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[Day 3] Health


Two years ago [info]rageprufrock began the first 14 Valentines and she spoke of how women are praised in song, worshiped in poetry, and derided in culture. She spoke beautifully and elegantly of women, comparing our bodies to luminous flowers. She spoke of the state of women, and the need to remember what we go through, what women throughout the world suffer through.

We are daughters, sisters, mothers, and lovers. If we choose, we can bring life into world with our blood and nourish it with our bodies, but the world that we helped create, that women have bled for and fought for and cried for, doesn't recognize us. Our history is one of abuse. We are not safe.

Women suffer from domestic violence and rape. We are devalued. We are taught that we are lesser. There is still so much work to do, so much for us to accomplish.

It's 2008 and Hillary Rodham Clinton is, as I write this, campaigning for the Democratic presidential nomination in the U.S. Yet, even as this is happening, women are being killed the world over, suffering from infanticide, dying from lack of medical care, killing themselves in the fight to be what society tells them they must. One in three women will still experience sexual assault in her lifetime. So much has changed and so much has stayed the same.

It's 2008 and we've come so far, but there is still more work to be done. We deserve better, and we can do more. We're strong. The next fourteen days is meant to remind us of that. It's our time to take back our bodies.

V can stand for vagina, like Eve Ensler's groundbreaking monologues. V can stand for violence, under whose auspices all women continue to make a home.

V can also stand for victory.




Health

October is National Breast Cancer Awareness month. Everything from yogurt to cars suddenly are pink and everywhere you look, people are encouraging you to examine your breasts, to get your mammograms, to be aware of your health, to know the facts about this life threatening disease. Women come together to support each other through marathons, auctions, and rallies. Support for the cause is everywhere you look, and millions of dollars are raised annually for research into this disease. It's amazing and awe inspiring, and it doesn't last.

November rolls around, and the issues concerning the health of women are still there, even if the pink and the breasts have been banished from the public consciousness for another year. The bias in the medical community is staggering - the leading cause of death in US women is heart disease. Out of over twenty thousand volunteers, there were no women involved in the study that concluded that a small dose of aspirin can reduce the chances of having a heart attack. Worldwide, cervical cancer affects about 1 per 123 women per year and kills about 9 per 100,000, and yet the vaccination for the virus causing it is still being argued against in the US, on the grounds that it may encourage teenage sexual activity, and many insurance companies are refusing to cover the costs. Women are denied safe and sanitary abortions all over the world, and birth control is often difficult to come by, despite the wear and tear that constant childbearing has on a woman's body. September is set aside for ovarian cancer awareness, but doesn't receive even a fraction of the attention that the next month will get, regardless of the fact that ovarian cancer is the fifth most deadly cancer to women.

Progress is slow, but it's coming. In 1993, the FDA ended its decades long ban on women being involved in drug trials at all, instructing drug companies that "women simply must be included." The fact that a vaccine for HPV, the virus that causes cervical cells to mutate and become cancerous, even exists is a huge step; that the state of Nevada has made it law for health insurance companies to cover it is another. (New Hampshire and Alaska have passed bills requiring the state to cover the cost for girls up to age 18.) Organizations like Susan G Koman for the Cure continue to raise money for breast cancer research - the battle is year round, not just in October.

There are organizations like the National Women's Health Network, which, as their mission statement says, has been working for over thirty years to improve the health of all women by developing and promoting a critical analysis of health issues to affect policy and support consumer decision-making. NWHN helps keep us informed and pushes for funding for research and policies that support women and women's health.



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[info]lavvyan
2008-02-03 08:08 am UTC (link)
Title: Logopetria
Fandom: Stargate: Atlantis
Rating: G
Summary: John watched in horrified fascination as Rodney literally choked on his words, strangely-shaped objects spilling from his mouth in utter silence except for his coughing and ragged breath.
Link: http://lavvyan.livejournal.com/210950.html

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[info]kyuuketsukirui
2008-02-03 10:07 am UTC (link)
Multi-fandom master list of fics about transgender and intersex people (fandoms include SGA, Harry Potter, Star Wars, Sky Captain, Ma Vie en Rose, bandom, jrock, Top Gear, and original fic)

http://kyuuketsukirui.livejournal.com/812985.html

(Can be categorised under recs.)

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[info]v_angelique
2008-02-03 03:06 pm UTC (link)
Title: Healthy and Happy
Fandom: Lotrips AU
Rating: G
Pairing: gen
Link: http://v-angelique.livejournal.com/94644.html

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[info]plsteward
2008-02-03 03:28 pm UTC (link)
http://plsteward.livejournal.com/78507.html - wallpaper: inside under the skin we all are the same, but not really.

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[info]bluflamingo
2008-02-03 03:32 pm UTC (link)
Title: Getting to Know You
Fandom/Character: Stargate Atlantis, Cadman + Lorne friendship
Rating: PG
Summary: Pretty much since they met, their friendship has a lot of lying for each other to hospital personnel and roughly the same amount of watching each other’s backs off world.
Link: http://bluflamingo.livejournal.com/44860.html

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[info]incidental_fire
2008-02-03 03:50 pm UTC (link)
Recs list: 32 short Stargate Atlantis humor fics

http://incidental-fire.livejournal.com/16503.html

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[info]misslucyjane
2008-02-03 04:23 pm UTC (link)
Title: Lost in Waiting
Fandom/Character: Torchwood, Jack/Ianto
Rating: PG
Summary: Four times Jack and Ianto didn't go on a date, and one time they did.
Link: http://community.livejournal.com/lucyjanesparlor/18586.html

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Day 3
[info]neo_star0114
2008-02-03 04:37 pm UTC (link)
Title: The Emperor; The Heirophant
Fandoms: Due South, SG-1
Rating: G
Description: Drawings plus recommendations for each fandom
Link: http://neo-star0114.livejournal.com/23601.html

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[info]belladonnalin
2008-02-03 04:50 pm UTC (link)
fiction!

Title: i see the girls are out, a lot of freaks in the house
Fandom: bandom
Rating: R
Summary: At college, Lyn-z finds a place, a name, a whole person. She finds a life."
Link: http://gonnafeelgood.livejournal.com/11722.html

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[info]an_kayoh
2008-02-03 06:04 pm UTC (link)
Title: Jayne Cobb Hat
Rating: G
Crediting: Pattern by Dryope
Description: Fourteen knits for fourteen days - hat.
Link: http://an-kayoh.livejournal.com/120873.html

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[info]ghostrunner7
2008-02-03 06:06 pm UTC (link)
Musical mix of songs depicting women as In charge, on top, and knowing what they want.

http://ghostrunner7.livejournal.com/35342.html

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[info]druidspell
2008-02-03 07:24 pm UTC (link)
In 1993, the FDA ended its decades long ban on women being involved in drug trials at all, instructing drug companies that "women simply must be included."
I told my sister this, and she told me, "But women could get pregnant and it could ruin their lives." And then I replied, "But if women aren't allowed to test drugs that could potentially save their lives, there's no way to understand how the drug could affect them, and taking non-tested drugs could kill them."
She still wasn't sure which she'd prefer.

We've got a long way to go, still. But at least steps are being made, and people still push for more steps to be taken.

My best friend is one of the 1 in 123; the vaccine could have saved her from the cycle of remission/relapse we're enduring now. I will never understand how parents and politicians would rather have their daughters be unprotected (and still potentially sexually active!) than give them a measure of security against a cancer that can kill them.

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[info]whetherwoman
2008-02-04 12:23 am UTC (link)
Yeah. For me it's a question of whether you're taking part in a drug test knowingly or unknowingly. Because seriously, if a drug hasn't been tested on women who consented to be part of a trial group, you're the trial group.

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[info]bunnymcfoo
2008-02-04 01:13 am UTC (link)
and see, this is where certain expectations that society holds come into play so strongly. I mean, the idea that women shouldn't participate in drug trials because they could get pregnant totally ignores the fact that there's a significant number of women who don't want kids, aren't sexually active, don't have sex with men, or who can't have children. I honestly think that the only reason the ban lasted as long as they did is that society fully expects that every single woman in America is going to want kids. *sigh*


And yeah. I was, am, whatever, one of the 123 as well. I was lucky though, and they caught my abnormal pap and were able to cryo my cervix before I could actually develop cancer. The idea that there are people out there who put their antiquated moral code ahead of the health of women gives me rage blackouts.

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[info]rageprufrock
2008-02-04 03:11 am UTC (link)
Oh, honey, I didn't know you were one of the 123--but I'm glad that they caught it, and that you are here to tell us about it, and to work on this project with us. *smothers you with kisses* Also: stay a rockstar, babe. I know this schedule's pretty punishing, but only you know, 11 more days!

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[info]bunnymcfoo
2008-02-04 07:05 am UTC (link)
*twirls you* dude, you and vi are the rockstars here, I just throw code up on lj. :D

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[info]belladonnalin
2008-02-04 06:22 am UTC (link)
Ugh. And let's not even get into the number of women whose chances are drastically raised because we were sexually assaulted or abused as kids, right? (note: I am not assuming bunny's history, only my own). Because the earlier cervical/penile contact, the higher risk that we will deal with cervical cancer and ... fuck. It's not just about pregnancy/possible pregnancy. It's really, for so many of us, about not even understanding the risks.

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[info]bunnymcfoo
2008-02-04 07:16 am UTC (link)
I just. *hands* I've accepted the HPV, I've accepted that this disease is something that I'll have to deal with the rest of my life. I've accepted that its presence means a primarily celibate life, because that's the responsible choice. I've accepted that should I ever have kids, I'll have to have a c-section, because that's the responsible thing to do. I've accepted the elevated number of paps that I'll have over my life, and the elevated chances that they'll have to freeze my cervix off again, at least once. I've accepted the very real likelihood that I'll have to deal with cancer before I die. I mean, it's not fun, but it could be worse. I'm not dying.

What I can't and refuse to accept is that for thousands and thousands of women out there, this could be prevented and that for some fucked up reason, a bunch of moralistic puritans think that a vaccine is a bad idea. Seriously, if it was a vaccine for, oh, throat cancer, you think they wouldn't be jumping all over it?

I actually cried the first time I saw one of the one less ads, no lie.

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[info]belladonnalin
2008-02-04 07:23 am UTC (link)
Fuckin' A, me too. Because ... fuck those people who don't GET THAT. I mean. I rarely judge, honestly. But ... vaccinate your fucking CHILDREN, you know?

You know.

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[info]amothea
2008-02-04 06:06 pm UTC (link)
yeah I got HPV through sexual abuse growing up and while sure I was probably too young to get the vaccine even if they had it at the time but I can't imagine not wanting this for all young women, just in case.

so basically yes, I get tested as often as possible for abnormal pap smears and I'm always worried in the back of mind that I'll get cancer because I'm now more at risk for it.

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[info]bossymarmalade
2008-02-03 07:36 pm UTC (link)
http://stubbleglitter.livejournal.com/451028.html

Bottled water, and why its evils go beyond just recycling.

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[info]domtheknight
2008-02-03 08:14 pm UTC (link)
21 health-themed icons here (or raw link http://community.livejournal.com/icons_wtf/8324.html if useful).

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[info]watersword
2008-02-03 10:07 pm UTC (link)
6 icon posts recs.

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[info]siljamus
2008-02-03 10:37 pm UTC (link)
A short essay on the controversy and even censorship connected with Pippi Longstocking. "Female voices: Pippi Longstocking"

http://siljamus.livejournal.com/50091.html

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my contribution
[info]subliminal_muse
2008-02-03 11:39 pm UTC (link)
http://subliminal-muse.livejournal.com/2008/02/03/

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[info]idyll
2008-02-04 12:21 am UTC (link)
Title: Not a Pretty Girl - Home with Bob
Fandom: Bandom: MCR
Rating: PG
Summary: They guys are nervous about meeting Bob's mother.
Link: http://idyll.livejournal.com/420612.html

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[info]bunnymcfoo
2008-02-04 01:07 am UTC (link)
96 icons of Panic at the Disco

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[info]hyperfocused
2008-02-04 02:26 am UTC (link)
Poem: World Enough And Time

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[info]rageprufrock
2008-02-04 03:09 am UTC (link)
Title: Post-Nuptial
Rating: NC-17 (Not for the reason you think.)
Summary: (SGA) “What the fuck, McKay!” John yelled. “I can’t take you anywhere!”
Link: http://rageprufrock.livejournal.com/315307.html

Fucking Bravo, ladies.

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[info]pocky_slash
2008-02-04 04:18 am UTC (link)
Title: Nothing is Different (But Everything's Changed)
Fandom: SGA, Teyla-centric
Rating: PG
Summary: Teyla evolves.
Link: http://pocky-slash.livejournal.com/1178582.html

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[info]arysteia
2008-02-04 07:51 am UTC (link)
http://arysteia.livejournal.com/99605.html

Georgina Beyer: Stripper, Prostitute, Transexual, Mayor, Member of Parliament, Mana Wahine (Woman of Respect)

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