cherryblossom26 ([info]cherryblossom26) wrote in [info]_knowyoulive,
@ 2008-07-12 04:42:00
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Current mood:awake

New coping method please?
OK.
So cutting is something I do usually when I'm alone at home and I'm sad/mad/stressed, or any other emotion I can't deal with; and I smoke cigs and drink whenever I get the chance.
Mostly I smoke because, ya I'm addicted now and I feel like i need it, or when I'm really stressed/sad/mad, same reasons pretty much. But cutting and smoking are both hurting yourself, just in different way.
That's sort of why i didn't mind starting smoke two years ago, because sometimes I didn't care about myself, and other times I thought maybe it would help me stop cutting...? It didn't, i just have 2 bad habits now. So I'm trying to stop both of them.
If anyone could offer any other type of coping method that I can use while I'm home and while I'm out, that would be a big help. I never really learned how to cope with stuff by watching my family, everyone just holds everything inside and lets it out when there alone, i guess, or maybe they just have a healthier coping method than i do, idk.
Anyway, if you could give some suggestions that would be great, thx =).




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[info]starcrossthesky
2008-07-12 09:38 am UTC (link)
Try to go for walks when you are feeling the urge to hurt yourself, this helps me.
Or, if possible, take a warm shower to relax or maybe a long bath. Baking also helps me keep my mind off things, because I have to pay attention to what I am doing.

I'm not really sure what you are into, that I could offer a way to cope, so those are a few of mine.
Something else that always makes me feel better as well, cuddling my dog or cat. Maybe you could volunteer at a shelter a few times a week? I don't know.

I'm also unsure about the smoking thing, but http://www.becomeanex.org/ looks like an interesting site. Its supposed to be a different way to look at quitting.

Hope I helped a little and didn't just type a bunch of gibberish. Its very early. ^^

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[info]afikitty13
2008-07-12 03:30 pm UTC (link)
I am still trying to find other coping methods myself but I have heard that playing an instrument can help...if music means something to you. Playing something can be a good way to let emotions out (or so I hope...) Good luck!

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[info]yoursforever_me
2008-07-12 10:16 pm UTC (link)
excersize - cos it uses energy, you can work until your muscles hurt, but it's good for you.

apparently masterbating(sp?!) helps cos of the hormones or endorphines or something it produces.

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