Listen, if you complain that your therapist says you should postpone your wedding, your fiance has violated your trust, your fiance is out all night without coming home, and you state he puts no effort into your relationship, how many bricks have to hit you in the head before you realize "Gee, maybe I shouldn't get married?" Stop complaining about the effort you put into your wedding planning. Stop planning for the big party and plan for a marriage. I don't get these women and then the minute you tell them they deserve a man that treats them right, they pout like a 2 year old and play the "I'm not talking to you game". I'm not that hard up for friends that I'm going to baby people and making them think they're right when I think they're asking for an abusive relationship. Don't complain about how your relationship is shit and then get pissy when others tell you "you don't deserve to be treated that way". Grow up.
Frank and I aren't perfect but we love and RESPECT one another. We BOTH put an effort into our relationship and we value our upcoming marriage more than a fancy party. We understand that relationships are not 50/50, each person gives 100%. We don't have therapists telling us to postpone getting married, he hasn't violated my trust, and Frank has never walked out of this house to stay out all night. He's not perfect but he's perfect for me.
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