numerous natural outside features that pose potential risks for unattended children; therefore, children MUST be under adult supervision (in line-of-sight) at ALL times during this event. With respect to the pool, an individual adult may be responsible FOR NO MORE THAN 3 CHILDREN (those 13 and under). There are no organized children's activities, although there are games and crafts for kids.

A Note About Noise at the Longhouse:
The Longhouse requires that participants keep the noise level very low after 10:00 pm. Loud noise includes car alarms (so make sure your alarm is turned off), car muffler issues or backfiring (if your vehicle has issues, please park at the top of the hill parking lot), loud motorcycle engines (again, please park at the top of the hill parking lot), drumming or other music (if it continues long after ritual, please stop and ask a staff member if there is a space indoors where drumming or other music could continue until 10 pm), and loud talking in the parking lot (voices carry over to the neighbors'). Also, please be considerate and enter and exit the site quietly.

A Note About Parking and Carpooling:
There is limited parking at this site - please carpool if at all possible. Once at the site, due to limited space and potential number of participants, we advise that folks leave most personal belongings in their vehicles.

Directions:
Take 520 eastbound to the Redmond Way/Fall City (WA 202) Exit. Turn right at the light at the end of the off ramp. Go approximately 5 miles on Redmond-Fall City Road. Driveway is on the right, 23301 (directly across from Guardwell Storage). If you pass Albertson's, you have gone about 100 yards too far. When you first pull into the drive you should immediately see a large wooden sign that says The Longhouse; if you don't you are in the neighbors' drive.

Our Lady of the Earth and Sky
PO Box 20032
Seattle, WA 98102
Website: http://www.oloteas.org/
Email: oloteas@oloteas.org
 
 
11 October 2008 @ 12:40 pm
Oh my GOD, some fundamentaist Christians are cruel, bigoted little FUCKS!!!  
Class surprises lesbian teacher on wedding day

A group of San Francisco first-graders took an unusual field trip to City Hall on Friday to toss rose petals on their just-married lesbian teacher - putting the public school children at the center of a fierce election battle over the fate of same-sex marriage.

The 18 Creative Arts Charter School students took a Muni bus and walked a block at noon to toss rose petals and blow bubbles on their just-married teacher Erin Carder and her wife Kerri McCoy, giggling and squealing as they mobbed their teacher with hugs.

Mayor Gavin Newsom, a friend of a friend, officiated.

A parent came up with the idea for the field trip - a surprise for the teacher on her wedding day.

"She's such a dedicated teacher," said the school's interim director Liz Jaroflow.

But there was a question of justifying the field trip academically. Jaroflow decided she could.

"It really is what we call a teachable moment," Jaroflow said, noting the historic significance of same-sex marriage and related civil rights issues. "I think I'm well within the parameters."


Nonetheless, the excursion offers Proposition 8 proponents fresh ammunition for their efforts to outlaw gay marriage in California, offering a real-life incident that echoes their recent television and radio ads.
It's just utterly unreasonable that a public school field trip would be to a same-sex wedding," said Chip White, press secretary for the Yes on 8 campaign. "This is overt indoctrination of children who are too young to have an understanding of its purpose."

The trip illustrates the message promoted by the campaign in recent days, namely that unless Prop. 8 passes on Nov. 4, children will learn about same-sex marriage in school.

"It shows that not only can it happen, but it has already happened," White said.

California Education Code permits school districts to offer comprehensive sex education, but if they do, they have to "teach respect for marriage and committed relationships."

Parents can excuse their child from all or part of the instruction.
MORE


Its unreasonable? When parents came up with the plan and signed off on it? When the rules state that teaching about committed marriage is okay? What the fuck is WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE??? NOT EVERYONE LIVES BY YOUR FUCKING RULES, GODDAMMIT! Just because you are cruel, vindictive, small-minded little fucks, doesn't mean that the rest of the population is! Take your self-righteous rage and CHOKE ON IT. God can't you assholes be raptured from the earth so that the rest of us can live free of your poison???? DAMN YOU for using children to support your own bigoted ends! And DAMN YOU for not recognizing the right of other parents to have their children taught the way they want to. DAMN YOU.


If you go to the articles, there are pics of the wedding day. They are really beautiful.

In the meantime, what he said

Here's where you learn all about it.
Here's where you give.
Better yet,HERE'S the O2B NO on Prop 8 page.
Here's where you help kill it dead for good.
Prop 8

 
 
11 October 2008 @ 05:22 am
Pledge-a-Picketer  
http://www.dailykos.com/storyonly/2008/10/10/125151/87/93/626397">How one woman reacted to protestors outside her local Planned Parenthood. Aww... That makes me all warm and fuzzy.

Preterm, the clinic I'll be at later this morning, runs a Pledge-a-Picketer campaign. It's a tactic I'm really fond of -- turns the antis activities back on them, without running up against the fine lines on freedom of expression. It's also been used to good effect by GLBT centers targeted by Phelps and his lot.

Oy. It's 5:30am. I've been up since about 4, and I really need to get back to sleep for a bit before I have to be at the clinic at 7:45. I'm with Casey today, though, which means a ride, and excellent company. And I'm at Preterm, not the Center, which means shade. Yay!

Dad's doing the phone upgrades for our family plan. I'm getting a Blackberry Curve! Yay!

This has been a week of sleep deprivation, brokeness, and medical worries, but it's actually been quite good all 'round. Lots of good company; [info]may_dryad, [info]syrinx_77, Casey, Bill, [info]calebbullen, our couchsurfer Libby. Other than hanging out, I've been utterly sucked into the election; it's been a fascinating week, and I've acknowledged that my interest in what's going on is really approaching sports fan level -- aside from all the really important stuff, the little trivialities of who's "scoring points", who's on the injured list, etc, etc... It's all really entertaining me (of course, it's a lot easier to enjoy that element when things are looking good for the eventual outcome).

I'm waiting on a puzzle from eBay -- finished the dragon a few days back, although I haven't pulled it off the porta-puzzle yet. I'm semi-seriously considering getting a pizza spatula, or whatever it's called, to make that easier. Too many of the puzzles I do have odd-shaped pieces and don't hold together remarkably well.

Currently reading Your Inner Fish, which is quick and short, but remarkably full of fascinating ideas and info; I'm enjoying it immensely. Actually originally heard about it due to The Colbert Report -- the author did a remarkably good and funny job holding his own against Colbert while explaining some relatively complex concepts.

Also, the house is clean, Caleb moves in this weekend, I have Netflix coming, and a giant stack of fascinating library books to work through. I also have three books I set aside at Visible Voice, although I can't collect those 'til payday next week.

Oh, and lemon bars from Civ. Yum. Have two more in the fridge.

OK, going to try to get an hour nap before Casey gets here.
 
 
Current Mood: cheerful
 
 
11 October 2008 @ 03:15 am
 
I have discovered a time of day when there are no episodes of CSI: Miami airing on any channel.

This is a good thing, right? I mean, it is one of the worst shows ever made. And yet it is strangely fascinating, like a blister. You KNOW you should leave it alone, and that if you poke at it, revolting and painful things may happen. But you do it anyway, or at least I do. And then you end up fiddling with your sunglasses in a wholly inappropriate manner, and it's all downhill from there.
 
 
 
11 October 2008 @ 02:45 am
 
new bike,
new friends.
good times all around.
 
 
11 October 2008 @ 02:27 am
 
food talk )

Unfortunately though food and diet stuff is the easiet thing for me to control and deal with in my life :(
Which is why I got a bit frustrated with that one dude at the counseling center who wanted to just focus on my history with disordered eating. Actually not my biggest concern right now. The biggest concern with me and food is me not letting myself use an obsession with food, dieting, and excersize distract me from everything I should be doing. Cause it's really easy for me to fall into that. (and on the other side it's easy for me to say "I can't think about food and exercise I have this other stuff going on" and eat only pizza and cookies in larger than necessary quantities.
 
 
11 October 2008 @ 12:49 am
things I now know that I was happier not knowing -  
+ Nearly 1 in 6 mortgages is under water, which means that the amount due on the mortgage is worth more than the mortgage is worth, a phenomenon credited to the slide in housing prices. These people are stuck. Let's say that you bought your house for $500,000 two years ago (this isn't all that high for much of Massachusetts) and now it's worth $300,000. You paid with a $50,000 deposit. Now let's say your company tells you that they're moving your job across country. If you manage to find someone to buy your house for the $300,000 that it's now worth, you still owe the bank $150,000 above that. So you can't move - where are you going to get the money for a deposit on a new place? Or the 150 grand out of pocket it will take you to get out of your current one?, and *poof!* your job is gone. (On the other hand, for those who will not be moving, it isn't *terrible* - the house prices will probably go back up someday. Just for now, they're stuck).

+ Iceland just went bankrupt. Like, the country. The National Bank of Iceland's holdings were several times the GDP of Iceland (lol), whose population is smaller than Wichita, or Tampa (...lol). Anyway, the banks were leveraged all to hell, and they started to falter, and Iceland tried to bail them out... and couldn't, and now their country is bankrupt, and seeking international aid.

+ Morgan Stanley is not expected to last the weekend. This would leave exactly one investment bank standing on Wall Street. On the bright side, when the last one fails, at least the Wall Street meltdowns will stop.

+ GM's stock dropped something like 31% in one day this week, and I haven't been tracking them but I'd be shocked as hell if it hasn't continued to drop. I do not expect GM or Ford to be around 10 years from now. Why would anyone buy cars right now, when houses have lost 30% of value in the last 2 years, when getting loans is damn near impossible, when gas is anywhere between 3 and 6 dollars a gallon depending on where you live, and when, if you do decide to buy a car, you could buy a Toyota for the same price and get a car that runs well AND gets 1.5x the gas mileage? ...As a sidenote, as for when they do fail? See point #1 for what happens to Detroit...

Oof. I feel like I have been cheated out of my future. I do not want to live through a Depression, what the fuck.
 
 
11 October 2008 @ 12:08 am
Medical movies, part 2:  
Dr. Ehrlich's Magic Bullet, about the guy who pioneered non-mercury syphilis treatments. Win!
 
 
11 October 2008 @ 12:08 am
A button for EVERY Obama supporter.  
Seriously


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10 October 2008 @ 08:59 pm
 
Tomorrow is the wedding day of two of my lj nearest and dearest, [info]uisinger  and [info]detlef .  I don't really know what to say--you both mean so much to me. 

So I'll just say this, as they do in Panama: may you live a hundred happy years.  I'll be thinking of you tomorrow.