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Once an episode starts to air things partaining to that episode are no longer considered a spoiler. So if you are not on eastern time don't come here until you have seen the episode. You can be a member here and not have the community on your friends list. The only difference is that you will have to come to the community to view the posts rather than read them on your friends list. Some things might not be considered spoilish to some...if there is a debate I will be the judge.